This Is Me with Marilyn Martinez

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Ever been blindsided by the person you trust the most? This episode unfolds my personal story of betrayal and the painful reality of my ex-husband's double life. As I recount my experiences, you’ll hear how I grappled with shock, manipulation, and the two-faced antics of a narcissistic partner. But more than just a harrowing tale, this episode reveals how I've learned to stay calm, disengage, and protect my children. It's a raw insight into my journey, my struggles, and how I'm finding healing in the most complex of circumstances. 

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I never imagined that I would ever share my personal journey of surviving a narcissistic marriage. It's raw, intense, and sometimes, painful. Yet, here I am, peeling back the layers of my relationship with my ex-husband, reflecting on a time when I was his biggest cheerleader, to the point where his narcissistic tendencies began to unravel, and my sanity seemed to slip away. My saving grace? Recording our exchanges, a confirmation to myself that I wasn't losing my grip on reality - I was being gaslighted.

Now, emerging stronger from the shadows of that harrowing experience, I am humbled by the outpouring of support from you, my listeners. Your courage in sharing your own experiences and your willingness to listen to mine make me realize that none of us are alone on this journey. Together, we are exploring the influence of family dynamics, the importance of setting boundaries, and the power of documenting incidents - something that was my lifeline during my divorce proceedings. The journey to healing might be strenuous, but finding your voice, seeking support, and asking those difficult questions are essential stepping stones. So, let's continue to walk this path together, learning from each other's experiences and growing stronger every step of the way.

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Have you ever felt the weight of a loved one's mental illness, like a storm you didn't ask for but must weather? I have been trying to navigate through the emotional turbulence of having a brother battling mental illness, the heartache of how societal structures failed him, and the confronting aftermath of a tragic incident. I also touch on the struggles of maintaining a positive attitude amidst workplace challenges, offering an honest look at the resilience required in such situations. 

Ever wondered about the complexities of human behavior, and why we often get entangled in trying to understand the actions of others? I take you through the whirlpool of emotions and thought processes that confronts me when grappling with people's reactions, and the vital importance of letting go. Drawing on personal narratives, I shed light on the art of self-healing, the power of acceptance, and how liberating it can be to disconnect from others' frustrations and concerns. 

Balancing life and setting priorities isn't always a walk in the park, is it? As I share my experiences of raising children, learning new skills, and the choice to publicly share my journey. I discuss breaking generational curses, and my perspective on managing life's unpredictabilities. 

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Ever found tranquility in the flight of a butterfly or clarity in the chaos of family? Join me, Marilyn, on a soulful journey of healing, personal growth, and life-changing decisions. I'll take you with me on a recent trip to Atlanta, where a purple butterfly's flight and a Jeep Wrangler opened the door to spiritual reminders and instinct-led decisions. I'll share how I found reassurance in nature’s signs, and how canceling my cherished We2 event became a poignant reminder to prioritize my wellbeing.

In the hustle and bustle of life, it’s easy to forget moments of gratitude, the joy in simple things, like having all your children under one roof. We'll take a moment of silence together, to appreciate what we have, and to start our healing journey. And just like I did, you'll find that appreciating chaos can fill you with immense gratitude. So, do join me on this journey of self-reflection, gratitude, and growth. Share the episode with someone who needs it, and don't forget to subscribe. Let's connect, reflect, and grow together!

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Ever felt like you're running on empty as a mom? Like you're juggling a thousand things, yet you still feel like you're not doing enough? Well, I'm Marilyn, and today I'm sharing my own struggles and victories in the chaotic, beautifully messy world of motherhood. We're going to get real about exhaustion, staying motivated, and above all, not losing yourself amidst the whirlwind of caring for your little ones.

What's the trick to staying motivated while dealing with kids and their unpredictable schedules? Consistency! We'll explore how staying consistent in certain aspects of your life can help you from losing your identity to motherhood. And let's debunk the myth of "negative tiredness" - it's completely okay to be tired, and it doesn't make you ungrateful. On top of that, we're going to celebrate the small wins, because each and every one of them is an accomplishment. Tune in and take this journey with me, let's remind ourselves that being a mom is tough, but we're tougher! And remember to share the love - if this podcast motivates you, pass on the joy to someone who could use a little push!

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Imagine having a target on your back, just for living a pure and happy life. It's a reality I've faced, and in this episode, I share how the pressure of making life-changing decisions can often make those around us uncomfortable. But, let's make it clear - We refuse to sink! Drawing inspiration from Sarah Jakes, we learn to confront our issues, navigate through growth and acceptance amidst challenges, and stand firm in our decisions - regardless of other's opinions. 

The journey of resilience is not a smooth ride, but it's unique to each one of us. We delve into the deep end, dealing with the rough waves that come with personal growth and life-changing decisions. As I share the story of my recent relationship's end and its impact on my growth, we also discuss how Sarah Jakes' teachings inspire us to live unapologetically for ourselves. So, let's sail through the storm of life together, embracing change, and living for ourselves. Don't let the uncomfortable gaze of others deter your voyage. Remember, you are the captain of your ship.

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I am curious to know your opinion so please weigh in. 

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Who knew that 39 felt this good. 

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I hosted my first We2 Women’s Empowerment We Eat Together event and it was perfect! 

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The last of the pack turns two years old today, my baby Reign. It is most definitely a bitter sweet moment but I am so blessed God gave him to me.

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