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  • The Right Way to Fire the Wrong Person [Podcast S03E03]
    Welcome to Season 3, Episode 3 of the This Is Your Life podcast. In this third episode, Michele Cushatt and I discuss the best way to handle the firing and layoff process.



    Letting someone go from your organization is hard. In fact, it should be. But sometimes it’s necessary, and it’s there a simple, six-step process for creating the best possible outcome.

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    In this episode you’ll discover:


    How to engineer a dismissal or layoff with the best possible outcome in mind.
    The three things you must have clarity about before letting someone go.
    How to let people go in a way that honors them and stays true to your organization.
    A simple and effective format for structuring the difficult conversation.
    Why it’s essential to get the opinion of counsel before acting.
    How to minimize the likelihood of getting sued.
    How you can let the clock work for you in the process.




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    If you want to listen to more episodes, you will find all thirteen audio episodes of Season 3 here. I release the video episodes weekly, as they are not yet available for batch listening. If you are looking for previous episodes, you can find Season 0 here, Season 1 here, and Season 3 here.

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    Last week's episode goes hand-in-glove with this one: “The Right Way to Hire the Right People.”

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  • The Right Way to Hire the Right People [Podcast S03E02]
    Welcome to Season 3, Episode 2 of the This Is Your Life podcast. In this second episode, Michele Cushatt and I discuss a proven six-point hiring process to ensure you find the right fit for your team.



    We all want our businesses to succeed, and most of us know we can improve our odds by recruiting high-quality employees. Unfortunately, it’s easy to make costly hiring mistakes. I’ve sure done it. But I’ve also used what I learned the hard way to develop a system to hire the very best.

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    In this episode, you’ll discover:


    How to spot the four key qualities every new hire needs.


    Why it’s essential for you (and your potential employees) to use a written job description in your hiring process.


    Why the smaller your organization, the more critical your hiring decisions will be to the health of your organization.


    Why you need to personally check references and how to do it right.


    How a multiphase interview process can keep you from making major hiring mistakes.






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    My favorite part of doing these podcasts is participating in the conversation they provoke. Each week, I ask one question. This week, it is this:



    Binge on All 13 Episodes!

    If you want to listen to more episodes, you will find all thirteen audio episodes of Season 3 here. I release the video episodes weekly, as they are not yet available for batch listening. If you are looking for previous episodes, you can find Season 0 here, Season 1 here, and Season 3 here

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    In this episode we mentioned the following resource:


    Podcast: “The Right Way to Fire the Wrong Person”
    Service: eaHelp


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    33 min
  • How You Can Better Control Your Time [Podcast S03E01]
    Welcome to Season 3, Episode 1 of the This Is Your Life podcast. In this first episode of the season Michele Cushatt and I discuss how to make sure the urgent doesn’t crowd out the important.



    The truth is that when it comes to how you spend your time, you have a choice. You can either live in proactive mode, according to a plan you’ve developed or you can live in reactive mode, according to the demands of others.

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    In this episode, you’ll discover:


    How time is similar to money: if you want to control it, you have to spend it on paper before you spend it in reality.
    Why margin is critically important and how you can build it into your schedule—even if you now feel overwhelmed.
    How a simple Excel spreadsheet can help you plan your “Ideal Week” and make sure you schedule your most important commitments first.
    How you can organize your week around daily themes and focus areas so you are more productive and efficient.
    How you can solicit the help of your colleagues and support staff, so they are helping you stay focused and on-task.




    You can get better at controlling your time. All you need is the intention, the right tool, a little planning, and the support of the people closest to you.

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    My favorite part of doing these podcasts is participating in the conversation they provoke. Each week, I ask one question. This week, it is this:



    Binge on All 13 Episodes!

    If you want to listen to more episodes, you will find all thirteen audio episodes of Season 3 here. I release the video episodes weekly, as they are not yet available for batch listening. If you are looking for previous episodes, you can find Season 0 here, Season 1 here, and Season 2 here.

    Explore Additional Resources

    In this episode we mentioned the following resources:


    eBook: Inside My ToolBox
    Software: RescueTime
    Video: Put the Big Rocks in First, inspired by Stephen Covey (Sadly, Dr. Covey's version of this is no longer available on YouTube.)


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  • How Do You Decide What Content to Give Away for Free (and 12 Other Listener Questions) [Podcast S02E13]
    Welcome to Season 2, Episode 13 of the This Is Your Life podcast. In this thirteenth and final episode of the season, Michele Cushatt and I take questions from my listeners.



