After a year, I finally want to talk about my last break up. It was awful, and it still hurts sometimes, but I’m finally over it. It took a couple of months, and lots and lots and lots of love from my friends, but I did it! And I want to reflect on what happened before, and how I felt afterwards. There is no crying in this episode, thank goodness. But I am doing much better now, and I’m quite happy with life at the moment.

People always tell me to have other interests outside kink, and surprise!!!!!!!!! I do. Some of you already know. Some of you don’t. And either you will think me insane, or you’ll think I’m not. But either way, I wanted to do a Halloween episode, and thought this would be a fun one. Hope y’all have a happy Halloween and please do be safe. 💀👻🎃

This episode was made on the fly. So this may not be every single protocol ever used by every DOM and sub in their dynamic. If anyone has suggestions, please do feel free to let me know. There could be a part two. Happy listening, and thank you so much for filling the world with hearts. ❤️

Last week, there was a lot happening on KinkTok. There was a discussion on people getting out of punishments by using safewords all the time. There was also a discussion about a sub saying they didn’t care about whether or not their Dom reached domspace, and that it was ethical bratting. I tell y’all what I think about both these conversations.

On Reddit, there was a lot of discussion about punishment and some creative punishment ideas for a Dom’s submissive. I tell you some ideas, as well as what not to do.

While using the silent treatment as punishment might work for some, it doesn’t work for me. Listen to find out my thoughts.

On Reddit, I see a common discussion: How do I make my partner more dominant or submissive? This question really gets under my skin, and I’ll tell you why.

I wasn’t going to discuss this, because, as usual, I didn’t know what to really say about it. But then, I saw primalempress’s video on KinkTok and decided to talk about it. I still don’t have answers, but hopefully, someone will, and this will make sense to someone out there.

Thanks to Pink Kink for the inspiration to tell my full story.

Back with another KinkTok discussion about invalidation in the BDSM/kink community and why it’s not good for anyone.