happy sunday my pretties!!!

just wanted give you a lil update on

LIFE.

♡

here is my burn toast situation this morning:

ALSO…. correction on the bull tarot card: IT WAS A BUFFALO (which is even more adorbs)

okay that is all i got for ya!!!

xoxo

- Bx

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Recorded - Jan 6 . 2025

hello you beautiful people !!!!

i missed VN-ing you so let’s walk & talk.

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Written - Jan 8 . 2025

it’s 9:46am and i’m currently sitting my boney little booty on a cold, lonesome barstool in the san diego airport and sippin’ a buenaveza as I wait to board my flight to CABO!!!!

(airport beers don’t count, right?!?!)

we’re off to celly my bestie for finding an angel man who loves her so much that he agreed to put up with her antics for the remainder of LIFE!

i am so damn exited.

it’s been MONTHS since i’ve gotten the chance to enjoy some quality girl gang time… between all the moving and travel and life just life-ing, getting together with my all my girls in one place has become a rarity.

looking back, i don’t think i really understood how special it was to be a girl in her 20s, living in the city just a block (or lil train ride) away from all my friends… and the older i get, like the deeper i grow into womanhood, the more i realize how important female friendships are and where i’ve fallen short.

so take this as a sign to call your bestie and spill some tea and have some giggles!!!

anywayzzzzz

i have a shopping / packing meltdown voice note I’ll send you guys next tweeeek once i’m back in my body ᵕ̈

i’m currently reading I Regret Almost Everything by Keith McNally and so far, it doesn’t suck… though, i will say i’m on chapter 7 and it is pretty depressing haha.

i haven’t read a memoir in a minute but i saw my friend’s husband’s dad reading this on vaca and minetta tavern is one of my favorite restaurants so it got my attention… nothing like a lil NYC lore!

aside from that i’ve been beaching and eating and loving and reading and music-ing and hiking and creating and doing my best to figure out this new thingy i’m doing called island life… god i have so much to share - idk where my head has been!!!

we’ll run it back next week.

G2G ABOUT TO TAKE OFF!!

x0Xo

- Bx

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WELCOME TO THE FIRST EPYYYYY OF THE PRETTY SHITTY HOTLINE!!

Where we unpack all the pretty shitty stuff going on in your life.

Ft. mi new cameo hoodie from walmart that I’m obsessed with, my singular perky eyebrow in need of a sedative that I’m not so obsessed with, and billy broadcasting from germany in a dark room parked in a red gamer chair that he acquired from literally god knows where…

Today we go quick and dirty on a few things:

* Confusing guys breadcrumbing like it’s a full charcute (aka charcuterie board)

* The eternal fuck-boy-mommy-trauma-dumping-mindset that is giving chlamydia

* And how to not write about the same 12 anxieties of the world that every other human online is stuck on

SRY for the late drop… had some doggy medical drama last night. But we survived. We’re resilient. We’re here.

» DROP UR QUESTIONS FOR NEXT WEEK HERE ᵕ̈ «

Until then… let’s have one more moment of silence for the cameo hoodie xoxoxo

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Excuse me while I’m just out here being fit as fuqqq…

And on that note. . .

A moment for the jet black hair while I wait for mi elevator ᵕ̈

My spirit when I realized I paid $52 for this mid ass bite but am too emotionally committed to stop and shall now suffer in overwhelm, forevermore.

LOVE YOU BYE !!!!!!<33333

pretty in person is pretty cool

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HEY HAPPY JULY 4TH!!! Let’s talk about America… sry my brain is half functioning in this VN and I added a lil diddy (not p) on the end for some flavaaaflav as I rush to get ready to go to the lake so mi familia doesn’t yell at me for being a SLOWMOoO0o.

But none the less, substack first!

HOPE YOU GET OUTSIDE AND SMILE BIG AND POP UR SHIT TODAY XOXOXOXOXOXO I G2G BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE YELLING AT ME TO HURRY UP LOVE YOU BYE <33333333

This is our cooler getting ready to partaaaayyyy!!! Idk what else to take a picture of rn lol bYE ᵕ̈

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Brown bagging cherries to the mouth.

Fingers sticky with Swiss chocolate melting down my hands.

There’s no AC in Europe. I’m sweaty, jacked up on sugar, and stupidly happy on this summer Sunday.

I hand picked each cherry at the local market in Basel and my mother-in-law hand picked this chocolate bar just for me.

These cherries know how much I love them and my bonus mom knows how much I love chocolate.

To be seen is its own kind of mercy.

I’ve been thinking about being nice.

And how sometimes you need to be mean to be actually nice.

And how mean-nice is way more real than nice-mean.

And that I’d love to see more of that on Substack. Or anywhere, really.

I woke up this morning to a notification from a stranger named Whit (who I now subscribe to) and to say she made my day would be an understatement.

SO today we sing. Today we dance.

Today we eat cherries with our hands while chocolate drips down our fingers like feral little joy drunk squirrels and send bottomless sunbeams to the energy vampires still hiding behind their shade.

Because smelling like pit stains and chocolate is way more fun than suffocating under bullshit vernacular.

cry with me

♡♡♡

SEE U NEXT WEEK XOXO

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for the underdogs (and honestly all dogs) ((including hot dogs))

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have a sunflower daaaayyyy!!!!

♡ ♡ ♡

xoxo

kombucha doesn’t suck

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GUYS. It’s not even close.

Like, this is a shockingly embarrassing reveal…

Shout out to Good Mythical Morning!!!!! You guys are savage and we’re obsessed.

Final Score:

Choose your fighter… (but don’t choose Jim u fool!!!)

XO

- Bx

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WHY IS ORDERING FOOD SO HARD?????

No but seriously where do I order from rn cause I can’t feel my brain & need someone to burrito wrap me in a blanky & sing me sweet lullabies about chocolate from Dubai until my cravings for everything and nothing are gone.

Oh. Actually, maybe a burrito would be kinda nice??

WILL WRITE SOMETHING OF SUBSTANCE SOON.

Here’s a video of my dog:

Catch ya later, h8zzz !!!

- Bx

ur dog is cut AF

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Things are happening.

Coffee is Good.

DAMN.

Life is Magical.

x0xoxOxoxox0xOxoxOxox0xoxO0o0o0oOo

♡ ♡ ♡

- Bx

voice notes are so cute

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