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Practical new habits you can implement to combat overachiever psychology.
Usual shownotes coming... someday. Maybe. No time for overachieving at the moment - haha :)
Is overacheiving... kind of killing you?
Ever felt totally lost and uncertain what direction to take your creator life?
How do you focus without feeling like you're losing out on one path or the other?
Links to references made in this episode:
Episode 9 - in which Berna first realized she needed a break.
The How to Make Hard Choices TED Talk by Ruth Chang
Our fledgling Patreon!
Places to talk to us online:
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5:26 . . . how to prioritize your goals
5:53 . . . the surprising choices that matter most
7:41 . . . how to prioritize your life... passively!
10:06 . . . how to prioritize... for control freaks
11:17 . . . why we put part of this episode elsewhere.
12:15 . . . why Berna recommends the '5 Whys' to prioritize your life
14:00 . . . how to successfully take a break from life
16:36 . . . a mental trick that will help you take a break
18:15 . . . how taking a break fixes your brain
19:23 . . . how taking a break is going to impact your followers
20:32 . . . Berna's self-assigned homework
21:32 . . . how to do Berna's homework with her
23:07 . . . what Berna's dreading
23:54 . . . what Jema's dreading
What should I spend money on as a new blogger?
Links to references made in this episode:
The Don’t Keep Your Day Job podcast episode – (where Seth Godin explains the important money mindset you should have around things you do for your future vs. things you buy for yourself).
Felicia's Wallet Video Series – (where you can follow Berna's change in money-mindset).
Shawn Matthew's Swagbot Creative – (where you can connect with the miracle man who designed our logo if you’re in the market for that sort of thing).
The 99 Designs logo package - (where you get multiple submissions from many designers. But we were wrong about the price! It's $299.)
Our last episode about marketing – (where we talk about the importance of breaking things down into baby steps vs. attempting to take an overwhelming bite... and ultimately feeling like a failure).
The Monthly Report episode – (where we talked about the fact that there are some things that don't deserve your attention more than once a quarter – true for reporting, true for marketing!).
Places to talk to us online:
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5:22 . . . Two things that will happen if you invest money in your site
7:03 . . . What you need to admit before deciding where to spend money for blog growth
9:39 . . . Step one to do before shopping for the best blogging courses
10:48 . . . What will happen if you don’t spend money for blog growth
12:52 . . . The #1 thing to consider before purchasing a professional blogging course
18:46 . . . Two ways to know whether or not a course is going to be good value
21:28 . . . How to find the very best blogging course
22:49 . . . Berna's self-assigned homework from the episode
24:20 . . . How to get your Ticket 2 Blog fix between episodes
25:46 . . . Berna's biggest current fail
26:42 . . . Jema's biggest current fail
29:42 . . . Bloopers! Imperfections: we've got 'em!
How do I start promoting my blog without feeling like a bragging, dancing monkey?
How do I balance creating content with marketing content?
Links to references made in the podcast:
The episode where Jema explains why it's an abuse of your privilege to feel insignificant
The How to Hire an Entire Marketing Team without Spending Any Money article
HeartandHustleKD.com - the home of Kellie Drewelow, coach for multipotentialites i.e. people who are doing a million things all the time
How to Juggle Multiple Projects - the episode Kellie loved
Podcast Movement 28-Day Challenge - the awesome free way to start-your-podcast. (We used it to start T2B, and it's an example of something that we are always marketing for free because it's awesome and we got such good value out of it.)
The SEO Challenge sign-up! Add your name if you want to get onboard for the next challenge.
The Monthly Report episode where Berna learned how to measure (among other things) the marketing performance she hopes to see after implementing ideas from this episode.
