In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss avoiding the temptation to use negative words in an attempt to motivate through reverse psychology and, instead, express yourself with positivity to influence and build confidence.

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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss recognizing all the things, great and small, that your spouse does for you with kind words, respect and appreciation that is uplifting and strengthens your marriage.

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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss the reasons behind, and resulting fallout from, telling half-truths in a relationship and how it's much easier to be upfront and honest with your spouse about everything.

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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss being prepared as a couple and a family for the stresses that naturally arise during the holiday season by planning ahead and communicating clearly in order to get through this time of year as smoothly as possible.

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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss making effective apologies in your marriage by quickly acknowledging and resolving the causal behavior as well as gracefully receiving apologies from your spouse and letting those resolved matters go.


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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss focusing on the present and sticking to the facts when arguing with your spouse where the goal should be to listen attentively, speak honestly, seek understanding, and then resolve the issue with the commitment not to bring it up ever again.

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In this episode, Scott and Anne spend the first part of the episode finishing their latest argument and then discuss the commitment and responsibility differences between boyfriends/girlfriends and husbands/wives and how to properly play the role that you are in.

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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss constantly investing in the relationship equity that you have in your marriage to demonstrate that your partner continues to be the most important, respected and cherished person in your life.

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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss the confidence, trust and affection that builds within a marriage from consistent kindnesses that also pay bigger relationship dividends and add up to so much more than occasional grand gestures.

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In this episode, Scott and Anne discuss engaging in behavior that is antagonistic and hurtful toward your spouse as a preemptive measure due to your own fear of being hurt or rejected that also enables you to control the narrative in the relationship.

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