    I get questions daily from my listeners and readers. Unfortunately, I don’t have the time to answer them all. So Michele and I decided we would collect them, pick the most common ones, and then devote the thirteenth episode of this season to answering them.

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    In this episode, we answer the following questions:


    Al asked, “After 100 podcasts and over 1,500 blog posts, what are the top three things you’ve learned from your experience?”


    Derek asked, “What is the best time to have live-call seminars or live-video seminars: during the day or evening, or on a weekday versus a weekend? Is there one time that’s better than another?”


    Aaron asked, “When I post links for other bloggers, I’ve been told it helps their traffic. But my traffic falters. So I want to help, but I also want to protect my brand. Is there a way to find a balance?”


    Jim asked, “With all of your success, you must experience a lot of judgment, maybe from yourself as well as others. I struggle with it, too. So how do you manage it?”


    Laura asked, “At what point is adding a newsletter to your blog a good idea? What are the benefits, and what cautions do you have?”


    Mark asked, “In Episode 4 of Season 1, you discussed strategies for building your email list. What are your insights on best practices for terms of use and privacy statements for those who trust us with their email addresses?”


    Leslie asked, “I just transitioned from the automatic WordPress subscription to MailChimp, but I don’t really know what I’m doing. Where do you recommend I go to learn about pop-ups and subscriptions and that sort of thing?”


    River asked, “I love creating wow experiences for my clients, but I’d love for you to share how you avoid driving yourself nuts by constantly anticipating their response. How do you distinguish between people pleasing and creating a wow experience?”


    A listener from Ohio asked, “I’m calling to ask about a behind-the-scenes aspect of monetizing a blog. Should I open a separate bank account for my blog, and if so, when would you recommend that I do that? What tips do you have for keeping good records for tax purposes, etc.?”


    Jerry asked, “How does an employee lead when he’s not in charge?”


    Randy asked, “I noticed that you include a transcript for your podcast episodes. I’m wondering if the opposite would also be helpful, to include an audio version of every blog post I write?”


    Allison asked, “I recently became a moderator of a writing critique group. Pretty quickly, a power struggle ensued. It was difficult, and we eventually had to part ways. For the future, what do I need to do to be a better leader in these types of situations where there’s a power struggle within the group?”


    A listener from Israel asked, “How do you decide what content you give away for free and what you hold back for online courses or other products? I know you’ve said to give away your best content, but doesn’t that end up short-changing yourself in the long run?”






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  • My Craziest, Most Memorable Christmas Stories [Podcast S02E12]
    Welcome to Season 2, Episode 12 of the This Is Your Life podcast. In this twelfth episode, Michele Cushatt and I discuss some of my crazy Christmas memories. I can’t believe she got me to share some of these!



    Spoiler Alert: In case you listen to my podcast with young children around, I blow Santa’s cover during this episode. I reveal how I discovered he is made-up. If this shocking truth might upset your children, please use earphones!

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    In this episode, you will discover:


    That I can sing … sort of. This is my podcast debut!


    My family’s favorite holiday traditions.


    Why we keep our decorations up until the Feast of Epiphany (January 6).


    My most memorable holiday—it was like our own private version of Christmas Vacation with Chevy Chase.


    Michele’s most memorable Christmas. (Hint: six kids, a church service, and no where to sit—except with the choir in the front of the church.)


    Our favorite gifts—to receive.


    When I do my Christmas shopping. (No, it’s not on Christmas Eve.)


    The gift-giving rule Gail, my wife, and I violate every … single … year.


    One of Michele’s secret holiday addictions. It’s not crack, but it’s pretty close.


    How your expectations often determine whether the holidays are a happy time or a sad time for you.


    Who washes the Christmas day dishes at our house.




    Finally, thank you for being a part of our family here at This Is Your Life and for listening in. I pray that your holidays are full of love, joy, and peace.


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    My favorite part of doing these podcasts is participating in the conversation they provoke. Each week, I ask one question. This week, it is this:



    Binge on All 13 Episodes!

    If you want to listen to more episodes, you will find all thirteen audio episodes of Season 2 here. I release the video episodes weekly, as they are not yet available for batch listening. If you are looking for previous episodes, you can find Season 0 here and Season 1 here.

