THREE POINTS OF CONTACT

THREE POINTS OF CONTACT

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  • Reinvestment: When Thinking Too Much Makes You Worse

    This episode explores the concept of reinvestment theory in performance psychology, highlighting how overthinking can hinder performance under pressure. It discusses the balance between conscious thought and automatic skills, and offers insights for coaches and performers on simplifying instructions and cues.


    Takeaways

    • Pressure can hinder automatic skills
    • Simplifying instructions enhances performance


    Chapters

    • 00:00 Understanding Reinvestment Theory
    • 08:53 The Impact of Pressure on Performance
    • 18:01 Simplifying Coaching and Performance
    18 min
  • From Soldier to Firefighter to Jiu-Jitsu Coach: Finding the Real Self

    In this episode of the Three Points of Contact podcast, host Brad interviews Ben Newton, co-founder of Kaizen Summer and a former soldier, discussing his life journey from growing up in Birmingham to his experiences in the military, including his deployment in Afghanistan and the challenges he faced. The conversation delves into themes of belonging, personal growth, and the impact of military service on identity. The conversation explores Ben's journey of identity loss after leaving the military, his struggle to redefine himself, and the pivotal moments that led him to embrace new roles in life, including his work in the fire service and close protection. It delves into themes of personal growth, the impact of performance on identity, and the importance of understanding human behavior under pressure. The conversation explores the mental processes and coping strategies used by emergency responders, particularly focusing on breathing techniques and mental modeling to manage stress and adrenaline in high-pressure situations. Additionally, it delves into personal development through Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and the importance of self-awareness and courage in leadership and personal growth.


    Takeaways

    • Sense of belonging in military
    • Impact of deployment on identity Identity loss after military service
    • Importance of understanding human behavior Breathing techniques for stress management
    • Importance of self-awareness in leadership


    Chapters

    • 00:00 Introduction to Ben Newton
    • 01:50 Growing Up in Birmingham
    • 04:00 Joining the Military: A Personal Journey
    • 09:07 What the Army Provided
    • 12:28 Deployment Experience in Afghanistan
    • 22:11 The Hornet Incident and Its Aftermath
    • 25:55 Loss of Military Identity
    • 27:12 Identity Crisis and Transformation
    • 30:04 The Turning Point on the Cruise
    • 34:08 Finding Freedom in Anonymity
    • 39:09 The Fire Service Journey
    • 42:25 Pressure and Team Dynamics
    • 46:26 Training and Specialization in Fire Service
    • 52:03 Coping Strategies in High-Pressure Situations
    • 59:05 The Role of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu in Personal Development
    • 01:05:59 Building Meaningful Connections and Leadership
    • 01:11:05 Embracing Uncertainty and Personal Growth
    • 01:13:02 The Courage to Face the Unknown

    If you’re interested in what Ben can offer you, or you’d like to hear more from him, please follow the links here. Listen to his Curiosity & Command podcast, explore the Kaizen Summit website, follow Kaizen Summit on Instagram, or connect with Ben on LinkedIn to find out more about his work, leadership development and personal growth.

    1 hr 17 min
  • Why Do We Fall Apart Under Pressure?

    Brad introduces the concept of pressure and its impact on performance, drawing from his experiences in the military and adventure training. He explores the nature of pressure, attentional control, physical and mental responses to pressure, conscious control under pressure, practical strategies for managing pressure, the value of practicing under pressure, and the idea of embracing nervousness as a skill.

    Takeaways

    • Pressure affects attentional control
    • Conscious control under pressure can interfere with automatic skills
    • Practical strategies for managing pressure can help improve performance

    Chapters

    • 00:00 Understanding Pressure
    • 02:24 The Nature of Pressure
    • 05:41 Attentional Control
    • 08:34 Physical and Mental Responses to Pressure
    • 10:27 Conscious Control Under Pressure
    • 13:41 Practical Strategies for Managing Pressure
    • 17:24 The Value of Practicing Under Pressure
    • 19:48 Embracing Nervousness
    23 min
  • How a 32 Hour North Coast 500 Ride Raised Money for Education.

