This Starts With Me

This Starts With Me

By BigHamiSociety & Culture
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This Starts With Me episodes

  • Keep It Pushin EP 8

    Summary

    In this episode, Hakim reflects on personal growth, the importance of perseverance, and the impact of family connections. He shares life lessons learned from everyday experiences, discusses navigating work dynamics and leadership, and emphasizes self-improvement and financial responsibility. The conversation also touches on wisdom gained from family interactions and the significance of work-life balance in achieving future aspirations.


    Takeaways

    • Keep pushing through adversity to achieve your goals.
    • Your impact can span generations, so make it positive.
    • Family connections can lead to personal growth and understanding.
    • Every experience, even the small ones, can teach valuable lessons.
    • It's important to have a supportive team around you.
    • Financial responsibility is key to enjoying life.
    • Aim to love and accept others, even those you don't like.
    • Work-life balance is essential for happiness and productivity.
    • Self-improvement should be a continuous journey.
    • Trust the process and let things unfold naturally.


    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction and Personal Reflections

    02:46 The Importance of Perseverance and Impact

    06:06 Family Connections and Personal Growth

    08:57 Life Lessons from Everyday Experiences

    11:49 Financial Responsibility and Future Planning

    15:08 Self-Improvement and Communication Skills

    17:59 Conversations with Family and Acceptance

    20:49 Work Dynamics and Leadership Challenges

    24:12 Reflections on Life and Personal Goals

    27:07 Conclusion and Future Aspirations

    37:52 Outro Final.mp3


    39 min
  • The Victor or The Victim EP 7

    In this episode, Hakim reflects on his week, discussing the importance of being a victor rather than a victim in life. He shares personal experiences from work challenges, family celebrations, and his fitness journey, emphasizing the power of choice and resilience. Hakim also celebrates his recent promotion to department manager and draws lessons from reality TV about decision-making and perseverance. The episode concludes with a motivational call to action for listeners to keep pushing forward in their own lives.


    Takeaways

    • Be strong and courageous in your work.
    • You have the power to choose your response.
    • Reflect on how you can improve in future situations.
    • Personal growth often comes from challenging experiences.
    • Family and relationships are vital for support.
    • Career advancements can come unexpectedly.
    • Decision-making is crucial in high-pressure situations.
    • Resilience is key to overcoming obstacles.
    • Always appreciate the love and support around you.
    • Keep pushing forward, even when faced with challenges.


    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction and Weekly Reflection

    02:53 Strength and Courage: A Personal Testimony

    06:12 Victor vs. Victim: Making Choices in Life

    11:52 Navigating Work Challenges and Leadership

    19:55 Celebrating Personal Milestones and Growth

    26:58 Embracing Gratitude and Life's Blessings

    32:00 The Importance of Positive Role Models

    38:44 Making Decisions and Betting on Yourself

    50:05 Persistence and Finding Opportunities

    53:13 Outro Final.mp3


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    Apple Pod - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-starts-with-me/id1789858146 


    YT - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_svvLieMTo_q63NcR7MjGQ 


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    Nate Twitch. - https://twitch.tv/unexpecties 


    54 min
  • One Sh***y Step At A Time EP 6

    In this episode, Hakim reflects on personal experiences, including trials with his pets, the importance of perseverance, and the significance of Valentine's Day. He discusses the lessons learned from challenges, the value of humility in relationships, and the impact of career choices. The conversation emphasizes taking life one step at a time and living with intention, while also exploring the deeper meanings of love and connection.


    Takeaways


    • Consider trials as opportunities for growth.
    • Perseverance is key in facing life's challenges.
    • Taking one step at a time can lead to clarity.
    • Valentine's Day can be a meaningful expression of love.
    • Humility is essential in maintaining relationships.
    • Career choices can impact personal fulfillment.
    • Reflecting on past experiences can guide future decisions.
    • Living with intention can enhance daily life.
    • Understanding the importance of love and connection.
    • Embracing challenges can lead to personal development.


