Annnnnnnd…we’re back. New name, bit of a new look, same content you’ve hopefully come to know and love. This episode was recorded before we changed our name, so you’ll get to relive the olden days of the pod known as Fat and Fucked another time or two.

In this episode, Suzy and Dr. Krista have a good ole time with the three founders and organizers of PhillyFatCon—Adrienne, Donelle, and Kenyetta. We dig into their origin story, the challenges and successes of putting together an annual conference, and how they balanced their friendships with large event planning. They fill us in on everything they’re excited about for this year’s conference weekend (Sat. Nov. 1 and Sun. Nov. 2, 2025), the utility of coochie cutter shorts, and the healing glee of a fat-only costume party.

Give us a listen, drop us a line, and buy your tickets now for PhillyFatCon! As of the air date of this episode, Early Bird tickets have been on sale for a couple of weeks. You still have time for the discounted price! See you in Philly in November?

Buy tix to PhillyFatCon

2025 Keynote Speaker Dr. Breanne Fahs

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Hey hey hey! Join Suzy and Dr. Krista on this episode of Fat and Fucked when we are joined by the lovely Jaelynn of JaeBae Productions.  Jae goes deep and shares her journey from body positivity to fat liberation, her experiences with extreme medical fatphobia and the resulting trauma, and how grappling with her mortality clairified her passions and her purpose: making the world a kinder and more accessible place for fat people everywhere.  She also spills the tea on what it's like to date fat, polyamourous, and internet niche famous, so give us a listen, follow JaeBaeProductions, and as always, be fat, be fab, and be free! Who loves ya, babes?  WE DO.
 
Do you have a good idea for a guest or topic to explore?  Comments and feedback always welcomed.  We'd love to hear from you!  Comment here, drop us a line at [email protected], or slide into our DMs.  Rate, review, subscribe!  It really helps.
 
Find Jae at  jaebaeproductions.com or jaebaeproductions on all socials. 
 
Resources:
Silc Arts accessible sex toys https://silcarts.com/
Lindsey Dreadful tattoo - socials @lindseydreadfuls
Toni PNW tattoo - socials @tonipnw
Molly Vee tattoo - socials @ladywooly

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Hi, friends! Dr. Krista and Suzy are celebrating two years of podcasting and 40 episodes released with an important announcement: we are changing the name of the podcast! It was a difficult decision and we explain why, in this short solo episode, we've decide to move ahead with the new name Thunder Thighs and Bedroom Eyes (aka The Podcast Formerly Known As Fat and Fucked). We hope you'll stick by us as we take a short hiatus, do a bit of restructuring, and return soon better than ever! Even though our name is changing, we remain committed to uplifting fat voices, supporting our community, and talking about the topics that few others dare to broach: fat sex and fat justice. Plus! There will be fun new merch!

Thanks so much for your continued support and encouragement; it means the world to us. We'll see you again soon, babes. WHO LOVES YA? We do! And as always, be fat, be fab, and be free.

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Hi, friends! Dr. Krista and Suzy are celebrating two years of podcasting and 40 episodes released with an important announcement: we are changing the name of the podcast! It was a difficult decision and we explain why, in this short solo episode, we've decide to move ahead with the new name Thunder Thighs and Bedroom Eyes (aka The Podcast Formerly Known As Fat and Fucked). We hope you'll stick by us as we take a short hiatus, do a bit of restructuring, and return soon better than ever! Even though our name is changing, we remain committed to uplifting fat voices, supporting our community, and talking about the topics that few others dare to broach: fat sex and fat justice. Plus! There will be fun new merch!

Thanks so much for your continued support and encouragement; it means the world to us. We'll see you again soon, babes. WHO LOVES YA? We do! And as always, be fat, be fab, and be free.

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit fatandfuckedpodcast.substack.com

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit fatandfuckedpodcast.substack.com

Hi, friends!  Dr. Krista and Suzy are celebrating two years of podcasting and 40 episodes released with an important announcement: we are changing the name of the podcast!  It was a difficult decision and we explain why, in this short solo episode, we've decide to move ahead with the new name Thunder Thighs and Bedroom Eyes (aka The Podcast Formerly Known As Fat and Fucked).  We hope you'll stick by us as we take a short hiatus, do a bit of restructuring, and return soon better than ever! Even though our name is changing, we remain committed to uplifting fat voices, supporting our community, and talking about the topics that few others dare to broach: fat sex and fat justice. Plus! There will be fun new merch!  
 
Thanks so much for your continued support and encouragement; it means the world to us.  We'll see you again soon, babes.  WHO LOVES YA?  We do!  And as always, be fat, be fab, and be free.