    Caroline Livesey, an endurance athlete and adventurer, shares her journey from the military to professional triathlon, highlighting her drive for challenges, experiences in rock climbing, and the impact of a road rage attack. Her resilience and recovery led to a relocation to Mallorca and the establishment of the Peak Education Nepal charity. Caroline shares her transformative experience in the Himalayas, the impact of adversity, and the establishment of Peak Education Nepal. She discusses supporting children's education, expanding the charity's impact, and her motivation and endurance. Caroline reflects on her North Coast 500 world record, team support, and post-record reflection. She also shares her upcoming challenges, charitable work, and future plans.

    Takeaways

    • Resilience and recovery from adversity
    • The pursuit of new challenges and personal growth Adversity can lead to unexpected opportunities
    • Supporting children's education has a lasting impact
    • Motivation and endurance drive remarkable achievements

    Chapters

    • 00:00 Introduction and Early Life
    • 01:20 The Drive for Challenges
    • 04:05 Rock Climbing and Fear Management
    • 09:10 Transition from Military to Triathlon
    • 21:09 Recovery and Resilience
    • 30:02 Relocation to Mallorca and Peak Education APAL
    • 33:55 The Himalayan Experience
    • 34:43 Impact of Adversity
    • 35:40 Education in Nepal
    • 36:35 Supporting Children's Education
    • 39:02 Establishing Peak Education Nepal
    • 40:08 Expanding Impact
    • 42:08 Motivation and Endurance
    • 43:47 North Coast 500 World Record
    • 46:22 Preparing for Challenges
    • 52:17 Team Support and Achievement
    • 54:49 Post-Record Reflection
    • 58:04 Upcoming Challenges
    • 01:00:00 Charitable Work and Future Plans

    To follow more of Caroline’s adventures, subscribe to The Brick Session on YouTube and follow Caroline on Instagram. You can learn more about Peak Education Nepal and support its work by clicking Donate on the website. Donations can be made securely through JustGiving or PayPal, with 100% going towards helping the children and schools the charity supports.

    1 hr 4 min
  • How a Rebellious Teen Built a Career Through Discipline and Sport

    Nick shares his journey from school to professional football, highlighting the impact of golf on his discipline and motivation. He discusses his experiences in the football industry, the challenges faced, and the importance of core values. The conversation covers Nick's transition from professional football to working with professional cyclists, emphasizing the importance of high performance lifestyle coaching and the broader concept of high performance in various aspects of life. The conversation covers the impact of social media, self-belief, and the importance of meaningful work and relationships. It also delves into the psychological skills training for athletes and the significance of patience and prioritizing family and friends.

    Takeaways

    • Discipline and motivation from golf
    • Challenges and ethics in the football industry Transition from professional sports to other careers
    • Importance of high performance lifestyle coaching Social media's accessibility to good material, the impact of self-belief, and the importance of meaningful work and relationships.
    • The significance of psychological skills training for athletes and the value of patience and prioritizing family and friends.

    Chapters

    • 00:00 School and Golf
    • 03:13 Transition to Professional Football
    • 06:00 Challenges in the Football Industry
    • 28:24 Transition from Professional Sports
    • 39:08 High Performance Lifestyle Coaching
    • 52:19 Broader Concept of High Performance
    • 53:39 Impact of Social Media
    • 54:17 Self-Belief and Meaningful Work
    • 55:16 Psychological Skills Training for Athletes
    • 58:07 The Importance of Patience and Prioritizing Family and Friends
    1 hr 13 min
  • The Dyslexia Advantage That Turned a "Bad Student" Into An Elite Coach.

