Before becoming a throuple, Char, Josh, and Liv’s relationship dynamic was a polyamorous v triad. In this episode, Char, Josh, and Liv share what Josh did as the hinge partner to make their poly triad relationship stronger and healthier.

In this episode, we are joined by Ellecia Paine to talk about the ins and outs of coming out as polyamorous to friends and family. Ellecia is a non-monogamy coach and host of the podcast, “Nope! We’re Not Monogamous”. In addition to opening up about how polyamory was used against her family in a custody case, Ellecia also shares the wisdom she has gained from working with her clients who are in open relationships.

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Time Stamps 

00:00 - Intro

00:16 - guest Ellecia Paine from Nope, We're Not Monogamous Podcast 

05:11 - What was it like for us to come out as polyamorous

05:46 - Polyamory being used against you in a custody battle

11:03 - If you're comfortable being polyamorous, it's easier

18:25 - Bigamy laws are archaic 

19:01 - A Non-Monogamy Coach’s tips for anyone wanting to come out

23:01 - Best thing about coming out as polyamorous

38:02 - How to get in touch and work with Ellecia Paine

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In the world of non-monogamy, couples who are only open to having relationships with a unicorn are often demonized. While there are valid reasons for many unicorn hunting practices to be deemed unethical, there are also many misconceptions about unicorn hunters as a whole. In this episode, we joined forces with Jennifer Kaylo, host of The Open Bedroom Podcast  @theopenbedroompodcast, to have a candid conversation about this sensitive subject.

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Time Stamps

00:00 - Intro

00:28 - Jennifer Kaylo from Open Bedroom Podcast and Throuple Talk

01:22 - Why dating women women exclusively works for Jennifer and her husband

02:49 - Is the Throuple currently dating unicorns?

13:12 - One peennis policy

14:20 - What is a unicorn

19:55 - Couples privilege within our throuple

25:55 - How the kids are reacting to our polyamorous relationship

29:39 - Jennifer on becoming a throuple

40:08 - Kitchen table polyamory

41:55 - San Antonio, cave yoga and Texas BBQ

43:04 - Ideal dynamic for dating unicorns only and threesomes

48:14 - Couple swapping

50:10 - Jennifer’s clients as a relationship coach

54:28 - How we support each other in our relationships

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In relationships, we don’t have to try very hard to see what our partner could do better, but few of us put as much effort into considering how we could improve.

In this episode, we talk about the benefits of looking in the mirror to see what areas we need to work on in order to be the best possible version of ourselves. In this episode, we share our experience with how taking this approach in our throuple has improved our polyamorous relationship.

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Time Stamps:

00:00 - Intro

00:37 - Feeling validated in a polyamorous relationship

03:58 - Reevaluate what you bring to the table in your relationship

04:38 - How to take negative feedback

06:34 - How men and women are different when receiving feedback

08:54 - Women look at relationships as a finality. The happily ever after

11:03 - Compare your ideal partner's qualities to yours and see if you match

15:44 - Should you change your love languages for your partner(s)?

20:18 - What would you do differently if you'd be back in the dating market?

25:19 - Closing

27:29 - Outtakes

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When you’ve met an amazing couple and want to date one or both of them, it is important to know what questions you should ask and what to be aware of before you get in too deep. Do they date separately or only together? Do one or both have veto power? Is their relationship solid, or are they looking for someone to “spice things up”?

In this episode, Liv gives her tips for how to date a couple and shares her experience of starting a relationship with Josh and Char and tells what she saw as the initial indicators that this could be a beautiful polyamorous throuple relationship. If you are considering dating a couple, be sure to tune in to this podcast!

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Time Stamps

00:00 - Intro

04:32 - Polyamory red flag: couples who only date together

05:26 - Have well written profiles while dating online

06:15 - Beware of people who just want to sext

08:41 - Things to ask a couple when you start dating them

10:42 - Ensure everyone is engaged and committed to being in a throuple

11:52 - Green flag: Polyamorous couples with well behaved children

13:17 - Transitioning from consensual non-monogamy to polyamory

15:17 - Never say never

16:01 - Sexual compatibility and chemistry as a throuple

18:03 - Find partners who are warmhearted and kind

19:52 - Transitioning from monogamy to polyamory

23:39 - Liv's advice for solo poly individuals wanting to join a couple 

25:48 - The power of the law of attraction when dating online

27:17 - Closing

27:37 - Outtakes

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FEELD, a dating app designed for non-monogamous people, has been hard at work overhauling its application to make it poly-inclusive and throuple-friendly. We are very excited about and appreciative of their conscious effort to adapt their business model to serve a variety of relationship dynamics!

While the polyamorous community has been growing and becoming more accepted in social circles, the corporate realm has been slow to adapt, so it is exciting and refreshing when we hear of companies that have accommodations available for alternative relationship structures. And when we hear of them, we are excited to share them with you!

