You know exactly what your child needs, what's missing from the fridge, and what everyone has going on tomorrow — but when someone asks what YOU need, you go blank.

In the first episode of the Get Your Shit Together series, Nikki Nick walks through four areas — self, home, income, and time — starting with the one everything else depends on: you. You'll do an honest check-in (no "I'm fine" allowed), reconnect with who you are beneath all the roles you carry, set one boundary that makes room, audit what gives and drains your energy, and leave with one small, realistic promise to yourself — plus guardrails for the days life gets in the way.

Grab a notebook, or just listen while you drive, walk, or fold the laundry. By the end you'll have your own self-reset: four simple prompts you can return to anytime.

In this episode:

• Welcome to the Get Your Shit Together series — 00:44
• The four areas: self, home, income, and time — 01:12
• Check in: "How are you really doing?" — 02:06
• Who are you beneath the roles? — 04:31
• Boundaries that make room — 07:12
• Energy audit: batteries vs. vacuums — 10:14
• One realistic promise, plus guardrails for hard days — 13:29
• Your self-reset: four prompts to put it together — 16:48
• Next episode: Home — 19:47

Try this today:

• Finish the sentence: "Lately, I've been feeling ___, especially when ___."
• Use this boundary: "Let me check before I commit."
• Ask: what restores me, and what drains me?
• Write your self-reset: (1) Right now, I feel... (2) What I need more of is... (3) One thing I can change to make room is... (4) One promise I'm making to myself is...

If this episode brought a friend to mind, send it to her — and ask each other, "What's your one promise?"

Find more from Thriving Mom Club on YouTube and Instagram, and visit thrivingmomclub.com to learn about the community and ways to get involved. Follow the podcast to keep going with the Get Your Shit Together series.

Feeling like life is a little all over the place lately? This month, we’re getting our S.H.I.T. together — Self, Home, Income, and Time.

In this kickoff episode of the Thriving Mom Club Podcast, Nikki introduces the Get Your S.H.I.T. Together series: four conversations designed to help moms feel more intentional, more supported, and a little more in control of everyday life.

And no — this isn’t about waking up at 5 AM, creating the perfect routine, organizing your entire house, or magically becoming a productivity machine.

It’s about looking at what’s actually working in your life, what keeps creating unnecessary stress, and making small changes that make life feel better.

Over the next four episodes, we’ll dive into:

• Self — reconnecting with yourself and what you need in this season• Home — creating systems and a home that actually supports your life• Income — becoming more intentional about money, goals, and financial habits• Time — creating more space for what matters without trying to cram more into your day

Start here, choose one thing to work on, and build from there.

Because getting your life together doesn’t mean getting it perfect.

It means getting intentional about the next thing.

Follow the Thriving Mom Club Podcast so you don’t miss the rest of the series.

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The Thriving Mom Club is a community for moms who want to reconnect with themselves beyond motherhood and intentionally build a life they genuinely enjoy living.

You love your child, but you miss feeling like your own person.

I’m Nikki, founder of Thriving Mom Club, and I’m sharing three things that helped me start finding my spark again during my postpartum journey: journaling, moving my body, and listening to self-development podcasts. This first conversation is about identity in motherhood, getting off autopilot, and giving yourself time to get to know the woman you’re becoming.

Whether you’re a new mom or years into motherhood, you deserve room for your interests, your goals, and your joy, too.

Your reflection for the week: What’s one thing you’ve been missing that you can make a little room for?

Share your answer in the comments, and follow the Thriving Mom Club Podcast for honest conversations about motherhood, mindset, and intentionally creating a life you enjoy.

Mentioned in this episode: The Mindset Mentor podcast with Rob Dial.