    Chapters


    00:00 Introduction and Personal Reflections

    07:51 Trials with Pets and Life Lessons

    15:11 Finding Peace in Chaos

    22:00 The Importance of Focus and Taking Steps

    31:04 Valentine's Day Reflections and Growth

    35:59 Valentine's Day Reflections and Love Languages

    44:07 Embracing Challenges and Personal Growth

    50:00 The Importance of Humility in Relationships

    56:01 Living with Purpose and Perspective

    01:02:08 Career Choices and the Grass is Greener Dilemma

    01:12:04 Outro Final.mp3


    Keywords

    podcast, personal growth, relationships, trials, perseverance, Valentine's Day, humility, career choices


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    YT - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_svvLieMTo_q63NcR7MjGQ 


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    Nate Twitch. - https://twitch.tv/unexpecties 






    1 hr 13 min
  • But Does It Love You Back? EP5

    In this episode, Hakim reflects on his recent birthday, the importance of family, and the lessons learned about love, loyalty, and positivity. He emphasizes the significance of leading with love in all aspects of life and discusses the complexities of relationships and personal growth. The conversation also touches on the unfairness of life and the importance of being mindful of what we put out into the world, as it ultimately comes back to us.


    Takeaways

    Never lose hope; God will make a way.

    Life is beautiful when you appreciate it.

    Love is more than just a feeling; it's a way of life.

    What you put out in the world will come back to you.

    Be careful about where you place your loyalty.

    Life is perfectly unfair; good and bad happen to everyone.

    Lead with love, even on hard days.

    Focus on what loves you back.

    Make a decision to be loyal to what's truly important.

    Life is beautiful; make it what you make it.


    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction and Reflections on Life

    03:14 Turning 27: A Personal Reflection

    06:01 The Complexity of Love

    09:48 The Power of Positivity and Energy

    13:11 Lessons from Life's Challenges

    16:05 The Importance of Loyalty

    20:11 Navigating Life's Uncertainties

    23:04 Conclusion and Call to Action

    36:28 Outro Final.mp3


    Keywords

    faith, personal growth, love, positivity, loyalty, life lessons, self-reflection, podcast


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    Apple Pod -https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-starts-with-me/id1789858146 


    YT -https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_svvLieMTo_q63NcR7MjGQ 


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    Nate Twitch. -https://twitch.tv/unexpecties 






    38 min
  • Winter Blues and Working Hard EP4

    In this episode, Hakim reflects on personal growth, integrity, and overcoming fears. He shares insights from a Mr. Beast game that highlights moral choices and integrity, discusses the challenges of winter, and recounts his experience of finally visiting the dentist after many years. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-reflection, facing fears, and understanding the implications of one's actions. In this episode, Hakim discusses the frustrations of adulting, particularly the costs associated with healthcare and the lessons learned through personal experiences. He reflects on the importance of emotional maturity, integrity, and intentional living, emphasizing the need to recognize one's actions and their consequences. The conversation also touches on physical health, injury recovery, and the significance of self-discovery through challenges. Hakim concludes with thoughts on faith and trust in the process of personal growth.


    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

    02:52 Reflections on Winter and Personal Growth

    06:08 Integrity and the Mr. Beast Game

    11:56 Facing Fears: The Dentist Experience

    21:12 Lessons on Health and Insurance

    22:40 The Cost of Healthcare and Adulting Frustrations

    23:39 Learning Life Lessons Early

    24:33 Mental Challenges and Personal Growth

    25:54 Recognizing Emotional Maturity

    26:48 Integrity When No One is Watching

    27:45 Intentional Living and Decision Making

    29:01 Catching Yourself While Falling

    30:32 Physical Health and Injury Recovery

    38:07 Self-Discovery Through Challenges

    43:25 Faith and Trust in the Process


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    Apple Pod - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-starts-with-me/id1789858146 


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    Nate Twitch. - https://twitch.tv/unexpecties 



    46 min
  • Embracing Failure: Lessons from the Kitchen EP3

    Summary

    In this episode of the 'This Starts With Me' podcast, Hakim shares personal stories and insights on various themes including the importance of dreaming, the lessons learned from failure, and the impact of social media addiction. He emphasizes the significance of love in overcoming hate and discusses the challenges of navigating life while staying true to oneself. The episode is filled with humor, relatable anecdotes, and motivational messages aimed at encouraging listeners to embrace their journeys and pursue personal growth.


