Ephesians 5:21-33 Here, Paul is talking about the church and women are to be of these same specific characteristics.
Here, the husband, the church pastor and Christ are in the same spiritual position as compared to the church flock and the wives.
Eph. 4:2 With all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love,
Galatians 5:22-23 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.
Colossians 3:12 Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience,
Romans 12 (Entire chapter)
1 Corinthians 13:4 Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant
James 1:19-22 Slow to speak. Slow to anger.
Titus 1:8 But hospitable, a lover of good, self-controlled, upright, holy, and disciplined.
Proverbs 31 How wives should be, is how the church should be.
The church and a woman must be obedient to the husband to the head of the church.
Respectful.
And able to keep her mouth shut and wait for the appropriate time to speak.
Self control. Patience. Loving. Humble. Compassionate. Servant. Gentle.