This Was Not the Plan

Hey friends – just popping in for a quick update. I know it’s been a minute since the last full episode, and I didn’t want to leave you hanging. Life has been lifing, and I needed to take a little time to handle some personal things behind the scenes. 

But please know – I haven’t given up on the podcast, and I’m so excited for what’s coming next. Thank you for being patient, for sticking around, and for being part of this community. Full episodes will be back soon, and they’ll be worth the wait. 

Ever wondered what it’s really like to compete in a pageant? In this episode, I take you behind the scenes of my pageant journey—how I got started, what drew me in, and the biggest surprises along the way. From the nerves of my first competition to the lessons I learned (the hard way), I’m sharing the real, unfiltered experience. Whether you're a pageant veteran or just curious about the world of crowns and sashes, this one’s for you! Stay tuned for future episodes where I dive deeper into interview prep, handling competition pressures, and all the behind-the-scenes drama. Let’s get into it!

We’ve all had those jobs—the ones that make you question your life choices, your patience, and humanity as a whole. In this episode, I’m spilling all the details on my worst work experiences, from nightmare bosses to bizarre customer interactions. If you’ve ever suffered through a terrible job, you’re not alone. Tune in for a laugh (and maybe some job-related trauma bonding).

Dating in Nashville is a wild ride—full of unexpected twists, questionable choices, and a whole lot of “Did that really just happen?” moments. In this episode of This Was Not the Plan, I’m sharing some of my funniest (and most cringe-worthy) casual dating experiences from Music City. From awkward first dates to creepy massage therapists, let’s laugh through the chaos together. Grab a drink (or a snack, if you're like me) and get ready for some unhinged dating stories. 🎙️💘

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Welcome to Episode 3 of This Was Not the Plan! In this episode I will be discussing my pregnancy journey, as well as my labor and delivery story. 

You can plan all you want, but when it comes to pregnancy, labor, and delivery—let’s just say the baby is calling the shots. In this episode, I’m diving into the raw, unexpected, and downright wild realities of bringing a tiny human into the world. From the things no one warns you about to the moments that make it all worth it, we’re keeping it real (and maybe a little unfiltered). Whether you're pregnant, thinking about kids, or just here for the chaos, grab a snack and let’s talk about it!

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Local Resources for Moms:

The Hope Station
Serving Davidson and Rutherford counties, this agency offers temporary crisis relief to single, working mothers who may not qualify for public assistance.
https://www.hopestationtn.org/about

Pregnancy Centers of Middle Tennessee
https://www.pcofmt.com

Mother to Mother
A non-profit organization that provides health and wellness items such as car seats, diapers, and other essentials to mothers in need, ensuring all children have a chance to thrive.
https://www.mothertomother.org

Ella's House
Dedicated to providing essential baby and period products to women across East Tennessee, they work with over 70 partner organizations to address diaper needs and other essentials. 
https://ellashouse.org

National Resources for Moms:
Nurse-Family Partnership
This program connects first-time, low-income mothers with registered nurses who provide home visits from pregnancy until the child's second birthday, offering guidance on health, parenting, and self-sufficiency.
https://www.nursefamilypartnership.org

The Life of a Single Mom
This organization connects single mothers with resources to help them thrive in all areas of life, offering support groups, educational materials, and assistance programs. 
https://thelifeofasinglemom.com

Single Moms Planet
Dedicated to empowering single mothers, this organization provides resources, financial assistance programs, and community support to help single-parent families achieve stability and success.
https://singlemomsplanet.org

Losing a pregnancy is something no one prepares you for, and yet, so many of us walk this path feeling alone. In this episode, I open up about my own miscarriage, the emotions that followed, and the struggles of navigating a healthcare system that often fails women in these moments. If you've been through it, you’re not alone. If you haven’t, this is why we need to talk about it.

In this first episode of This Was Not the Plan, I’m sharing how I got my start as a makeup artist, the unexpected detours along the way, and the lessons I’ve learned in the process. From struggling to book my first clients to the wins that made it all worth it, I’m giving you the real, unfiltered version of my journey—because, let’s be honest, I’ve been making it up as I go.

If you’re a makeup artist (or thinking about becoming one), I’ve got some advice, some hard-learned lessons, and maybe even a few stories that’ll make you laugh. Let’s get into it!

Welcome to the very first episode of This Was Not the Plan! I’m your host, Karlee, and in this episode, I’m giving you a brief overview of what this podcast is all about. From juggling motherhood to running a business, this show dives into the messy, unpredictable, and often hilarious moments that come with life’s detours.

In this intro episode, I’ll give you a sneak peek into the themes of the podcast—finding humor in chaos, embracing life’s twists, and sharing stories that are all too relatable. Whether you’re a mom, entrepreneur, or someone just trying to make it through the day, this podcast is for anyone who’s ever had their plans turned upside down.

Join me as I explore what happens when life doesn’t go as planned, and how we can laugh, learn, and grow through it all.