    Takeaways

    • Dreaming again is essential for personal growth.
    • Failure is a part of the journey to success.
    • It's important to process emotions and learn from mistakes.
    • Pets can provide grounding and stability in life.
    • Social media can be addictive and detrimental to mental health.
    • Self-reflection is crucial for understanding personal challenges.
    • Love is a powerful tool against hate.
    • Trends should not dictate personal choices or identity.
    • Life is a series of ups and downs, embrace them.
    • Your attitude determines your altitude in life.

    • Chapters

      00:00 Introduction and Inspiration

      02:50 The Mac and Cheese Story: Lessons in Failure

      11:59 Grounding Through Pets and Life's Challenges

      17:46 Breaking Free from Social Media Addiction

      25:04 Finding Balance in Life and Work

      26:47 Embracing Life's Ups and Downs

      32:00 Overcoming Fear and Seeking Comfort

      33:25 Navigating Political Climate and Social Issues

      41:31 Coping with Hate and Spreading Love

      49:03 Personal Reflections and Future Aspirations

      53:01 Outro


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      Apple Pod - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-starts-with-me/id1789858146 


      YT - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_svvLieMTo_q63NcR7MjGQ 


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      Nate Twitch. - https://twitch.tv/unexpecties 



      Keywords

      podcast, inspiration, failure, social media addiction, self-reflection, love, personal growth, life lessons, overcoming challenges, mental health



      54 min
    • This Starts With A Dream! EP2

      I'M DREAMING AGAIN!


      In this episode of 'This Starts With Me,' Hakim reflects on the importance of dreaming and having a vision for one's life. He discusses the challenges of daily obligations that can stifle creativity and personal growth, emphasizing the need to let go of stress and embrace vulnerability. Hakim shares insights on the impact of allowing others to be themselves and the significance of self-care. He encourages listeners to take control of their lives, pursue their dreams, and not be afraid to express their true selves.

      Takeaways

      Dreaming is essential for personal growth.
      Money should not be the sole focus in life.
      Vulnerability leads to deeper connections.
      Stress can block your ability to dream.
      Letting others be themselves creates a harmonious environment.
      You must take care of yourself first.
      People often don't care about your actions as much as you think.
      The power to change your life lies within you.
      Dreams require action to become reality.
      Embrace your true self and let go of societal expectations.


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      Apple Pod - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-starts-with-me/id1789858146 

      YT - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_svvLieMTo_q63NcR7MjGQ 

      Nate Twitch. - https://twitch.tv/unexpecties 

      40 min
    • Lead With Love - Even With Your Mom EP1

      In this episode of 'This Starts With Me,' Hakim shares his excitement for the podcast's launch and reflects on personal growth, accountability, and the importance of vulnerability. He discusses the challenges of balancing work and personal life, the significance of relationships, and the need to lead with love. Hakim also touches on current events and societal issues, emphasizing the importance of giving back and supporting one another. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to embrace vulnerability and strive for personal improvement.


      Takeaways:

      Embrace vulnerability as a path to personal growth.
      Accountability is essential for self-improvement.
      Leading with love simplifies relationships and life.
      Forgiveness prevents resentment and promotes peace.
      Delayed gratification often leads to greater rewards.
      Building strong relationships requires effort and love.
      Personal growth starts with self-reflection and change.
      Negativity is often celebrated in society; choose positivity.
      Support and uplift those around you for mutual growth.
      Current events reflect the need for compassion and action.


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      Apple Pod - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-starts-with-me/id1789858146 

      YT - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_svvLieMTo_q63NcR7MjGQ 

      Nate Twitch! - https://twitch.tv/unexpecties 

      52 min
    • This Starts With Me: Did I Pack A Parachute?? EP0

      Welcome to the show! This episode is the definition of “leap of faith” as I attempt to dive into a passion of mine - chatting for no reason. Join me if you’d like!


      "In the pilot episode of 'This Starts With Me' podcast, Hakim shares his journey of self-discovery, personal growth, and the importance of spirituality. He reflects on the challenges faced in the past year, including navigating relationships, mental health, and the significance of being present for loved ones. Hakim emphasizes the need to embrace creativity and step out of comfort zones, while also recognizing that every experience, good or bad, contributes to personal development. The episode serves as an introduction to his podcasting journey, inviting listeners to join him in exploring various themes of life and growth."


      P.s. the umm’s will get better


      Weekly Installment - 1/52

      EP 0 - Pilot

      34 min

    About This Starts With Me

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