La La La ... We just go on in life thinking that it's all gonna be rainbows and Butterflies ... HAHAHA
You don't just wake up to a great Marriage, you don't wake up to being your ideal weight .. It all takes work. The Leave it to Beaver family of the 50s is not nor never was the route in life we were given. We jump into the struggles in everyday life and how to MAKE your marriage awesome. Hopefully, we open some eyes and ears to seeing that through the work comes a great reward.

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Today we talk about Emotional Safety with your partner .. DO you feel "Safe"? 
Sounds crazy to have a long-term relationship and NOT feel safe ...
We talk about what we think it takes and looks like to be open, safe, and secure in a Partnership.

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Are you finding yourself dying on every hill to be right? well, I guess you love the loneliness that comes with that. 
Why do we feel being Stubborn is a power move? it erodes and cuts off communication quick! Let talk about what the stubborn person gets to enjoy when they always need to be right .

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Social media has taken over in the "Fix it" space.
How many people do you know that "Fix" themselves by watching a Video or a person after seeing someone like them having the same issues is miraculously "Cured" just from one or two videos? The problem is NOT in identifying the issue but the Work needed to change after the issue is in the open for them .. 
It sure is nice to see someone else have the same problem as us, BUT until you change your behavior, nothing changes. not all the TikToks in. the world are going to the work needed.

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R E S P E C T... 
We ALL want it but are we willing to give it ?
It's a word that garners so much debate, do you give respect before you get it OR do you get it first and then decide if who you are giving respect to is deserving of it?
In a marriage /Relationship it's a key element to having AND Giving.. Let's see if we can challenge your view on RESPECT ..
Thank you!

Well ... Emotional Safety.

We tackle the Emotional safety in a relationship and how unbelievably crucial it is to get the depth of TRUST you developed in being vulnerable to your partner.
Women want safety in the relationship and believe it or not Men can release their emotions on a TRUSTED woman .. 
We all win if we can be honest and authentic, especially in our marriage.

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Perception determines your reception ...
How often do we have a "Perception" BEFORE we know what's about to happen?
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We talk about how much time we Assume we know what is coming and then have an opinion or perception of what is coming only to present ourselves with an opinion or a thought as to what is happening.
Your perception is not always the truth of what to come.
let's drop the assumptions, wait to hear, and listen BEFORE we are disappointed and put our partner on the defense.

Thank you !!

Friendship OVER Passion ?
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What ? ... Well let's breakdown that statement 
We NEED to be friends AND we need Passion, but what catapults your marriage than having your partner be your most intimate and BEST friend?
We spend way more time dressed and in public than we do naked and in bed, it sure is great to have a partner that yo can show, tel,l and explore life with a buddy.
This DOES NOT eliminate the passion but we talk about how much our passion has exploded when we became the best of friends.

Enjoy and Thank you

We continue with the Episode filling in the last bites

What does it look like to "Heal"?
We go into this past year and the work we've done to heal parts of our lives from the past .
This will maybe help see that saying you want change and actually doing the work is completely different .
We go through the steps on how we did and are still doing it 
Theres a process and TIME that it takes .
We felt this needed 2 parts so welcome to part 1