The Healing Era: Choosing Softness After Survival Mode

You’ve been strong for everyone for so long — it became your identity. But what happens when you finally crave softness?

In this episode, we explore what it truly means to leave survival mode behind and step into a season of rest, peace, and emotional safety. This is your permission slip to heal, to receive, and to no longer confuse chaos with love.

As women, I feel like we often try to be all things to all people, but how realistic is that? When does it end, after burnout? 

What’s causing you to feel you have to do it all? Are you operating from trauma? From a place of fear? 

This mindset could be hardening you and blocking your blessings. Let’s find the balance and allow ourselves to work through our to-do lists, our goals, our dreams, from a place of love and softness. Let’s slow down….

Are we putting too much pressure on men to be rich before they’re worthy of love? In this short episode, I explore the growing narrative that a man’s value in a relationship starts and ends with money — and why that’s a dangerous oversimplification. I share my perspective, my standards, and my concern for how this is shaping the mindset of boys and men.

Interestingly, some women were offended by my standards. Not one man had any issue with my last episode, but a women felt should it easy for men.

If your standards are low, that’s your business. But don’t get mad at mine.

We’ve been conditioned to see love as struggle — to believe that sacrifice, suffering, and emotional labour are just part of the package. But I’m choosing something different. In this episode, I unpack how I’m rewiring my mindset around love: choosing ease, elevation, and relationships that serve me. Not everything that feels intense is love — sometimes, it’s just chaos. Let’s talk about redefining love on your terms.

This episode is a response to some of the reactions I got after dropping “Why Nice Guys Are Dangerous.” A lot of you said, “I’d rather a nice guy than an arsehole.” But that’s exactly the problem — thinking those are the only two options. The opposite of a ‘nice guy’ isn’t what you think… and in this episode, I break it down.

It’s short, honest, and might shift the way you see dating entirely.

In this episode, I break down the difference between a genuinely good man and a so-called “nice guy”—the ones who perform kindness with hidden agendas. I share personal insight from a past relationship and explore why the nice guy act can be more manipulative than it seems

Should You Date Multiple People at the Same Time? Part One.

Is it smart… or just messy?

In this episode, we’re diving deep into the controversial question: Should you date multiple people at once?

Is it a wise way to explore your options, or a fast track to emotional chaos? Does it help with clarity or create confusion? Are you being honest, or just keeping people on rotation? And when does it cross the line from dating to deception?

We’re unpacking the pros, the pitfalls, and the personal boundaries that come with modern dating. If you’ve ever been torn between keeping your options open or focusing on just one person, this episode is for you.

Tune in for some real talk, uncomfortable truths, and a few surprising perspectives.

Let’s not underestimate the power of healthy and productive habits. 

Do these things consistently and watch your life transform.