    The conversation covers Dave's early life on the farm, the impact of dyslexia, and his military experience and transition. It explores the influence of farm life on work ethic, the challenges of dyslexia, and the impact of military service on personal growth and transition to civilian life. The conversation delves into the challenges of training courses, the purpose of military training, transitioning identities, the journey of adventure training, and reflections on performance and pressure. It explores the themes of overcoming self-imposed pressure and the importance of controlling the controllables. The conversation covers topics such as endurance racing, the Dragons Back Race, the challenge of embracing failure, mentoring and coaching in mountain rescue and triathlon, and the value of authenticity. The key takeaways include the importance of authenticity and the value of embracing failure as a means of personal growth and learning.

    Takeaways

    • Work ethic from farm life
    • Dealing with dyslexia
    • Military experience and its impact Overcoming self-imposed pressure
    • The importance of controlling the controllables Authenticity
    • Embracing failure

    Chapters

    • 00:00 Early Life on the Farm
    • 02:51 Dealing with Dyslexia
    • 11:55 Military Experience and Transition
    • 33:58 The Challenge of Training Courses
    • 35:04 The Purpose of Military Training
    • 38:40 Transitioning Identities
    • 42:29 The Journey of Adventure Training
    • 59:25 Reflections on Performance and Pressure
    • 01:07:48 The Dragons Back Race
    • 01:08:26 Endurance Racing and the Dragons Back Race
    • 01:11:13 The Challenge of Embracing Failure
    • 01:24:37 Mentoring and Coaching in Mountain Rescue and Triathlon
    • 01:30:07 The Value of Authenticity

    Intersted in taking on your own mountain adventures or endurance challenge? Follow this link to find out more about coaching with Dave and how he can help you prepare,perform and achieve your goals.

    1 hr 27 min
  • Why Imposter Syndrome May Actually Mean You’re Growing

    The conversation covers Paul's journey from his early years in Southampton to his current role as a mountain leader and provider for mountain training. It explores his experiences, challenges, and growth in the outdoor industry, as well as his approach to leadership and psychological safety in the field. The conversation delves into the challenges and dynamics of the outdoor industry, addressing issues of elitism, knowledge sharing, and imposter syndrome. It also explores the impact of perfectionism and the competitive environment on individuals within the industry. The conversation covers topics related to confidence, team dynamics, pressure management, and a significant avalanche experience. Paul shares a personal account of a near-fatal climbing accident and the psychological impact it had on him. He discusses the physical and emotional challenges he faced, as well as the coping mechanisms he used to navigate through a difficult period in his life. Paul also reflects on the lessons learned and the positive changes that emerged from his experiences.

    Takeaways

    • Organic Journey
    • Leadership Style Elitism in the outdoor industry
    • Imposter syndrome and perfectionism
    • Competitive environment and its impact on individuals Confidence assessment
    • Team dynamics
    • Pressure management
    • Avalanche experience Resilience
    • Coping Mechanisms

    Chapters

    • 00:00 Early Years and College Experience
    • 03:08 Travels and Personal Growth
    • 06:04 Becoming a Mountain Leader
    • 16:51 Leadership and Psychological Safety
    • 30:34 Elitism in the Outdoor Industry
    • 41:01 Imposter Syndrome and Perfectionism
    • 57:34 Competitive Environment and Its Impact
    • 59:13 Confidence Assessment
    • 01:00:14 Team Dynamics
    • 01:02:49 Pressure Management
    • 01:17:32 Avalanche Experience
    • 01:24:35 The Impact of the Climbing Accident
    • 01:25:33 Coping and Recovery
    • 01:27:03 Reflections on the Experience
    • 01:29:01 Personal Challenges and Growth
    • 01:30:00 The Importance of Self-Realization
    • 01:31:16 Overcoming Adversity
    • 01:32:49 The Journey to Recovery
    • 01:34:09 Lessons Learned and Moving Forward
    • 01:35:22 The Power of Self-Realization
    • 01:37:09 The Impact of Trauma on Mental Health
    • 01:38:29 The Role of Social Support
    • 01:40:24 Embracing Personal Growth
    • 01:44:15 The Journey to Healing
    • 01:46:43 Empathy and Understanding
    • 01:51:06 Recognizing Inner Strength

    Click here to visit Paul´s Mountaineering Page.

