What people tell us may be true. FOR THEM.
Which gives them the courage of their convictions. Make them sincere. So none of the signs of lying are there, because they are telling the truth AS THEY SEE IT.
That does not make it true/validate it for US.
Find the transcript for this episode here https://datingkinky.com/blog/healthy-boundaries/they-may-be-right-that-doesnt-mean-they-are-right-for-you/