This episode is not about blame. It’s not about boundaries. And it’s definitely not about fixing yourself.

People don’t take advantage of you by accident. They follow the standard you keep allowing.And that sentence makes a lot of women uncomfortable not because it’s wrong, but because it removes the villain.

In this episode, I’m breaking down why patterns persist even when you “know better,” why boundaries collapse without internal standards, and why calling something confusion is often a way to avoid making a decision.

We’re talking about:• Why patterns don’t continue because they’re hidden. They continue because they’re allowed• The difference between boundaries you say and standards you enforce• Why “knowing your worth” means nothing if your behavior contradicts it• How over-explaining, rescuing, and staying too long trains people how to treat you• What real authority looks like when you stop negotiating with yourself

If you’ve been tolerating what you already know isn’t okay, explaining instead of deciding, or calling avoidance patience, this conversation will hit home.

This episode won’t hype you up. It will sharpen your awareness and leave the responsibility where it belongs.

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