This Feels Important

How do I tell my partner I want a divorce? How do I tell my family that grandma is dying? How do I tell my boss I'm leaving the job?

These are difficult conversations. It's clear going in that they will be difficult. But possibly more important are the smaller conversations we avoid every day. Like that guy sliding in our DMs in an inappropriate way. Or that off-remark on the street as you get take-out.

Kari and Tory take these conversations directly, in this frank and honest conversation about their failures in the past and their steps to walk directly into these moments. As women that can try to be people-pleasers and do and say what's expected of them, these are the conversations they need to reckon with. And it's essential for standing in your truth and building up your musculature.

From saying no thank you on dating apps, to dealing with co-workers and friends demanding your time, this actionable episode will help you build boundaries while keeping your relationships strong and removing that energetic debris from your life. Because on the other side of these conversations is freedom.

ABOUT THIS FEELS IMPORTANT

This Feels Important is an exploration into the hairy, scary, weird, and sometimes orgasmic journey of navigating our ever-evolving relationships to self, others, and the world around us.

Your hosts, Kari Keating and Tory Dube - along with a lineup of epic guests - open the floor for honest discussions about the taboo feels (sex! money!), the painful feels (miscarriages! divorce! grief!), and the fun feels (psychedelics! sex again!) that are inevitable, necessary and freaking important as we all navigate the highs, lows and in-betweens of the human experience.

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Podcast edited and mixed by 51 features. Connect at andrew {at} 51features {dot} com.

This is a different conversation on sex. If you're ready to change the conversation around pleasure and view sexuality through a new perspective, this episode is for you.

Dr. Jordin Wiggins wants to create wellness around sexuality. She sees the lack of pleasure as a problem. Half of women have experienced or will experience sexual dysfunction in their lifetime. It's time to normalize it and do something about it.

Jordin shares why our reproductive-focused sex education sent us down the wrong path, why lack of pleasure is probably not a hormone problem, and share practical ways to step into your pussy power (whether you are with partner or not).

Kari, Tory, and Jordin also discuss how to create generational pleasure for your kids and how to overcome and change your sexual imprinting.

Pleasure isn't a nice-to-have. If you focus on pleasure first, it will help in all areas of your life. Consider this a reclamation of pussy power. It's time for a sexual health re-education!

Jordin will get you started on your pleasure practice in this practical, mind-blowing, supportive, and loving episode.

Dr. Jordin Wiggins is a Naturopathic Doctor, entrepreneur, women's sexual health disruptor, and author. She is revolutionizing the way we deliver, educate, and talk about sexual health, wellness, and pleasure for women. She is setting a higher standard for women's sexual health, using pleasure as the way back to wellness and outstanding health, not another pill.

Connect with Jordin on Instagram today.

ABOUT JORDIN

Dr. Jordin Wiggins is a Naturopathic Doctor, entrepreneur, women's sexual health disruptor, and author. She is revolutionizing the way we deliver, educate, and talk about sexual health, wellness, and pleasure for women.

Dr. Wiggins founded, owns, and operates Health Over All – the Premier Naturopathic Women's Wellness Clinic in North America. Dr. Wiggins is the expert on hormones, mood imbalance, libido, bio-marker testing, and providing individualized treatment plans to her patients for real results. Dr. Wiggins is a pioneer in women's health, using the most advanced, exclusive testing and treatment measures to get you to where you want to be.

Dr. Wiggins is the founder of The Pleasure Collective, a coaching community and sexual health and wellness re-education program for women. She is setting a higher standard for women's sexual health, using pleasure as the way back to wellness and outstanding health, not another pill.

Dr. Wiggins is a sought-after guest, speaker, and contributor to publications around the world. Find more contributions from Dr. Wiggins in Healthline, Cosmopolitan, Marie Claire, HuffPost, and Bustle as well as a keynote guest on podcasts, including The Entrepology podcast, Fierce Feminine Leadership, and featured on KPHO-TV.

ABOUT THIS FEELS IMPORTANT

This Feels Important is an exploration into the hairy, scary, weird, and sometimes orgasmic journey of navigating our ever-evolving relationships to self, others, and the world around us.

Your hosts, Kari Keating and Tory Dube - along with a lineup of epic guests - open the floor for honest discussions about the taboo feels (sex! money!), the painful feels (miscarriages! divorce! grief!), and the fun feels (psychedelics! sex again!) that are inevitable, necessary and freaking important as we all navigate the highs, lows and in-betweens of the human experience.