    Explore Additional Resources

    In this episode we mentioned 5 Days to Your Best Year Ever, my goal-setting course. Almost 10,000 people have now gone through it!

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    31 min
  • The 5 Biggest Hiring Mistakes Leaders Make [Podcast S02E11]
    Welcome to Season 2, Episode 11 of the This Is Your Life podcast. In this eleventh episode, Michele Cushatt and I discuss the five most common mistakes leaders make in hiring people.



    Nothing can accelerate the growth of your business faster than hiring the right person. Similarly, nothing can derail it faster than bringing in the wrong person. If you are going to succeed in business (or even in a non-profit organization), you must get really good at hiring great people.

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    In this episode, we talk about:


    Why getting the right team in place is critical if you are going to succeed in your business or any other organizational endeavor.


    Why a written job description is more important for you than even for potential candidates.


    5 key sections every job description should include—and why.


    Why want-ads and job boards are the worst possible way to find the right person.


    How referrals can help you if they are used right but how they can hurt you if they’re not.


    Why you need to have a defined interview process before you ever interview the first applicant. (Do you?)


    How to set up “multiple points of content” in the interview process to protect you from ... yourself!


    Why it’s helpful to take the final candidate to dinner—with their spouse. (This once saved me from—what would have been—a really bad hiring decision.)


    The pluses and minuses of psychological tests, including the ones I personally use in my hiring process.


    The single most important action you can take to avoid costly hiring mistakes.




    Avoiding these mistakes will not guarantee that you always hire well, but it will dramatically improve your chances. Like everything else related to leadership, the important thing is to be intentional, even if your process looks different from mine.




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    You can download a complete, word-for-word transcript of this episode here, courtesy of Ginger Schell, a professional transcriptionist, who does all my transcriptions.

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    My favorite part of doing these podcasts is participating in the conversation they provoke. Each week, I ask one question. This week, it is this:



    Binge on All 13 Episodes!

    If you want to listen to more episodes, you will find all thirteen audio episodes of Season 2 here. I release the video episodes weekly, as they are not yet available for batch listening. If you are looking for previous episodes, you can find Season 0 here and Season 1 here.

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    In this episode I mentioned my job description template. You can download that here.

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    29 min
  • 10 Biggest Mistakes People Make in Setting Goals (and How to Fix Them) [Podcast S02E10]
    Welcome to Season 2, Episode 10 of the This Is Your Life podcast. In this tenth episode, Michele Cushatt and I discuss the ten most common mistakes when it comes to goal-setting.



    It’s that time of year when people begin planning for next year. That’s why I have been talking about it so much during the last week. I have also just released the newest edition of my goal-setting course, 5 Days to Your Best Year Ever.

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    As I coach individuals and companies in their annual planning, I see people making the same mistakes over and over. I am convinced this is why 25 percent of people abandon their New Year’s resolutions after one week. Sixty percent abandon them within six months.

    But it doesn’t have to be that way. Goal-setting can be effective, provided you have a proven process and avoid the most common mistakes.

    In this episode, you will discover:


    Why New Year’s Resolutions are a waste of time and how goal-setting, done well, is different.


    The one simple action you can take now to increase the likelihood you will hit your goals by a whopping 42 percent.


    The ideal number of goals you should create. Too few, and you’re probably not addressing each of the major areas of your life. Too many, and you will inevitably lose focus and flame out.


    Why you must set goals outside of work if you have any hope of hitting your goals at work.


    How to get super-specific in your goal-setting and why you must. I provide concrete, before and after examples.


    The three benefits of deadlines and why every goal needs a by when date. A goal without a deadline is little more than a dream.


    The number one thing you must do to make sure you follow through on your goals and don’t end up in the same place next year as this year.


    How I use Evernote to track my goals and keep them visible.


    The three “negative emotions” that indicate you are on the right path. These are actually positive indicators!


    Why you don’t need to worry about how you are going to accomplish your goals—at least in the beginning. In fact, if you get too focused on this initially, it will sabotage the possibility of a real breakthrough.




    If you haven’t checked out 5 Days to Your Best Year Ever, please do. It will walk you through the exact process I have used for more than a decade to achieve my biggest goals, personally and professionally.




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  • The 3 Forces That Shape Character [Podcast S02E09]
    Welcome to Season 2, Episode 9 of the This Is Your Life podcast. In this ninth episode, Michele Cushatt and I discuss the importance of character and the forces that shape it.