Places to talk to us online:
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1:14 . . . How to get over fears of self-promotion
6:44 . . . Berna's epiphany about how to measure herself as a creator
7:40 . . . 3 things that will quiet your marketing fears
8:53 . . . Why your marketing efforts are NOT you standing on a stage shouting vulnerably to everyone in the world
10:56 . . . Berna's current ideas about what "marketing" is
11:44 . . . The 3 most important digital marketing habits to cultivate
16:37 . . . How to escape the worst parts of a marketing strategy
17:49 . . . Blog marketing that always feels awesome and fun
19:09 . . . 3 marketing strategies you should use, why they're hard, and how they get easier
23:07 . . . Why you should implement these blog marketing tips only once per month
24:35 . . . The easy way to balance time to content creation & content marketing
27:24 . . . Berna's self-assigned homework from the episode
28:22 . . . An easy way to make the world more YOU-friendly
29:45 . . . What Berna's most dreading in her nomad life... and as a people pleaser
30:58 . . . What Jema is most dreading in her nomad life... and as a people pleaser
32:35 . . . Outtakes!
How do I look at my blog metrics without obsessing?
What is considered good website traffic?
How many followers should I have?
How many subscribers should I have?
How do I get over the scariness of facing my numbers reality?
Links to references made in the podcast:
The page about blog metrics beginners should track
How Berna turned looking at her money numbers into a fun game that helped her to financial success.
The episode we talked about Berna's Honda car battery dying
The How to Get Free Flights and the How to Travel on $20 a Day info that Jema isn't sad about not forcing on sheep milkers.
MOZ - one of the website statistic authorities giving website scores - in the form of DA and PA (domain authority and page authority).
Alexa - another website statistics authority that ranks sites globally and by region
The packing list that we always talk about
The free website Jema uses to check broken links
Episode 13 - where we talked about the yucky aftermath of Berna doing a thing that got us a bunch of Instagram traffic
Episode 5 - where we've talked about dealing with icky marketing
Places to talk to us online:
Jema's Wim Hof Facebook group you can request to join if you want an accountability partner for the 10-week fundamentals course
Jema's Wim Hof Accountability email list... if that's more your speed.
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Will I lose readers if I change my focus?
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How do I find my niche if I have tons of passions?
I'm scared to focus in on one thing and lose readers in the process. Should I?
Could I have a bigger impact if I just focus on one thing?
Links to references made in the podcast:
Berna's fledgling (awesome!) personal finance creations
One of Berna's top travel hack articles
The Blog Abroad - written by Gloria Atanmo (Berna's favorite travel blogger who she would listen to... no matter what Gloria talked about.)
The Budgetnista - home of Berna's favorite personal finance content creator, Tiffany Aliche
An example of how to nest a new project with what you're already doing: Check out how this podcast appears on Jema and Berna's internet homes.
The last episode where Berna had a brand identity crisis: Why Projects Fail... and What Your Audience Thinks
The episode about taking a break from your life: How to Juggle Multiple Projects
The How to Have Time for Everything exercise that Jema just did again on her break that showed her how important it is to be intentional about what you do with your time... so you don't miss out on things like fireworks shows.
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1:42 . . . Why you probably don't have to worry that much about how to brand yourself
4:54 . . . when beginners SHOULD focus on one topic
5:30 . . . the niche ideas Berna's juggling
6:15 . . . how Jema's website changed with new niches
(and how many years it took)
8:42 . . . how to start a new site... without starting a new site
9:27 . . . what fans need to know about projects vs. what you need to know
11:17 . . . why you don't lose followers when you switch niches
12:32 . . . how to talk about your many niches without sounding like a hot mess.
14:59 . . . why you're probably the only one who's confused about your brand identity
16:10 . . . why losing followers should make you happy
17:58 . . . how many iterations Jema's audience has stuck with her through
19:56 . . . what your main goal should be as a creator
22:29 . . . Berna's homework
23:38 . . . Berna remembers her last brand identity crisis
25:09 . . . A technique to get niche-level results... without being forced into a niche
28:26 . . . Berna's biggest fail-of-the-moment
29:26 . . . Jema's biggest (airport!) fail-of-the-moment
Is there a sane social media and content creation strategy?
