There’s an old image I came across called “Knocking on a Deaf Man’s Door.”
And the first time I saw it, I felt it more than I understood it.

Because if you’ve lived any amount of life, you know exactly what that feels like.

You knock.
You wait.
You knock again—maybe a little louder this time.

You’re hoping for movement.
For a sound.
For any sign that what you’re saying is being heard.

But nothing comes.

Knocking On A Deaf Mans Door

In this episode, I share a simple moment that turned into a powerful lesson. While struggling to fix a tiny pin in a watch bracelet, frustration set in fast—but stepping back taught me something bigger: sometimes it’s okay to walk away and let someone else handle the small stuff. Tune in as I reflect on patience, perspective, and learning when to stop forcing things that just aren’t clicking.

That was the statement a Sunday school child made to me today. Wow! Eleven years old. Kids these days need their parents to be present.

You ever notice how easy it is to judge things by the outside?

Two watches can look almost identical.
Same steel. Same weight. Same shine on the wrist.
From a distance, you’d swear they’re the same.

But then you open them up.

And what’s inside tells a completely different story.

One has a movement that’s been carefully crafted, regulated, refined.
The other works too—it keeps time—but it’s built differently.
Different purpose. Different cost. Different depth.

The DOXA

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I bought a watch thinking only about market value—what I paid versus what I could get back out of it. It was supposed to be a flip. Easy math. Simple plan.

Then I dropped it.

The crystal cracked, the repair bill came in, and suddenly I had more in the watch than it was worth. At that point, selling it didn’t really make sense anymore. Once I had more invested than the market value, it stopped being inventory and started being something I needed to keep.

That’s when it became my favorite watch.

Not because it was perfect—but because it cost me something.

In this episode, I reflect on how value changes when investment enters the picture, and why the things that cost us the most often end up meaning the most. It’s a story about loss, perspective, and the quiet ways God keeps investing in us—time, grace, patience, mercy—even when the world says we’re not worth it on paper.

Because sometimes the things we’re meant to hold onto don’t make the most financial sense…
they just make the most sense for the soul.

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World War II sparked a notable surge in church attendance that extended into a full-blown postwar religious revival in America, challenging claims of decline. Polls and historical data from the era reveal packed pews as returning GIs, marriages, and baby booms fueled spiritual fervor. Mega church pastors citing negative effects may overlook this well-documented boom.

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Imagine being bitten by a snake, not rushing to treat the wound, but chasing the serpent through the grass — desperate to ask why. Instead of healing, you circle back to the source of your pain, searching for answers that will never soothe the sting. This episode explores what it means to run after what hurt you, and the cost of confusing curiosity with closure.

Did you know that over 22,000 players have stepped up to the plate in Major League Baseball since 1876, yet only a tiny fraction—around 350—have earned the ultimate honor of the Hall of Fame? This stark contrast highlights how the everyday heroes, the common players who fill out rosters and grind through seasons, truly keep the game alive and thriving

Significance isn't measured by spotlight or stardom.​

Just as common players log the innings, make the routine plays, and sustain teams through grind-it-out seasons, church members who serve quietly—greeters, prayer warriors, youth helpers—form the backbone of any congregation. Their faithfulness in small roles keeps the "game" going, fostering community and growth far more than rare headliners ever could.

Jack Savage

Joey Bishop, the quick-witted comedian and Rat Pack member, once delivered an iconic ad-lib during a performance at New York's Copacabana nightclub while opening for Frank Sinatra.​

In 1954, Marilyn Monroe entered the venue mid-act, draped in a glamorous floor-length white ermine coat, instantly captivating the audience and creating a buzz. Bishop paused his routine, waited silently for her to take her seat, then leaned into the microphone and quipped, "Marilyn, I thought I told you to wait in the truck."

In this episode, we explore how simply driving someone else’s vehicle can reveal deeper insights about life. Every seat position, steering wheel angle, and dashboard setting reminds us that everyone has their own unique configuration — their own way of moving through the world. Sometimes, when we find ourselves in temporary situations that feel uncomfortable or unfamiliar, it’s wiser not to make drastic changes, but to appreciate the moment and what it teaches about adaptation, patience, and perspective.