Thoughtful Planning

Santiago and Honey Bueno are back and, in this episode, they are having an honest, from-the-heart conversation about The Conversation: A Revolutionary Plan for End-of-Life Care by Angelo Volandes, M.D. 

What do you need to have ready for your conversation with those that matter most to you?  

To help answer this question, Santiago and Honey read The Conversation: A Revolutionary Plan for End-of-Life Care, the book written by Angelo Volandes, M.D. 

He argues for a “radical revisioning of the patient-doctor relationship to ensure patients are at the center of and in control of their medical care.”

Santiago reminds us that it’s best to have these conversations when you’re clear of mind and your emotions and those of your loved ones are in check. 

Step one: Identify what matters most to you. 

Honey and Santiago share their answers to some of these key questions. Remember, this is a place to start. Santiago reminds us that these aren’t going to something you answer quickly, and they might change over time as life circumstances change. 

Be clear about your wishes. If you are facing a serious or terminal illness, they discuss additional questions that Dr. Volandes outlined to help guide you. Honey and Santiago explain how these can help you begin to make decisions for your end-of-life care.

Step two: Share the answers to the questions with your loved ones. 

Have the conversation. It’s also important to document what you’ve decided. You can even record a video explaining your thoughts so it’s clear how you came to these decisions. 

Step three: Talk with your doctor. 

Dr. Volandes provides a few questions that can help you with this conversation. 

There are medical directives that you can put in place. DNR (do not resuscitate) orders often have to be signed by your physician and witnessed so telling a loved one might not be enough for them to prevent treatment they know you do not want. 

Honey explains that googling POLST Form + the state you live in can help you find the documents you need. 

POLST stands for Physician Orders for Life-sustaining Treatment. 

MOFLST stands for Medical Orders for Life-sustaining Treatment. 

They're the same thing, but in different states they call them by those two different names. 

This episode started with the question: What do you need to have ready for your conversation with those that matter most to you? Remember, it’s a process so commit to taking the first step now, so you can have peace of mind later. 

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The Conversation book by Dr. Volandes

The ACP Tools app 

Reminder: this married co-host team aren’t doctors, attorneys or medical experts. They are tackling this topic themselves and want to share what they learn to help others navigate this emotion-filled and often intimidating process. 

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Discover the power of having an open conversation about end-of-life wishes in this episode of Thoughtful Planning with Santiago Honey Bueno.

Join them as they emphasize the importance of finding the right time and place to discuss your preferences and explore practical steps you can take to plan for the future. From creating a will to distributing personal belongings, Santiago and Honey share their personal experiences and insights to help you navigate this sensitive topic with grace and compassion.

Whether you're an individual seeking guidance or a family looking to start the conversation, this episode offers valuable advice and inspiration. Don't miss out on this heartfelt discussion that aims to improve communication and understanding around end-of-life planning. Start now and take the first step towards a thoughtful and prepared future. 

Honey and Santiago discuss:

·        The importance of having end-of-life conversations: Learn how these discussions can bring peace of mind and ensure your wishes are respected.

·        Navigating the sensitive topic of distributing personal belongings among children: Find practical tips on dividing sentimental items with love and fairness.

·        Making time for end-of-life conversations: Find out how carving out dedicated moments can create deeper connections and understanding with your loved ones.

·        Creating e a safe and supportive space for discussing sensitive topics: Learn how to foster open communication and encourage everyone to share their thoughts and concerns.

·        How to have open conversations about financial planning: Gain insights on discussing finances with loved ones, ensuring everyone is informed and prepared for the future. 

Honey and Santiago bring a unique perspective and personal experience to the topic of end-of-life planning. As a caregiver to Santiago, who battled throat cancer, Honey understands the importance of open and honest conversations about end-of-life wishes.

Her compassionate and practical approach to planning and communication can help individuals and families navigate this sensitive topic with ease. Together Santiago and Honey share valuable insights and practical tips to help you make time for those important end-of-life conversations. Get ready to gain a new perspective and feel empowered to have these crucial discussions. 

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Do you want to ensure peace of mind and alleviate stress for your loved ones when it comes to your final wishes? Are you searching for a solution that will help you achieve this desired outcome? Look no further because today, our guest, Virginia Bueno, will be sharing the key to attaining serenity and reducing the burden on your loved ones. By following Virginia's advice, you can guarantee tranquility and alleviate the pressure your family may face when navigating your end-of-life planning decisions.

In this episode Santiago and Virginia (his mom) discuss:

·        How to simplify end-of-life planning for peace of mind and reduced stress.

·        The importance of organizing paperwork for smoother transitions.

·        Effective communication techniques for expressing final wishes.

·        Having peace of mind through preparedness and knowing everything is in order.

Virginia Bueno is joining us today on Thoughtful Planning. As the wife of Santiago's late father, she brings a unique perspective and firsthand experience to the topic of communication about final wishes. With 42 and a half years of marriage under her belt, Virginia understands the importance of clear and open dialogue when it comes to end-of-life planning.

Her personal journey, filled with difficult decisions and unexpected challenges, has given her valuable insights into the practical aspects of organizing documentation and making tough choices. Her warm and compassionate nature shines through as she shares her story, offering guidance and support to those facing similar circumstances.

Tune in to gain wisdom from her wealth of experience and discover the peace of mind that thoughtful planning can bring.

“We had some hard decisions even before we got through the paperwork.” – Santiago Bueno

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Thinking about your legacy isn’t always top of mind. Thoughtful Planning Hosts Santiago and Honey Bueno didn’t give it much thought either, until the opportunity to learn more about what legacy and end-of-life planning really meant.

Creating trusts and making sure the legal details are complete for your heirs can feel like it’s only for the super-wealthy. That’s why this husband-and-wife team want to have these conversations. Planning is for everyone, especially if you have kids who’ll be the ones left to sort things out. 

“Turns out trusts are for everyday people like us juggling jobs, family, and everyday life. We wanted to create a roadmap, especially for our adult kids.”

After deployments in Iraq and Sudan and being at the Pentagon on 9/11/2001 Santiago shares that thinking “what if” became more than an exercise about what could happen. Hear how they came to the decision to learn more and begin putting their plan in place.

Educating themselves is why they want to help others. There’s no roadmap, just a lot of questions in search of answers.

Join them as they share solutions that have helped them, and the questions that are still on the table.

“Getting your stuff in order is kind of like assembling Ikea furniture. It takes time, it takes patience, . . . and every piece of paper, every call is a step closer to peace of mind. We're taking you on this journey with us.” Santiago and Honey Bueno

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Life doesn’t always go as expected. That’s why planning for contingencies is so important. The Thoughtful Planning podcast will help you understand why having these conversations, and making these decisions are so important.

Putting a plan in place gives your family peace of mind knowing and understanding your choices. Reduce stress and anxiety about finances, insurance, and your final wishes. Husband and wife hosts Santiago and Honey Bueno share the steps they’ve taken and explain the questions they are still considering.

Create a plan now, while you’re able to thoughtfully consider how you’d like things handled. Santiago and Honey share advice with compassion and understanding. They know that hard conversations need to happen, but you don’t have to be alone as you begin your planning Journey.  

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