    1 hr 43 min
  • What the Military Taught Daz About Ego, Humility, and Brotherhood

    Daz Elms shares his journey from school to joining the military, reflecting on his experiences and challenges along the way. He discusses his time in the military, the decision to pursue the infantry, and the transformative experience of Depot. The conversation covers Daz Elms' experiences during training, including the challenges, physical tests, and the transition to 2 Para and Kenya. It also delves into the PT course selection process and the impact of personal relationships on Daz's journey. The conversation covers Daz Elms' experience as an Adventure Training Instructor (ATI) and the challenges he faced during his training. It also delves into the importance of humility, learning from mistakes, and the impact of personal growth on professional development. The conversation delves into the personal experiences of Daz Elms, a former soldier, as he reflects on his journey through injuries, resilience, and personal growth. Daz shares insights on identity, self-acceptance, and the impact of injuries on his life and relationships. He emphasizes the importance of being true to oneself and following one's instincts.

    Takeaways

    • Military Journey
    • Challenges and Reflections Training challenges
    • Transition to 2 Para and Kenya
    • PT course selection process Humility in learning
    • Importance of learning from mistakes Resilience
    • Self-acceptance

    Chapters

    • 00:00 Early Life and Military Interest
    • 03:12 Joining the Military and Initial Training
    • 05:12 Transition to Infantry and Depot Experience
    • 29:16 Training Challenges and Experiences
    • 31:06 Transition to 2 Para and Kenya
    • 51:45 PT Course Selection Process and Personal Impact
    • 51:52 The Probation Period and Selection Process
    • 53:09 Challenges Faced as an ATI
    • 01:15:28 The Impact of Personal Growth on Professional Development
    • 01:21:13 Personal Growth and Identity
    • 01:22:08 Mental Resilience and Overcoming Injuries
    • 01:23:40 Seeking Support and Reflecting on Personal Growth
    • 01:24:10 Navigating Personal Challenges and Self-acceptance
    • 01:24:51 Embracing Change and Moving Forward
    • 01:26:10 The Impact of Injuries and Seeking Support
    • 01:27:34 Self-Reflection and Overcoming Adversity
    • 01:31:04 Embracing Authenticity and Personal Growth
    • 01:34:31 Resilience and Self-acceptance
    • 01:36:00 Navigating Change and Embracing Authenticity
    • 01:46:53 Advice on Overcoming Challenges
    1 hr 39 min
  • BREAKING MY BODY TO HEAL MY MIND- ROSS DUNCAN

    The conversation covers Ross Duncan's journey from his military career to coping with loss and grief. It explores themes of resilience, leadership, and the impact of personal experiences on mindset and coping strategies. Ross Duncan shares his journey of grief and resilience, from the loss of his mother to his wife's battle with cancer. He reflects on purpose over approval and the impact of personal tragedy on his life and career. Ross Duncan shares his journey of supporting his wife through cancer treatment, emphasizing the importance of taking control and making lifestyle changes. He also discusses his own endurance challenges and the lessons learned from his experience.

    Takeaways

    • Resilience
    • Coping with loss Resilience in the face of personal tragedy
    • The importance of purpose over approval Resilience
    • Taking Control

    Chapters

    • 00:00 Military Career and Resilience
    • 03:01 Identity and Coping Strategies
    • 16:08 Dealing with Loss and Grief
    • 32:08 Coping Strategies and Psychological Safety
    • 36:47 Grief and Resilience
    • 40:21 Purpose Over Approval
    • 56:37 The Battle with Cancer
    • 01:07:21 Supporting a Loved One Through Cancer
    • 01:08:19 Lifestyle Changes and Control
    • 01:20:14 Endurance Challenges and Lessons Learned

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    1 hr 27 min

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Three Points of Contact is a podcast about what happens when people are tested — physically, mentally and emotionally.

Hosted by former Royal Marines PTI and Adventure Training…