This week Carla and Wax discuss the benefits of marriage, proper tipping etiquette, and swingers 

They also talk about surprise gift giving and get down to the bottom of why Carla doesn’t like flowers but also doesn’t mind flowers as gift. It’s her world… he just lives in it! Take a listen to this week’s episode 

[07:54] Pet Peeve of the Week: Wax hates that Carla drinks out of water bottles and put them back in the fridge.

[09:50] Carla has an issue with the wine restrictions in New Jersey 

[13:26] From the Therapist’s Couch: What are the benefits of being married, do you marry for comfort or love?

[24:58] TOPIC OF THE DAY:  Are you supposed to tip when you pick-up food from a restaurant? [29:13] How often should you get your girl a surprise gift? [34:24] What is worst? a person who never acknowledges their wrong doing or a person that always says sorry but doesn’t change their behavior? 

[41:44] Listener Letters: My husband after 15 years decided to tell me he wants to try a “swingers” club with me after a show sparked his interest, how do I approach change and interests as the years go by?

[50:48] Pass Da Word: Proverbs 15:1 A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.

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This week’s Carla and Wax discuss dealing with individual trauma in a relationship, opposite sex friends and worldly sins.

They also have a discussion about falling in love with potential and if people eventually grow out of cheating when they find “the right one” umm, let’s  just say there are two different opinions. But at the end of it all the final word is “Whatever She Says”

[04:15] Pet Peeve of the Week: People going to the bathroom and leave with washing their hand it’s disgusting.

[12:50] From the Therapist’s Couch:  dealing with past trauma in a relationship but individually

[29:30] TOPIC OF THE DAY:  How you change as a person when you find the right person [32:17] The feeling that you get when you find the right person [40:30] Opposite Sex Friends [48:00] Telling someone you’re not ready for a relationship but still expected a relationship

[01:00:46] Listener Letters: I’m in one-hour long distance relationship, She I be ok with my boyfriend hangout with his female friend? [01:07:51] Step-parent boundaries, As a step mother how can I discipline my step child?

[1:15:16] Pass Da Word: Proverbs 20:22 Do not say, “I’ll pay you back for this wrong!” Wait for the LORD, and he will avenge you.

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This week’s Carla and Wax discuss doing things you don’t like out of love, Polygamy and Responsibilities of co-parenting. 

They also open a discussion about premarital counseling and what Wax really thinks about what happens at a bachelorette party!

A compromise was made but... let’s just say Carla’s Island bachelorette party idea may require another conversation.

[05:20]Pet Peeve of the Week: Cellphones At the dining room table, Dining room table should be a place where we spend uninterrupted time together

[10:30] From the Therapist’s Couch: Getting compromise from a man’s perspective of being your protector

[22:44] TOPIC OF THE DAY : Doing things you don’t like out of love for your partner

[27:25] What does Polygamy look like? And do I want to be a polygamist?

[31:31] Responsibilities of co-parenting

[45:21] Listener Letters: I am unhappy at work, should I quit my job without knowing where/how income will flow to spend time with my kids and to be a happier me?

[53:16] How do I tell my partner what I need sexually without hurting their feelings? and how do I give direction he will follow?

[1:03:26] Pass Da Word: Proverbs 10:17 Whoever heeds discipline shows the way to life, but whoever ignores correction leads others astray.

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This week’s Carla and Wax chat about How long should couples wait to have another baby after the firstborn? And how social media beef in effects relationships.

They also recap Wax’s birthday celebration. Wax explains the day’s events as only Wax can meanwhile, Carla gives the complete story from her POV its whatever she says!

[07:08] Pet Peeve of the week: When Sexytime turns in to bedtime, Mama is tired

[12:05] From the Therapist’s Couch: Having clear goals for your future

[20:05] TOPIC OF THE DAY:  How long should couples wait to have another baby after their first?

[26:56] Social media beef in relationships

[ 34:53] Listener Letters: how much privacy is appropriate between your partner and their kid’s parent like if they say what they talk about is none of your business.

