Kay is back and the drinks are flowing. We talk about everything from food, zodiacs, manipulation, and maturity. Learning and evolving in order to find true fulfillment.

What qualities do we look for in people to have kids with? Dating someone with multiple kids? How many is too many? Healing insecurities and learning where to draw the line in relationships. It’s a lot to unpack

The lengths that we went to in order to feel grown. Was it all fun and games or is there something deeper under the surface? Would we want your kids to experience the things we did?

Selfishness in relationships. How can our mindsets get in the way of what we truly want. How do you step up to the plate and become the people we’re meant to be. Therefore getting what we want from life and relationships.

We’re feeling nostalgic. Teacher’s pets, school yard fights, skipping class and so much more. Tapping back into that inner child. The person at the core.

The messiness of hiding in plain sight. Would you ever introduce your main thing to your side piece? Where’s the line when it comes to disrespect? Then, in terms of moving forward how do you change the narrative of the thoughts holding you back?

What’s the point of trying to people please? Who’s it even for? Sugar daddies? Why? You can’t handle that hellcat!

It’s not ideal to always have to be the bigger person. Sometimes it’s necessary though. Can we learn to accept for who and what they are without taking it personally?

Jay was on his hall monitor and caught me off guard. We start by reflecting on our growth and how things have changed. It quickly turns into a conversation about facing fears and putting pride aside to get what you want out of life, or at least some closure.

Is the search for greener grass always worth it? What’s behind the search? Can some people just never be satisfied? How do you change it?