The elements of Motivation may be a good source to encourage the calculation with God. 

BibleTools has a great breakdown of Fretting which you should check out.

"The human effort is in vain unless we have the Lord's blessings."

Involve the Lord always; when you forget, all you need to do is turn to Him and bring your worries to Him.

Picture this... The Seraphim spoke, the foundations of the thresholds shook at the voice, the house was filled with smoke and you concentrated on your personal sin before the Lord.

You can have this experience right now. Ask Jesus to command you to take the next step and do it!

I hope this makes sense. Jesus makes very clear the cost of discipleship. What is unclear at times is what we are unwilling to pay to follow him. Ask Jesus, step into conversation with the Lord and ask Him what needs to be done.

"He urged you to come to judgment right away when He convicted you, but you did not..."

Do NOW what you will have to do some day!

I hope this episode encourages you. Relationship with Jesus comes at a cost to our way of living. 

I hope to add my thoughts on "The cost of discipleship" to this podcast soon!

The blood of Jesus is enough... "In our mental outlook, we have to reconcile ourselves to the fact of sin as the only explanation as to why Jesus Christ came, and as the explanation for the grief and sorrow in life.

Today I continue the study of 2 Peter 1:5 and dive into Knowledge

Remember..... "Every one then who hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house upon the rock; and the rain fell, and the floods came and the winds blew and beat upon that house, but it did not fall, because it had been founded on the rock."

Bible tools topic that might be of help.

Proverbs 18:24 "There are friends who pretend to be friends, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother."

Be the friend who sticks closer than a sibling.