    Charisma may be useful in attracting a following, but it is largely useless when it comes to achieving a long-term, positive impact on the people and organizations we lead. For this, we need character. Effective leadership is an inside-out job.

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    I talk a lot about platform on my blog and in my podcast. But the ultimate platform—the root system under the oak tree—is your character. We have to understand that there are three forces that shape who we are at the core of our being:


    The input we consume.
    The relationships we pursue.
    The habits we acquire.




    Your character is ultimately the thing that’s going to shape your future, your impact, and your influence in the world, so it’s important that we pay attention to those forces that shape it.

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    You can download a complete, word-for-word transcript of this episode here, courtesy of Ginger Schell, a professional transcriptionist, who does all my transcriptions.

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    My favorite part of doing these podcasts is participating in the conversation they provoke. Each week, I ask one question. This week, it is this:



    Binge on All 13 Episodes!

    If you want to listen to more episodes, you will find all thirteen audio episodes of Season 2 here. I release the video episodes weekly, as they are not yet available for batch listening. If you are looking for previous episodes, you can find Season 0 here and Season 1 here.

    Explore Additional Resources

    In this episode we mentioned two resources:


    Book: The Presidents Club by Nancy Gibbs
    Book: Team of Rivals: The Political Genius of Abraham Lincoln by Doris Kearns Goodwin


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    33 min
  • How Book Publishing Has Changed and What it Means for You [Podcast S02E07]
    Welcome to Season 2, Episode 7 of the This Is Your Life podcast. In this seventh episode, Michele Cushatt and I discuss the changing world of book publishing. If you are an author—or an aspiring author—this episode is for you.



    I am always surprised by how many people have either written or want to write a book. According to my last reader survey, 65 percent of my audience fits into this category.

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    In this episode, we discuss:


    Why publishers reject book proposals (and how you can use this to your advantage).


    Why industry consolidation and competition is a good thing.


    How digital publishing has opened up unprecedented opportunities for authors, publishers, and readers around the world. It doesn’t represent the end of publishing but the beginning.


    Why people are reading more than ever before.


    How personal platforms are giving today’s authors the ability to leverage their influence and and control their future.


    How self-publishing no longer has the stigma it once had and why it’s a totally legitimate option for today’s authors.






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    My favorite part of doing these podcasts is participating in the conversation they provoke. Each week, I ask one question. This week, it is this:



    Binge on All 13 Episodes!

    If you want to listen to more episodes, you will find all thirteen audio episodes of Season 2 here. I release the video episodes weekly, as they are not yet available for batch listening. If you are looking for previous episodes, you can find Season 0 here and Season 1 here.

    Explore Additional Resources

    In this episode we mentioned one resource:


    Course: Get Published


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    34 min
  • What to Do When You Are Forced to Wait [Podcast S02E06]
    Welcome to Season 2, Episode 6 of the This Is Your Life podcast. In this sixth episode, Michele Cushatt and I discuss the difficulty of waiting.



    I am good at a few things, but waiting is not one of them. Whether it is being put on hold when I call a business, sitting in the waiting room of my dentist’s office, or standing in the security line at the airport, I am impatient.

    How about you?

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    Are you waiting for ...


    Word about a job you want?
    The results of your recent medical tests?
    Mr. or Ms. Right to show up?
    Your pregnancy test results?
    The judge’s decision on your court case?
    A response to an important email?
    Approval for a loan?
    The answer to a prayer?
    The pain to stop?


    If you are, I have good news. I still struggle with waiting, but over the years, I have gotten better. In this episode, Michele and I discuss five strategies for coping with those situations where you are forced to wait:


    Embrace it.
    Ask the right questions.
    Redeem the time.
    Encourage someone else.
    Trust God.


    We may not like waiting, but we can get better at it. More importantly, we can learn to see it as a gift and learn from it.



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    My favorite part of doing these podcasts is participating in the conversation they provoke. Each week, I ask one question. This week, it is this:



    Binge on All 13 Episodes!

    If you want to listen to more episodes, you will find all thirteen audio episodes of Season 2 here. I release the video episodes weekly, as they are not yet available for batch listening. If you are looking for previous episodes, you can find Season 0 here and Season 1 here.

    Explore Additional Resources

    In this episode we mentioned one resource:


    Book: Man’s Search for Meaning* by Viktor E. Frankl


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    33 min

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