#thisfeelsimportant

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Podcast edited and mixed by 51 features. Connect at andrew {at} 51features {dot} com.

Kari discovered this guest listening to a podcast episode titled, "Inside Male Emotions." And in this episode, you will keep saying to yourself, "What the fuck just happened?"

Bryan Reeves is an author, workshop facilitator, and relationship insight ninja. This conversation will pour love and life into you. It will show you that you don't have to shrink yourself for love. That relationships are best practiced as an invitation, not an obligation. That boundaries are the pathway to intimacy. And this is only the start.

Bryan shares why he doesn't believe in 50/50 relationships, how to know when to give more or let the relationship go, how to exist in a relationship in your fullness, and so much more. If you have boys or men in your life, this conversation will provide invaluable insight to raise them well. And if you have relationships with men, this conversation will encourage, inspire, and bring you to hope, no matter where you find yourself on your romantic journey.

Get comfortable, grab a hot cup of tea, and relax into this powerful conversation.

ABOUT BRYAN

Bryan Reeves has had a fascinating life journey, through the military, higher education, private business and entrepreneurship, and across cultures, oceans, continents. He's survived multiple dark nights of the soul and thrown himself into the transformational fires of intimate relationships, over and over and over. And not only lived to tell tales about it all but triumphed to create a life he loves with the exquisite woman he waited a lifetime for. He's been blogging about his journey, and his awakening as a Man, for 10 years, with over 30 million readers worldwide. You can learn more at his website, his podcast, and on Instagram.

ABOUT THIS FEELS IMPORTANT

This Feels Important is an exploration into the hairy, scary, weird, and sometimes orgasmic journey of navigating our ever-evolving relationships to self, others, and the world around us.

Your hosts, Kari Keating and Tory Dube - along with a lineup of epic guests - open the floor for honest discussions about the taboo feels (sex! money!), the painful feels (miscarriages! divorce! grief!), and the fun feels (psychedelics! sex again!) that are inevitable, necessary and freaking important as we all navigate the highs, lows and in-betweens of the human experience.

#thisfeelsimportant

SHARE YOUR FEELS WITH KARI AND TORY

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CREDITS

Podcast edited and mixed by 51 features. Connect at andrew {at} 51features {dot} com.

Kari and Tory are back together and they are talking science! But this isn't a technical talk, it's a get real, dig into the gritty and emotional, and apply some learnings type of conversation. Tory is excited for this one!

Kari asks some deeply personal and challenging questions, and Tory brings her whole self. How do you honor your pain? How can you process grief and keep moving forward in your journey? How do you know when it's time to move on?

There's a lot of actionable wisdom in this episode to take control of your feelings and emotions. Tory shares why pace isn't synonymous with bad, how habits destroy our ability to be present, and why 95% of your personality does not represent your true self. This episode will open up your mind and help you create a new one.

To get jump-started after this episode, read Tory and Kari's two favorite books right now!

• The Alchemist
• Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself: How to Lose Your Mind and Create a New One

ABOUT THIS FEELS IMPORTANT

This Feels Important is an exploration into the hairy, scary, weird, and sometimes orgasmic journey of navigating our ever-evolving relationships to self, others, and the world around us.

Your hosts, Kari Keating and Tory Dube - along with a lineup of epic guests - open the floor for honest discussions about the taboo feels (sex! money!), the painful feels (miscarriages! divorce! grief!), and the fun feels (psychedelics! sex again!) that are inevitable, necessary and freaking important as we all navigate the highs, lows and in-betweens of the human experience.

#thisfeelsimportant

SHARE YOUR FEELS WITH KARI AND TORY

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Podcast edited and mixed by 51 features. Connect at andrew {at} 51features {dot} com.

Kari comes in for a solo snack. After one of her best weekends ever, she's coming in deep with inspiration and insight.

In this intimate episode, Kari invites you to consider your perfect date, questions how you could care about yourself more, and shares the most important relationship tip she's learned.

If you want deep, rich connections, this episode will put you on the path to creating those relationships. If you desire freedom and love, this episode is an invitation to meet it. Along the way, you will learn the difference between taking care of and caring about and the greatest gift you can give yourself. Sit down, take a deep breath, and drink in the love and caring.