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Hi friends!  Thanks for tuning in to another episode of Fat and Fucked! Dr. Krista and Suzy are joined by Patrilie Hernandez, founder of Embody Lib.  We have a great conversation about the many faces of community organizing, how the experiences of people of the global majority (POC) are overlooked in eating disorder treatment spaces, the prevalence of antifatness in organizing, and why the cookie is the perfect dessert choice for people who don't want to commit to cake.  Patrilie is insightful, honest, and vulnerable as they recount how Embody Lib came into being, and we hope you will enjoy learning and laughing with them as much as we did.  As always, be fat, be fab, and be free!
 
For questions and comments, drop us a line at [email protected].  Have a sex question for Dr. Sexy Fat?  Reach out at [email protected].  If you want to support our work, rate, review, subscribe, or tell a friend!  It really helps us grow.  Who loves ya, babes?  WE DO.  
 
Resources:
Find Patrilie at Embody Lib
Twins, the movie
Paris Hilton's autobiography
FAA petition for fat accessbility

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In this episode, Dr. Krista and Suzy welcome Nico and Emma, founders of PhoriaFits, for a fun conversation about why standardized clothing fit is bad for fat folx, how to begin making ethical and sustainable purchasing choices, and the power of gay audacity.  Listen in as these besties, roommates, and tech wizards share the hows and whys of PhoriaFits, and follow them on IG @phoriafits, or find them at their website phoriafits.com.
 
Thanks for listening, and as always, be fat, be fab, and be free! Who loves ya, babes?  WE DO.
 
SHOW NOTES:
 
Yitty makes great strapless bras for large cup sizes, according to Suzy
Book:  Mother of Invention: How Good Ideas Get Ignored In An Economy Built for Men

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On this episode of Fat and Fucked, Dr. Krista and Suzy are joined by the hilarious and insightful Bubba Boom, Chicago League of Lady Arm Wrestlers (CLLAW) champion and blue collar drag king extraordinaire. Bubba shares their first foray into drag (as Colonel Saunders with a rhinestone chicken bucket), why the world needs a fat country music-lovin' drag king that gives great hugs, and how technology can make sexuality more accessible for fat and/or disabled folx. Suzy tells us about her worst sexual mishap, providing a clear example about why investing in high quality sex toys is an investment in yourself, and Krista laughs her ass off all the way through.  We hope you enjoy listening to this episode as much as we enjoyed recording it!  Who loves ya, babes?  WE DO.  And as always, be fat, be fab, and be free. 
 
Find Bubba on IG @BubbaBoomDrag, BlueSky @BubbaBoom.Bsky, and TikTok @BubbaBoomDrag.  Their drag house can be found on IG @HausVonSoup. 
 
SHOW NOTES:
 
Velvet Prime thrusting dildo
Early to Bed Chicago sex store
Newport Theater Chicago
In My Feels cabaret tix for 5/3/25

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Hi, friends! In this episode, listen in as Dr. SexyFat and Suzy dig in with Grace Hamner, creator of the Plus Size Database.  Grace, growing up as a member of the very conservative Church of Latter Day Saints (LDS or Mormonism), didn't develop the vocabulary to talk about the extreme pain in her vulva and vagina until after she married and had two children. Her journey to get a diagnosis of vulvodynia led her down a path of questioning everything; her marriage, her sexuality, her faith, and her agency in her own body. 
 
The Plus Size Database was created to give something back to the fat community, in the form of a large directory of businesses that cater to the needs of people in larger bodies. Grace started it for her own use and realized other people needed the resource, too.  And she's right!
 
Thanks for listening, and always, be fat, be fab and be free!  Who loves ya, babes?  WE DO.
 
Resources:

gracehamner.com
IG @plussizedatabase

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In this week's episode of Fat and Fucked, Suzy and Dr. Krista are joined by the delightfully upbeat Jeff Jenkins, world traveler and host of NatGeo's Never Say Never.  Jeff tells us about his path to finding his niche with Chubby Diaries, how he changed his life by writing a list of 101 things he wants to do before he dies, and what's next for him on his grand journey.  We very much enjoyed our conversation with Jeff, and we hope you enjoy listening just as much! 

Write your own list of 101 things you want to do before you die, and share some of your favorites with us on IG, Bluesky, and Threads; check out our YouTube @fatfabfree; or subscribe to our Substack at fatandfuckedpodcast.substack.com.  And as always, be fat, be fab, and be free!  We loves ya, babes?  WE DO.

Show notes:

https://chubbydiaries.com/ - Jeff's website

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YHisUWlH4VU - Never Say Never trailer

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