Ashlei and Stacy go waaaaay back to the 80s for “This Or That” and even discuss their connections to soap operas. They also examine President Trump downplaying the virus intentionally, singer Chris Stapleton getting attacked for speaking up for Black lives, and who is making money off the pandemic. Ashlei drops some Spare Change (and low-key asks for some). Enjoy the episode.

First paying tribute to actor Chadwick Boseman, Ashlei and Stacy dive into an array of topics, including interesting questions like “Should you tell your friend their posts are trash or let ‘em live?” and “If you could know your death date, would you want to?” They get into the TMZ leak of Dr. Dre’s ex wife’s $2 million monthly budget and this week’s “Get Your Life Together” segment is WILD. Stacy drops off some Spare Change with Robert Frost bars. You’ll be entertained on this one.

Ashlei and Stacy dive deep into the woods of their relationship situations, with Stacy discussing his chances at matrimony and Ashlei explaining how she ended up single again. It leads to a hearty conversation about marriage, fulfillment and preparation. Somehow, the polyamorous ways of Deray end up in the discussion. They also dive into a mother of a biracial son and how she addresses his Blackness as well as help someone get their life together. And Ashlei’s Three Cents of Wisdom will feed your spirit.

Ashlei and Stacy discuss the fires raging and what would matter in an evacuation. They examine the Sweetie Pies tragedy and argue in a Verzuz style segment of This or That. Guess which one is riding with Damian Lillard and which one chose Stephen Curry. Stacy drops Three Cents of Wisdom.

Ashlei and Stacy dive deep into the selection of Kamala Harris as Democratic Presidential Nominee Joe Biden’s Vice President. They discuss her record, the significance of her selection, and what her selection tells us as they read between the lines. They also discuss self-care during these times and help someone with new money get their life together. And finally, Ashlei dips into the past for her Three Cents of Wisdom.

Stacy and Ashlei talk about their greatest fears, their lifelong friends and the new documentary about the mayor of Stockton. Hmmmm. What if they were the mayor of their hometown at 26?

Also, another round of “This or That” and three cents of wisdom from Stacy.

Ashlei and Stacy discuss some of the proudest moments of their lives — which allows Ashlei to flex about her latest encounter with Snoop Dogg. Plus, studies are expecting 500,000 fewer babies in 2021. They discuss why people aren’t having kids. And since Joe Biden keeps floating a Black woman as a running mate, Ashlei and Stacy ponder some, um, unique options for a Black woman vice president. They also help an ex wife get her life together and Ashlei drops a stirring Three Cents.

Ashlei and Stacy argue about who was correct in the J. Cole battle — can we call it a battle? — with Noname. Who was in the wrong? How should they have handled it? They also talk about old school music, the stuff your parents put you on, and their car history and future. Stacy delivers the “Three Cents” words of wisdom. The This or That segment is pretty fun, too.

Ashlei and Stacy talk about whether it’s too late for them to have kids. Yes, they went there. They also dive into cancel culture and help a listener get their life together.

Ashlei and Stacy talk about the exits of Amanda Seales and Tamera Lowery from "The Real" and, of course, they get into the “entanglement” of Jada Pinkett Smith, August Alsina and Will Smith.