ABOUT THIS FEELS IMPORTANT

This Feels Important is an exploration into the hairy, scary, weird, and sometimes orgasmic journey of navigating our ever-evolving relationships to self, others, and the world around us.

Your hosts, Kari Keating and Tory Dube - along with a lineup of epic guests - open the floor for honest discussions about the taboo feels (sex! money!), the painful feels (miscarriages! divorce! grief!), and the fun feels (psychedelics! sex again!) that are inevitable, necessary and freaking important as we all navigate the highs, lows and in-betweens of the human experience.

#thisfeelsimportant

SHARE YOUR FEELS WITH KARI AND TORY

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• Share with Tory

CREDITS

Podcast edited and mixed by 51 features. Connect at andrew {at} 51features {dot} com.

It's time for us to play. The long-awaited first Q&A with your intrepid hosts is here!

Tory and Kari start the conversation with the value of play, why communication is a form of surrender, and why they don't believe "The Secret" has it right.

And then the questions start! Kari and Tory answer:

• Can Kari share about her dating life?
• How do you stay positive in difficult times?
• How do you make your kids okay with mom and dad not living together?
• Has Kari forgiven her ex-husband?
• How did you know for sure it was time to leave your husbands?

In this honest and emotion-filled conversation, Kari and Tory answer your truth-seeking and no BS questions the best they can.

ABOUT THIS FEELS IMPORTANT

This Feels Important is an exploration into the hairy, scary, weird, and sometimes orgasmic journey of navigating our ever-evolving relationships to self, others, and the world around us.

Your hosts, Kari Keating and Tory Dube - along with a lineup of epic guests - open the floor for honest discussions about the taboo feels (sex! money!), the painful feels (miscarriages! divorce! grief!), and the fun feels (psychedelics! sex again!) that are inevitable, necessary and freaking important as we all navigate the highs, lows and in-betweens of the human experience.

#thisfeelsimportant

SHARE YOUR FEELS WITH KARI AND TORY

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CREDITS

Podcast edited and mixed by 51 features. Connect at andrew {at} 51features {dot} com.

It's time for another Tory-ism! Tory rides solo as she explains the joys of "earthquaking." Building off the Tory-ism, "tectonics plates are always moving beneath your feet," Tory shares how you can show up your best when your world is crumbling around you.

And maybe Tory can't convince you "earthquaking" is for the best. Or maybe the hard-earned tips she's learned and sharing in this episode will send you on the road of looking for the epic and joyful on the daily. No matter what, this episode will help guide you on creating containers of control in your life and how to experience forward movement after a tectonic event. Let's get moving!

ABOUT THIS FEELS IMPORTANT

This Feels Important is an exploration into the hairy, scary, weird, and sometimes orgasmic journey of navigating our ever-evolving relationships to self, others, and the world around us.

Your hosts, Kari Keating and Tory Dube - along with a lineup of epic guests - open the floor for honest discussions about the taboo feels (sex! money!), the painful feels (miscarriages! divorce! grief!), and the fun feels (psychedelics! sex again!) that are inevitable, necessary and freaking important as we all navigate the highs, lows and in-betweens of the human experience.

#thisfeelsimportant

SHARE YOUR FEELS WITH KARI AND TORY

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CREDITS

Podcast edited and mixed by 51 features. Connect at andrew {at} 51features {dot} com.

Kari and Tory find each other in different states and different seasons of their lives, yet together they share the same relationship with time. In today's episode, it's an invitation back to presence and trusting the timing of your life.

Kari offers insightful questions to redirect your mind. Tory shares how a little-seen Matt Damon movie might have the secret to unlocking moments when life doesn't go your way. And you'll learn why Kari sometimes avoids messaging Tory when she's in the stuff.

This conversation will gently bring you back to the truth that you are exactly where you need to be. Including listening to this episode.

ABOUT THIS FEELS IMPORTANT

This Feels Important is an exploration into the hairy, scary, weird, and sometimes orgasmic journey of navigating our ever-evolving relationships to self, others, and the world around us.

Your hosts, Kari Keating and Tory Dube - along with a lineup of epic guests - open the floor for honest discussions about the taboo feels (sex! money!), the painful feels (miscarriages! divorce! grief!), and the fun feels (psychedelics! sex again!) that are inevitable, necessary and freaking important as we all navigate the highs, lows and in-betweens of the human experience.

