You have no friends or can not keep a friend and you wonder why. This episode we are exploring subtle signs you may not be interested in making friends as much as you think you are. Shirley compares her personality and habits from a time where she was team small circle of friends to who she is today; outgoing, friendly, and open. Ciroc shares gems on how to get out of that "I don't need friends" mindset.

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There is an idea that once you hit 30, dating becomes a challenge or even less satisfying. For whatever reason it’s connected to societal pressure for women and the lack thereof for men. Let’s dig into Dating VS Relationships: And It’s Constructs !

Welcome back! It's your audio besties here. Apparently people are finding love in the club and other people online are not feeling it. Us, DO NOT FIND LOVE IN THE CLUB.

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Shirley is currently watching sex in the city and she feels so secure in the conversation that dating in the 90's is not that quite different from dating in 2020's. All that has changed is the access to technology and people. The same issues in love, sex, dating, and relationships explore in Miranda's sex column, are surfacing in today's day age.

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There's a huge conflation of what people are looking for in a relationship on social media. So we dug into the research on what people are REALLY looking for in partnership to give you social media versus reality. Take a moment to rank the most important traits for you in a partner before listening to the episode. Here are the common 5 on social media:

-Wealth

-Health

-Intelligence

-Being Fine or Hot

-Being Funny

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The Sharp Shooter Heaux Tales.

Welcome back! It's your audio besties here. We think women who have experienced love and partnership have great insight on what qualities of a good woman. At the end of the day, they were chosen and clearly they did something right to be chosen for however long that partnership was active. Here are qualities of a good woman from single women whose exes still try to spend the block.

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Welcome back! It's your audio besties here. We feel a little passionate today and we really need you guys to leave so much in 2023. From Chrisean and Blueface to baby hairs that touch your eyebrows. This is Part I of Bring it or Leave it into 2024.

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Welcome back! Its your audio besties here. We are talking about red flags to lookout for in romantic relationships and should not ignore.

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