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We are. back with another episode and digging deeper into who you are and how you show up! Have you ever been labeled as too much, too loud, too quiet, too shy...too insert adjective here? I have! This episode discuss how I am handling dealing with the labels others have placed on me while trying to balance walking in the full authority God has given me! I am not too much, I am just enough and so are you! Be sure of you! Walk in boldness and continue to light up every room yall!

Welcome back yall! On this episode, I am continuing the discussion of unpacking who I am! I dig a little deeper into the questions I begin to ask myself as it relates to why I am not showing my full self in every space. I am in a space where I am done compartmentalizing me, but in order to do that I have to know who I am! Our God knows the depths of us, He knows me, He knows YOU. He has helped me to accept all aspects of me so I can show up as Krystal Monique, the woman He made me to be! Let's unpack together, ask yourself the hard questions! Who are you really!? Check in with God, who loves you deeply!!

Who are you…really!? Remove the mask, be you!

Welcome back yall! On this episode, I am jumping into who Krystal the advocate is…or better stated who I wanted people to know me to be! I discuss what God has revealed to me about hiding, hiding who I am in totality. I discuss how I overcorrected and muted an aspect of me that God has truly blessed. He called me into my career field before I knew the word “career”! God is renewing me daily, revealing my blindspots often, I am thankful for revelation. Is there any part of you that has been dimmed and God never told you to do that? He never told me to hide who I am….a believer, great litigator and lover of God’s people. I am thankful that God speaks to me now and I listen. I am no longer wearing a mask! I am giving my full self to all and I encourage you all to do the same!

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On this episode we dive into my first story time episode, I am sharing the time I joined a marriage group as a single woman. I am in an intentional space of my life where I desire all the wisdom that I can get on all things I lack knowledge in! I desire marriage, not a romanticized marriage, not a fairytale, but an actual kingdom marriage. So I joined a community of married folks at my church! I discuss my hesitations, my fears, and thoughts that I wouldn't be accepted yet I pushed through and will get what I need! I hope this episode encourages you to get what you need! Prepare yourself for what you desire. Let me know yall thoughts!

Welcome back yall!! What about yo friends!? On this episode, we are continuing the conversation of friendships and digging deeper into friendships with the opposite sex. What say you!? Do you believe men and women can actually be friends? I share my opinion and how I used to think we couldn't be friends and how I overcorrected once I begin to focus on my faith. I did not allow God to be present with me in assessing the friendships with men, instead I focused on my basic understanding of what can he do for me.....romance only! I am thankful God is revealing the importance of men in my life. My prayer is this episode will open your mind and desire to surrender this topic to God. As I said.....I have too many homegirls lol. I need men in my life! That's it, that's all!

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What about yo friends!? It’s giving hard work! On this episode, we dive into establishing and maintaining friendships as an adult. It aint easy! I 100% pushed away the possibility of developing new relationships out of fear and masked it as….no new friends. I am talking about the process of accepting I needed friends who were like minded and able to hold me accountable and that I needed to show myself friendly and open to begin to develop strong substantive friendships. It hasn’t been easy and it has required me to speak up, slow down, accept and take the time to learn new people. I also touch briefly about men and women friendships and how I believe it is needed….but we will go deeper into that topic in another episode! Are you open to new friendships? How have you developed friendships as an adult? I would love to hear your thoughts.

Welcome back y’all! I am still talking about these dating streets. This episode I jump into what it looks like to get out the box of theory and jump into the practical box! Doing the “work” is popular and we all have things God reveals and desires to heal. When is it time to apply the tools learned with God, therapy, sister circles!? Release fear and jump in, people assist in revealing blind spots! You will hear a few examples of how I have practically applied what God has done with me in private! Vulnerability opens the door to being hurt, but I have jumped in! See me! All of me!

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It’s giving safe! It’s giving covered! It’s giving…work! We are back with Part II of Dating and this time we talking about dating with God. I am talking about what it means to go through the dating process with God, it how important it is to let Him lead. Three things to takeaways: (1) Light is Attractive (2) Know who you are in Christ (3)You gotta do the work. Dating with God being the driver has helped me understand that light is attractive and all people are want to feel the love of God, so don’t play with God’s sons and daughters. Use Wisdom! It is imperative to know who you are in Christ so that you go into the process with confidence! Lastly, work! Get to know yourself, be honest with God about your triggers and what is showing up for you in the process. Let Him read you as you are working through the process of being in relationship with others. What can you relate to in this week’s episode? I would love to hear your thoughts.

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It’s giving serial monogamist: This will be a two part episode of dating without God vs. dating with God (part II). On this episode, I am talking about the impact dating without God and doing and deciding who should be in my life in my own strength. I made decisions about dating without the wisdom of anyone, but I cannot say I knew to seek wisdom from anyone. I discuss the relationships I entered into without God over the years, the revelations after the relationships about myself, and the decisions I made based on dating without my fathers. I get a little vulnerable about the impact of life without my fathers and what it meant to finally release and let God be God as my Heavenly Father.

Hey yall! Welcome back! On this episode we are talking about feelings…all the feels. The feelings that come and go, they are up and down! Feelings are great indicators but they are not meant to lead our actions. But, how does one feel without letting the feels lead our actions!? Let’s talk about my personal journey of first acknowledging that I actually have a plethora of feelings and it is okay to admit I am angry, second how I welcomed God into assessing my feelings and no longer avoiding my feelings. Lastly, just how important it is to hold both things our feelings and what is actually fact. God is the best counselor! He will lead us! ✨💙👩🏾‍⚖️