It would be better for us to stick our head in the ground, the way of the ostrich, than to know what everyone else is up to. More often than not, that knowledge can cause us to question God’s goodness, justice, mercy… we feel slighted or maligned by God for not attaining, or receiving more or better than our peers, especially when we factor in the timing of God. But God’s ways and thoughts are higher and greater than our own. He doesn’t consider fairness in the same way we do. Trust that He knows what’s best for you.