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Time Stamps:

00:00 - Intro

00:57 - New Feeld dating app update to include polyamorous throuple and other plural structures

01:24 - We use Feeld to make polyamorous and non-monogamous friends

01:57 - Feeld was always inclusive of ENM people

03:13 - Greater impact that companies have on societal acceptance of polyamorous family dynamics

04:36 - Conclusion, CTA

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Jordan Peterson has voiced very strong opinions on why he believes polyamory and other non-monogamous relationships are not healthy for society, proposing in interviews with Joe Rogan and Chris Williamson that modern society should double down on the commitment to enforced monogamy, which is to reward those who embrace monogamy and shame those who do not.

In this episode, we point out how the reasoning behind these assertions is not fully informed and share why our polyamorous throuple relationship works so much better for everyone in our home, particularly since Char and Liv are bisexual. With others, including Stirling Cooper, publicly vocalizing similar sentiments in desiring a polygamous family structure, it is clear that the tides are turning to a society where family dynamics are becoming more varied to meet the unique needs and desires of the individuals in each home, and should therefore be accepted and respected.

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Time Stamps

00:00 - Intro

00:18 - Enforced Monogamy is not working for our society

01:29 - Punishing non-monogamous people for being different

02:09 - Polyamory being confused with promiscuity

07:26 - Patriarchal secular polygamy vs polyamory

09:25 - Violence on societies with more men than women and the role of monogamy in reducing violence

10:30 - Women’s responsibilities to reduce male violence

12:09 - Freedom of choice of relationship

13:53 - Enforce monogamy standards to keep young male aggression under control

18:29 - Equality of outcome valid except for sexuality and relationship?

23:02 - Women’s Hypergamy naturally leads to genetic non-monogamy

28:04 - Relationship free market can get you a better partner

29:06 - Natural selection leads to polyamory, fighting natural biology with enforced monogamy

32:05 - Raising children in polyamorous families vs raising them by monogamous single moms

34:27 - Polyamory is going to happen regardless of society’s level of comfort or approval

39:50 - Conclusion

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There are many differences between a monogamous relationship and a polyamorous relationship, but dating a polyamorous person when you are monogamous is in a category all its own. In this episode, we interview Danielle, who is monogamous and has been dating a polyamorous person for more than five years. Listen in as she tells stories of her modern dating experiences and shares the wisdom she has learned along the way!

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Time Stamps:

00:00 - Intro

00:14 - Introducing our guest, Danielle, talking about her polyamorous dating adventures

00:50 - My first threesome. What it's like to date a polyamorous person

11:37 - Red flags when dating a poly person

16:05 - Tips for monogamously dating a polyamorous person

19:35 - Dealing with the unexpected during a polyamorous date

27:32 - What is something that you learned about yourself while having a poly partner?

31:39 - Polyamorous relationhsip hierarchy

33:39 - Unicorn hunting in the dating scene

34:30 - Presence of variety in polyamory

36:21 - Jealousy as a monogamous person dating poly individuals

36:48 - Practicing ethical non-monogamy

38:21 - Monogamy = your partner has to be your everything

41:50 - Types of love, in Greek philosophy

43:35 - Educating yourself makes you a good partner

44:04 - Danielle's tips for finding a good partner

46:06 - Conclusion

46:43 - Subscribe to our channel

47:08 - Outtake

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So, you've met a couple you want to build a life with, and there are questions you have about so many things, but you don't know who to ask because you don't know anyone who's ever tried to do this before! 🧐

In this episode, Liv tells her experience of moving in with Josh and Char and shares the valuable insights she learned along the way as the polyamorous triad charted the pathway to Throuple Bliss.

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Time Stamps:

00:00 - Intro

00:15 - How we met

01:58 - From polyamorous hinge to throuple

03:32 -  Powerful chemistry makes the couple to throuple integration easier

03:55 - Having an open mind helps when engaging in polyamory

04:24 - Monogamy was never on the table

05:32 - Throuple dynamic is the ideal solution for bisexual people

06:29 - Going out on our first polyamorous date

07:57 -  Sex life as a throuple

08:41 - Challenges when joining a couple: PDA

15:50 - Challenges when joining a couple: merging different styles of conflict resolution

19:16 - Feeling vulnerable in front of your metamour

23:06 - When moving from couple to throuple keep your eyes on the prize and don't give up

24:17 - Outtake

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During the holidays, it’s a “Poly Jolly Christmas” in the home of our polyamorous throuple! With triple the traditions, triple the hands in the kitchen, and triple the love in the home, there’s plenty of cheer to go around! 🥂

From introducing a new partner to extended family members to creating and sharing traditions, in this episode, we share how our throuple celebrates this joyous time of year. 🎄

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Time Stamps:

00:00 - Intro

00:11 - How we spent last Christmas

00:29 - First polyamorous Christmas in our new house

01:00 - Poly holidays are always fun

01:28 - Polyamorous Christmas = more traditions

01:57 - Meeting extended family as a throuple for the holidays

02:49 - What we've done to have happy holidays

05:26 - Make room for hurt feelings

07:46 - What was different as a throuple during Christmas

08:23 - Christmas as a throuple with kids

10:14 - Pick a chosen family for the holidays

11:12 - Char's panties

12:03 - Conclusion

12:28 - Outtake