What qualities do you look for in a potential spouse? In today’s message from Pastor Bill, he encourages you to focus on the internal qualities. Is the person kind, generous, or patient? Do they have a heart for the Lord and seek to follow Him? These are the qualities that matter in the heart of a person. Pastor Bill cautions you not to focus so much on external appearances but on the internal character of someone. A person can be outwardly attractive but sometimes have the most unattractive heart.