Thinking Out Loud with Karla & Ambra

It's TOLKA time once again & it's a jump off from last week's discussion that stirred so much thought about what's real and relevant on social media!  Karla & Ambra are back to discuss the lives people live on social media that can shape your reality though not really rooted in reality. They suggest that what you see on social media is not necessarily what you get and to be careful of comparing yourself to the well crafted images and storylines! It's not at all how it seems sometimes because people are not always what they "post" to be!

Ambra is back and so is "Co-Co" Host Kimeshia! All three ladies sit down to discuss what are NOT marriage goals for them!! This crew goes there like only they can, raising questions about staying in unhealthy, unhappy marriages simply for the sake of being married! Do some treat marriage as a status symbol elevating them above their unmarried counterparts? Is it a bad marriage if individual expectations are being met? What are your relationship goals and deal breakers!

Well.....let's think out loud about it!

The best friends sit down for another deep dive into the principle of Submission and its place in successful relationships. The dynamic duo have much to add to their previous conversation however this time they get a fresh perspective from the other side. Join the discussion as a man speaks! What does he have to say about submission?

The word submission is one that provokes all kinds of reactions! We associate it with living in fear, cowering in the corner, and being afraid to speak, have an opinion, or disagree. Join Karla and her guest as they discuss the taboo word and its effect on relationships. The conversation between these ladies, one single, the other married, will make you consider your own thoughts about what submission means and what it doesn't!

Karla and Ambra have a very candid conversation with a special guest, Dexter Floyd, about Will and Jadas Red Table Talk concerning her Entanglement with August Alsina. Is there really a double standard for what we perceive to be predatory behavior from men vs women simply being considered cougars!?!? Let's have the conversation Entanglement 2.0.

It has been said "the world is a book and those who do not travel read only one page." It's also been said that "travel opens your heart, broadens your mind and fills your life with stories to tell." Listen in as the dynamic duo discuss the benefits of travel and how it can literally save your life! Highlighting the importance of collecting moments instead of things, Karla and Ambra give accounts of their own wanderlust experiences including a recent trip to paradise.  After this episode, you'll want to pack your bags and go!

In this episode, Karla and Ambra open up about mental health, a topic that is not often discussed objectively and honestly. They share some alarming statistics along with some personal experiences regarding their own mental health. It's time to level up and stop being quiet about the matters of our mind! 

One of TOLKA’s most devoted listeners decided she didn’t quite agree with the opinions shared on the episode titled “Is God a Matchmaker” so she decided to come and Think Out loud with us and share not only her differing opinion but her own personal love story!

This episode is a must-listen! Karla and Ambra discuss the divide within the African American community in regards to skin tone while addressing the effects of colorism across racial lines. Are darker complexioned people really treated differently? Are black people quick to identify racism from others but ignore what we do to each other? Listen in as the two friends, who are as different as they are alike, have the most emotional and UNCOMFORTABLE conversation since their journey began! They share their own experiences in this question of dark and light skin preferences that will blow your mind and make you examine your own! This one hits deep because this one is personal!