In this episode, we’re diving into what advocacy really looks like — not just when it impacts your own family, but when it impacts your community and your country. We talk about why standing up for others matters, how change often starts with uncomfortable conversations, and what it means to use your voice even when the outcome doesn’t directly benefit you.

We also share our deeply personal journey navigating our 2 year old daughter’s diagnosis with Kawasaki disease over a year ago — from the fear and uncertainty of unexplained symptoms, to the fight for answers, and what it means to live with the reality that her heart health will need monitoring throughout much of her childhood. This experience shaped how we continue to advocate for each one of our children in different ways.

We also break down some of the current issues unfolding in our country and right here in Colorado, including ongoing efforts that could cut critical disability services and place caps on caregiving hours — policies that don’t just affect families like ours, but entire support systems that allow individuals with disabilities to live safely and with dignity.

This conversation is honest, a little funny, and rooted in the belief that advocacy is not reserved for experts or politicians — it belongs to parents, neighbors, friends, and anyone willing to care loudly enough to push for change.

January 24th started out as a normal Saturday. We watched from the safety of our home as a man's life was taken tragically in the streets of Minnesota. Alex Pretti was helping a female protestor up after ICE agents pushed her down to the ground when he was violently tackled, disarmed, and executed. We wanted to start this episode talking about what's going on in the world; because frankly, how can we not when it has rattled us and so many around the country. This expands into a true discussion of safety and security for our family and how parenting through tragedy has become increasingly challenging.

Join us for episode 7 as we discuss our decision to homeschool our children and what has continued to motivate us to do so--despite how chaotic and challenging it can be at times.

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In episode 6 we share the deep, dark truth -- we are struggling. Burnout in the home, marital tensions, financial strain, and the ever-present reality of postpartum side-effects still being at play is making for a challenging season in life. We are here to put ourselves out there for everyone.

Join us as we discuss ways we are currently attempting to navigate these struggles, the importance of repair, and choices we want to make in the future. At the end of the episode, we wrap with a card game to bring us closer again.

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You asked how we got here--so here it is.

In Part 2 of our religion + parenting conversation, we open up about religious roots, the beliefs and values that stuck, and the experiences that reshaped everything. We talk faith, fear, healing, and what it looks like to parent with all of that in the rearview mirror. We also share a little clarification on some things we talked about in Part 1 that may have struck a cord in each other or simply came out wrong. We wanted to be authentic and genuine -- even when it gets a little messy and unhinged.

Content Warning: discussion of adult themes with brief mention of physical abuse and SA.

Episode four is here! In this episode we recap the week after spending a quiet Christmas holiday at home and navigating some interesting side quests with our 5 year old. This episode covers conversations around Religion/God and how these topics can intersect with parenting, homeschooling, and teaching kindness. Especially with neurodivergence, past childhood trauma, indoctrination, and curiosity at play.

Join us as we navigate challenging discussions with each other while unpacking some major baggage around "God-talk" and how we plan to move forward from here. Things get a little heated, but we always find our way back to understanding...eventually.

Side note: Because we feel so passionately about respectful/gentle parenting and the choices we make as parents, we plan to continue this conversation in a later episode as well. Stay tuned for that!

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n this episode, Katiah and Timitri open up about their journey using medical cannabis as a holistic tool to help control their daughter’s seizures—and how it’s helped shape and ultimately save her life. The pair talk candidly about using cannabis as a rescue option when Mila's seizures escalate, the trust they've built with this medicine, and the stigma that still surrounds it. Timitri and Katiah also reflect on the incredible cannabis community they were part of in Washington state and their future goals for creating and shaping that same type of support network in Colorado.

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In this episode we share Mila's story -- from her complicated birth to the first time she experienced status seizures, and the Code Blue that changed the course of our lives. Parents of children with disabilities know how bumpy the road to an actual diagnosis can be in the face of so much unknown. Join us as we talk about what it was like to watch everything unfold and the echoes from those early days that still shape us as parents and remind us how far she's come.

Trigger warning: there is talk of birth trauma, medical trauma, grief, seizures, and the potential of loss.

Thank you for joining us for episode two -- we are so happy you are here. Please continue to visit our socials and share this podcast with people in your circle so we can continue to bring awareness and growth to our community.

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In the first episode of This is Normal(ish) Katiah and Timitri break down the creation of this podcast and what inspired such an undertaking in the midst of chaos and unknown headed their way. They give a backstory on their relationship and family and a little preview of whats to come in the future.

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Seriously so happy you are here with us -- we hate to be alone.