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Which social media platforms do I need to be on?
Which social media platform is best for business?
How do I choose which format to use for an idea (video? blog? insta post?)
How do I choose which platform an idea belongs on?
Which platform(s) do my followers want me to be on?
Which channels best serve my goals as a content creator?
Links to references made in the podcast:
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1:42 . . . how to choose a format and venue for your content
4:00 . . . the best social media platform for marketing if you're a travel blogger
4:46 . . . a tool to discover which platforms to be on and which content formats to use.
9:10 . . . why Berna struggles so much qth the "what social media should I use?" question.
10:10 . . . an analysis paralysis cure for format and content decisions
10:37 . . . the cue content creators should take from farmers
11:31 . . . the responsibility content creators have to their ideas
12:29 . . . the mistake that kills ideas
13:32 . . . how to overcome analysis paralysis: method 2
13:46 . . . how to know the importance of each of your ideas
14:07 . . . where ideas come from and how to get more
14:42 . . . one thing that happens a lot in this podcast
15:25 . . . what you risk when you wait to take action on an idea
15:52 . . . the empowering process you should follow when creating
16:34 . . . how long you have to capture and start leveraging on an idea
18:11 . . . what working for Instagram's CEO taught Berna about workflow while
18:58 . . . how to eliminate a big barrier to progress in the creative process
21:30 . . . our whole episode summarized in 28 seconds
21:58 . . . how to empower yourself to live in ways that DON'T screw you over
25:38 . . . the exercise to figure out which platforms you should be on
28:32 . . . the hard thing creators have to do to be successful
30:49 . . . Berna's self-assigned homework from the episode - that's she's really excited about.
32:30 . . . how to get your T2B fix between episodes
34:24 . . . what Berna's most dreading right now in her life
35:49 . . . the surprising thing Jema is most dreading
37:30 . . . how you can hear the funny stories that happen behind the scenes
How Do You Make Money as a Digital Nomad?
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Links to references made in the podcast:
Places to talk to us online:
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0:42 . . . Who are these people? Jema & Berna introduce themselves
2:52 . . . How Jema started her first online business (and why she quit immediately)
4:47 . . . The first two mistakes Jema made while trying to make money as a digital nomad
6:10 . . . The 8 different ways you can make money as a digital nomad (and why Jema does basically none of them)
8:11 . . . The two big things Jema does do to make a living as a digital nomad
10:24 . . . Why twenty-somethings need to figure out what they care about right now
12:19 . . . Why Jema hated making money as a digital nomad (at first)
13:53 . . . Berna's biggest money struggle as a freelancer
15:30 . . . How Jema manages her earnings, saving and investing goals as a digital nomad
16:08 . . . How Jema survived on a $20-a-day digital nomad income
17:28 . . . That time Jema ran out of money and had to take a job shoveling horse sh*t (true story)
20:25 . . . Why Jema refuses to try and earn a six-figure income as a digital nomad
21:02 . . . That time a friend got tricked by a sellout blogger
22:06 . . . What would it take to become a super-rich digital nomad?
26:50 . . . Should digital nomads take on commissioned work when their own content isn’t making them money?
29:28 . . . Why you should set your freelance prices higher than you think
31:50 . . . What it feels like to battle imposter syndrome and not valuing yourself enough
33:30 . . . Why the world’s best animators still feel imposter syndrome and self-doubt
35:10 . . . Berna’s self-assigned homework challenge
36:39 . . . Berna pledges to fight her fear of money loss by defining the value of her time
38:34 . . . How you can catch Ticket2Blog on the internets between episodes
40:32 . . . Berna’s biggest win of the week (how she learned to make friends with math)
42:00 . . . Jema’s biggest fail of the week (why she’s so freakin’ cranky today)
How Do You Deal With Money Fears?
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Links to references made in the podcast:
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