Too many threads linger because people never intentionally scaffold the first few messages. In this 120–200 word episode Sarah opens with a vivid 20s vignette where three clear, modest messages turned a slow match into a confident coffee. She teaches the Three‑Turn Trust: Message 1 (Signature Open—signal personality, low demand), Message 2 (Micro‑Offer—one small, evidence‑gathering share or low‑effort invite), and Message 3 (Outcome Move—calendar‑first two‑option proposal or graceful close). Listeners get exact, lane‑ready scripts for text and voice‑note, timing rules (when to wait, when to nudge), neurodivergent and cultural phrasing swaps, and a 3‑thread micro‑experiment to try the ritual across three matches and log one simple metric: percent that reach a clear next step. Sarah models delivery and provides an explicit subscribe CTA in her voice, closes with the show signature cue, and leaves listeners with a small, repeatable routine that protects dignity and converts curiosity to action.

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