[37:26] if you're out at dinner and your partner asks for some food out of your plate and you say no is that selfish If he’s the one paying?

[46:00] Pass Da Word: 1 Corinthians 13:11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me.

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In this week's episode they chat about how relationship dynamic changes after kids, hormones, adjusting, and living apart for months after the baby was born.

[02:39 ]Pet Peeve of the Week: 

Taking just to talk… saying things for no reason 

[04:52]From the Therapist Couch

Shutting Down -Do you speak of the problem right away or keep it to yourself?

[48:10 ]Pass Da Word: 

Psalm 91 : “He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty."

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Carla & Wax have a very dynamic schedule. With a new born and two ambitious hustlers in the household there is a likely chance of feeling overwhelmed.

In this week's episode they chat about the frustration and teamwork it takes to transition into their busy and unpredictable traveling schedule.

Pet Peeve of the Week:

@WaxKyng tries to butter Carla up by flipping the pet peeve of the week on himself. He thinks he did it successfully, tell us what you think?

12:00: From the Therapist Couch:

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53:00 - Pass Da Word

James 2:14 : What good is it, my brothers and sisters, if someone claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save them?"

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Pet peeve of the week :

Not reading the manual or instruction guide while building or putting something together!

Tune in to see how Wax almost… well, just tune in… I don’t want to write anything incriminating lol.

Therapist Couch:

Seeing a future with someone is important. Not in a crazy “omg are we getting married” on the first date kind of way.

Wax & Carla talk about how alignment is the foundation of a long-term relationship.

Valentine’s Day Virtual date Ideas:

• If you are dating someone but cannot be with them on Valentine’s Day, we give you some pretty cool ideas to still enjoy this man made holiday. 
• Also, you'll get to hear the story about Wax sending his teacher to the hospital

Pass Da Word:

Luke 18:1

Then Jesus told his disciplines a parable to show them that they should always pray and not give up.

In this segment we explore the power of persistence. Are you persistent about the outcomes that you want in your life? Are you seeking the things that give your joy and make you feel aligned? 

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This episode is very special to us because we are finally welcoming Baby Pslam to our Whatever She Says, family!

Thank you for all of your support and warm wishes, we have been showered with love daily.

This week we catch you up on the craziness of Psalm’s birth. Remember when the doctor told us Psalm would be here in February? Yeah, looks like the little man had his own agenda.

[5:00] Pet Peeve of the week: TV infidelity !

[24:00] We also talk to you about ABO incompatibility and provide you all with updates about Psalms ‘Jaundice status.

Stay tuned because even insert audio footage from the car ride to the hospital after Carla’s water broke.

[40:00] Pass Da' Word

Psalm 55:22

Cast your cares on the LORD and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken.

“The Wait Defines The Weight of your relationship.“

• Pastor JJ

Links Mentioned:

“Stretch Marks” Journey Church

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Carla is officially 9 months pregnant this week!! Can you guess when the baby is going to come?!

[5:00] Apple Podcast Review

Thank you for leaving a podcast review to help grow our show. We get a lot of DM’s and people who have emailed us to show their support. It would help the show immensely if you go leave that 5 star review :).

We even learn from the reviews, for example Wax is learning how to say:

“Callate La Boca. Por Favor”

[7:00] Pet Peeve of the week Garbage Etiquette

When do you take the initiative to take out the trash? Are you the type of person to

[11:00] From the Therapist Couch

Trust is a choice regardless of your past conditioning.

[16:06] Work Life Balance:

Is work life balance a real thing? Carla & Wax discuss how they can both work and still keep things balanced in the relationship. 

[28:00] Listener Letters:

1. I found messages in my husbands phone and need advice on how I should take it.
2. My brother doesn’t like my new boyfriend & he said something that made me raise an eyebrow and reevaluate our relationship. I need help

[47:00] 50/50 Court:

Plaintiff bring defendant to court because he does not drink enough water. Tune in to find out the benefits of having a water dick!

[1:02] Pass Da Word

Pslam 27:11

Teach me your way, LORD; lead me in a straight path because of my oppressors.

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