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  • The Virtue of Courage

    Courage is the ability to move forward in the face of adversity, even when it requires moving toward our fears. In this episode, Marie & Greg Seltz talk about how courage requires love, and love requires an outward focus. Selfishness smothers that courage and allows fear to bind us. Only when we put our faith in God and allow Him to guide our actions, can we break free from fear. Christ is our example: He courageously took on the yoke of our sins so that we have the strength to be courageous for others. If we’ve lost our courage as an individual or as a society, how do we take off this spirit of fear and selfishness?

    Points to Consider:

    • Courage today looks very different than in the past. Why is that?
    • In the movie Hacksaw Ridge, the main character, a Seventh Day Adventist, served others in battle as a medic while upholding his commitment to his faith and the commandment, “Thou Shalt Not Kill.”
    • What are the consequences of our selfishness?
    • Selfless people can be more courageous
    • Are you connected to your life’s purpose as a Christian?
    • When facing difficult circumstances, we often have a fight or flight reflex. It takes intention and a habit of selflessness to face adversity with courage.
    • Why does our culture value celebrity more highly than courage?
    • Courage is about who you are…not who they are.
    • What does it look like to be courageous in marriage, family, or work?
    • How and when did things change in our society and our learning system? How have "Participation Awards," instead of recognizing a student's talents and abilities, affected the spirit of courage?
    • Have you been inspired by the courage of others? How might God use your courage to inspire others?
    • Fearlessness comes out of our relationship with God. When we're rooted in that, we can find the strength to be courageous.
    • The Love of God is sufficient; How does that affect our attitude toward and response to adversity? (Romans 8)
    • 28 min
    • Civility in Political Discourse

      For many of us, the holiday season means family gatherings and conversations. What do you do when political issues come up? You may be tempted to avoid these discussions altogether, but Christians need to engage and share the truth in love. In this episode of Thru the Fire, the Seltzes help us understand why these conversations can be difficult and give some practical help to keep the tone respectful and loving.

      Topics covered in today's episode:

      • Our relationship with the people we're talking to is more important than the conversation.
      • The proposed Equality Act and what it means for ministries, charities, churches and Christians. Are these acts nothing more than a means by which to muzzle Christians and biblical morality
      • How do Christians push back against such acts and still speak truth?
      • When discussing government-mandated changes to anti-discrimination laws Christians must:
        • Think critically about such issues
        • Research the issues
        • Be able to disagree with but not disregard the concerns of the opposition
        • Invite our adolescent and young adult children into the discussions
        • Demonstrate Biblical perspective
        • Remember that our identity as a society lies in our creator, not government-mandated behavior
        • Understand that our system of government with all of its checks and balances was formed by our founding fathers because they understood that humans are depraved
        • Finally, it’s important for parents to instill a sense of respect for their elders in their children because those elders have incredible wisdom gleaned from their life experiences that should not be easily dismissed.

          Thru the Fire is produced by Family Vision Media. For more information, visit ww.familyvisionmedia.org

          26 min
        • Why Family Matters

          In this episode of Thru the Fire, Dr. Marie Seltz and Dr. Greg Seltz examine why it seems families and family values, traditional and otherwise, are under attack in our culture. The Family has been devalued. They discuss the history of the degradation of families in America, some of the reasons for it, and what they witnessed serving in urban missions in some of the country's roughest neighborhoods. But, more significantly, they consider how we can reverse this destructive cultural and societal trend and how to bring back families as God intended them to exist.

          Why have families come under attack in our culture, causing dysfunction and separation?

          What has led to the loss of traditional families?

          Extended families no longer live together under the same roof, and that has caused problems
          Generations are not passing down traditions, morays, manners, and morals down to younger generations
          Kids don't hear the family's stories through the generations -so families don't mean as much to most kids.
          The Women's Movement changed families, though those changes often ran afoul of God's teaching
          Women were no longer reliant upon the husband's income, and their freedom of movement has led to children being under the constant pressure of displacement
          The parental focus changed from children to individual values of adult fulfillment.

          Children will have to adapt instead of adult parents having to adapt to the needs of the children.

          Love points away from the individual (selflessness), sin points towards the individual (selfishness)

          Personal experience:

          The Seltzes explain what they saw happening in society while serving in urban missions around the country: How Societal and cultural freedom separated families and led to a disrespect of the family

          A family name and a family's reputation used to keep children inline
          The government started instituting policies that were/are anti-family
          Broken families brought about by separation and divorce forced fathers from the home

          Through divorce, the courts lowered the expectations of fathers to the barest minimum.

          Technology is another significant factor that has altered to the family experience in the home:

          Technology and the easy access to it has further divided families. We don't sit in the same rooms together, watching one TV show or gathering around the table for meals.

          What the Bible Says About Families

          Bible and what it says about family identity-"honor thy father and mother."
          Families were created by God to help us share and practice His love for us.
          Stable societies are built upon the Family, the Church, and the Government.

          In our culture, two essential foundations of civil society are missing in many people's lives: Solid families and the Church.

          What can we do?

          Family needs to come first again, then the church, then the government.
          Building Stronger Families can help us share our love and find our identity.

          Families find solutions and manage crisis
          Society and the Church need to find ways to love, support and strengthen families.
          The church needs to model what the family should look like and welcome broken families into the church family.

          32 min
        • The Dangers of Political Correctness & the Cancel Culture

          Do you struggle with political correctness while conversing with friends and family? Are you afraid for yourself and your children with the onset of the Cancel Culture in our society? Do you feel like we’re losing our right to speak freely? How do you reach people for Christ when every moral discussion comes into question?

          On this episode of Thru the Fire, the husband and wife duo Dr. Marie Seltz and Dr. Gregory Seltz discuss the dangers of Political Correctness and how it has morphed into the Cancel Culture. We have moved from a society of “I don’t want to hear certain truths” to the point of “you can’t say that, and if you do, we’ll punish you!” How did this happen? Why have we moved so far, so fast?

          The Seltzes examine how technology has contributed to groupthink at the expense of the individual thought. We all seem to cater to groups and groupthink when, in reality, we are individuals in the eyes of God. Young people feel empowered to assemble and join groups without any accountability or individual responsibility because technology allows them to remain mostly anonymous. What are the causes of the cancel culture phenomenon?

          Finally, the Seltzes provide some practical insight into how we can combat the cancel culture and political correctness. It starts in the home with parents who intentionally nurture a deep love and understanding of who God is and train their children to be responsible, accountable individuals who will stand firm in their faith. Groupthink and the exemption of personal responsibility are popular lies spread in our culture today. By viewing everything through the lens of Biblical authority, you will give your child the ability to discern truth, so they will not be susceptible to these lies.

          Resources:

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          31 min

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        Dr. Marie Seltz and her husband, Dr. Gregory Seltz, form a dynamic duo as they discuss current issues in politics, culture, and relationships with wit and wisdom. These two don't shy away from the…