This Awkward Life

On this day, in 1918, Ptv. Henry Gunther decided it wasn't over until the last shot was fired. Unfortunately, that last shot took his life.

The Last man

Private Henry Gunther was the last soldier killed in combat during World War I. He died at 10:59 a.m. on November 11, 1918, just one minute before the armistice went into effect at 11:00 a.m., ending the war. Gunther charged a German machine-gun position in the village of Chaumont-devant-Damvillers, France, despite orders to stop and the Germans signaling to him to halt. He was shot in the left temple and died instantly, making him the final Allied combat casualty of the war. Posthumously, he was awarded the Distinguished Service Cross and had his rank restored after being previously demoted. A memorial in France now marks the spot where he fell, and his remains were returned to Baltimore, Maryland for burial.

Would you rather a text or Phone call?

Experts say

AI says:

Preferring texting over phone calls is not inherently selfish or one-sided; rather, it often reflects personal communication styles, emotional needs, and respect for boundaries. Many people choose texting because it offers cognitive control, allows time to think and compose responses, and reduces the social pressure and emotional intensity of live conversations. This preference can signal careful self-presentation and a desire to avoid awkwardness, rather than a lack of consideration for others. In fact, texting can be a polite way to respect others' time by avoiding unplanned interruptions, as phone calls demand immediate attention and can feel intrusive.

However, some people may perceive this preference as one-sided if it consistently replaces more direct, intimate forms of communication like calls, which can foster closer bonds through voice and emotional cues. The key is in balancing communication preferences and being mindful of the relationship context. Open communication about why one prefers texting and setting clear boundaries can prevent misunderstandings or feelings of selfishness. Texting is often a thoughtful, self-aware choice rather than a selfish one. It becomes problematic only if one party's needs for closeness or clearer communication are persistently ignored.

What do you say?

Your actions go before you. Be careful with the work you create because it will follow you.

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Have you ever wanted to see someone lose? How bad? People don't have to lose for you to win.

Recently a bottle was found in a remote beach in Australia, inside were to letters from the past. After reading the article it inspired me to research and find someone from my past.

I hope you enjoy this episode.

Message in a bottle

“We are all absolutely stunned. There are five grandchildren who are still alive.”

A "wind phone" is an unconnected telephone placed in a secluded outdoor location—usually within a telephone booth in nature—where people can symbolically “call” and have one-way conversations with deceased loved ones as a way to help process grief and loss. The purpose is not for communication in the literal sense, but rather as a therapeutic space to express unsaid words, reminiscence, and continue a sense of connection to those who have passed away.

https://www.mywindphone.com/windphonelocations

https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/284733239/nancy-a-brockman

https://obituaries.durangoherald.com/us/obituaries/durangoherald/name/nancy-brockman-obituary?id=56263955

Today would have been my dads 80th birthday.

Always take time to remember those people that have gone before you.

"What would you say if you could sit down with your younger self? I hope this episode inspires you to appreciate who you were, honor who you are, and believe in who you're becoming."

I met Dan back in 1993. He thought I was a drug dealer, and I thought he was a prep. We sat down for the first time in many years and talked about Life, loss, and art appreciation.

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