#thisfeelsimportant

SHARE YOUR FEELS WITH KARI AND TORY

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CREDITS

Podcast edited and mixed by 51 features. Connect at andrew {at} 51features {dot} com.

Kari and Tory have focused a lot on relationships. And this episode on money is no different. Money is a full-on relationship. Not with a physical person, but money impacts everyone we come into contact with.

In this honest and transparent conversation, Kari shares how she is building her financial know-how from the ground up and Tory explains how her dog was the portal to solidifying her relationships with her partner.

Kari and Tory are not experts, but they know relationships, and money is a relationship. This episode will give you the courage to take charge of your finances and understand why it's essential to take responsibility for handling money.

ABOUT THIS FEELS IMPORTANT

This Feels Important is an exploration into the hairy, scary, weird, and sometimes orgasmic journey of navigating our ever-evolving relationships to self, others, and the world around us.

Your hosts, Kari Keating and Tory Dube - along with a lineup of epic guests - open the floor for honest discussions about the taboo feels (sex! money!), the painful feels (miscarriages! divorce! grief!), and the fun feels (psychedelics! sex again!) that are inevitable, necessary and freaking important as we all navigate the highs, lows and in-betweens of the human experience.

#thisfeelsimportant

SHARE YOUR FEELS WITH KARI AND TORY

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CREDITS

Podcast edited and mixed by 51 features. Connect at andrew {at} 51features {dot} com.

Kari and Tory are excited to introduce you to James McCrae. James is an author, poet, creative guide, and meme-artist based in Austin, Texas. In his writing and art, he applies the principles of mindfulness and Eastern philosophy to modern life with humor and candor.

This is a wide-ranging conversation on creativity, humor, teaching, engaging with and in the world, and so much more. James shares why creativity springs from listening, why memes are an art movement, and why all feedback isn't created equal. James also shares why we are in a collective dark night of the soul and how we can emerge transformed.

James' message is one of hope and positivity. You don't have to have it all figured out! He believes we are all creators, and in this episode, he discusses how to be a more conscious creator and live the life you dream.

ABOUT JAMES

James McCrae is an author, poet, creative guide, and meme-artist based in Austin, Texas. In his writing and art, he applies the principles of mindfulness and Eastern philosophy to modern life with humor and candor.

James is the author of two books: Sh#t Your Ego Says (Hay House, 2017), an autobiographical guidebook for quieting negative self-talk and reconnecting with intuition, and How to Laugh in Ironic Amusement During Your Existential Crisis (Thought Catalog, 2021), a book of poetry and memes about leaving your comfort zone to embrace the unknown.

As a creative strategist, James has led workshops and brainstorms with top global brands (including Microsoft, NBC, Target, Organic Valley, and United Healthcare) to help define their mission, vision, and brand story.

He has written articles on creativity for publications like Forbes, HuffPost, Adweek, Yogi Times, Entrepreneur, and Elephant Journal, and his poetry has been featured in literary journals such as American Journal of Poetry, 34th Parallel Magazine, Thought Catalog, New Millennium Writings, and Musepaper.

On his popular Instagram page (@wordsarevibrations) James shares daily memes, poems, and illustrations that delight and inspire his audience. He also hosts Homesick Alien Club, a podcast that explores the intersection of creativity, consciousness, and culture.

In his spare time, James enjoys practicing yoga, visiting art museums, watching basketball, walking his dogs, and listening to music.

ABOUT THIS FEELS IMPORTANT

This Feels Important is an exploration into the hairy, scary, weird, and sometimes orgasmic journey of navigating our ever-evolving relationships to self, others, and the world around us.

Your hosts, Kari Keating and Tory Dube - along with a lineup of epic guests - open the floor for honest discussions about the taboo feels (sex! money!), the painful feels (miscarriages! divorce! grief!), and the fun feels (psychedelics! sex again!) that are inevitable, necessary and freaking important as we all navigate the highs, lows and in-betweens of the human experience.

#thisfeelsimportant

SHARE YOUR FEELS WITH KARI AND TORY

• Find the show on Instagram
• Share with Kari
• Share with Tory

CREDITS

Podcast edited and mixed by 51 features. Connect at andrew {at} 51features {dot} com.