
Sign up to save your podcasts
Or


đ„Welcome to Inside the Pickle Jar!Â
Have you ever felt the heaviness that comes with being late? đ
It can sit in your chest like a stone.
But I want you to know something important:
Youâre not the only one who feels that way, and youâre not doing anything wrong.
Sometimes our brains experience time differently.
For many neurodivergent folks, time doesnât move in neat little boxes.
It stretches⊠it shrinks⊠it slips away.
And that can make getting places on time feel harder than it âshould.â
But hereâs the truth:
Chronic lateness isnât a flaw in your character.
Itâs a pattern in your nervous system... one that deserves understanding, not shame.
There are gentle ways to support yourself:
- You can make time more visible with timers or alarms.
- You can give yourself extra room to move between tasks.
- You can prepare a few things ahead of time so the morning feels softer.
- And you can pause for a breath before shifting gears, letting your body catch up to your mind.
You are not broken.
You are a human being doing your best in a world that wasnât built with your brain in mind.
And when we understand ourselves with kindness, something beautiful happens:
We stop fighting who we areâŠ
and start building a life that fits.
If this speaks to you, thereâs more waiting in the links below.
Patreon ~ www.patreon.com/InsideThePickleJar
YouTube ~ www.youtube.com/@TonyaWeaverCoach
Instagram ~ www.Instagram.com/tonya_weaver_coach
LinkedIn ~ www.linkedin.com/in/tmweaver/
Etsy ~ www.etsy.com/InsidethePickleJar
TikTok ~ www.tiktok.com/tonyaweaver606
Website ~ www.risingtidecoaching.org
Full video from the HealthyGamerGG and is a great watch: https://youtu.be/1onkZGsknsk?si=rNDb5v0r83uPcyVy
#Neurodiversity #SelfCompassion #InsideThePickleJar
Support the show
By Tonya Weaverđ„Welcome to Inside the Pickle Jar!Â
Have you ever felt the heaviness that comes with being late? đ
It can sit in your chest like a stone.
But I want you to know something important:
Youâre not the only one who feels that way, and youâre not doing anything wrong.
Sometimes our brains experience time differently.
For many neurodivergent folks, time doesnât move in neat little boxes.
It stretches⊠it shrinks⊠it slips away.
And that can make getting places on time feel harder than it âshould.â
But hereâs the truth:
Chronic lateness isnât a flaw in your character.
Itâs a pattern in your nervous system... one that deserves understanding, not shame.
There are gentle ways to support yourself:
- You can make time more visible with timers or alarms.
- You can give yourself extra room to move between tasks.
- You can prepare a few things ahead of time so the morning feels softer.
- And you can pause for a breath before shifting gears, letting your body catch up to your mind.
You are not broken.
You are a human being doing your best in a world that wasnât built with your brain in mind.
And when we understand ourselves with kindness, something beautiful happens:
We stop fighting who we areâŠ
and start building a life that fits.
If this speaks to you, thereâs more waiting in the links below.
Patreon ~ www.patreon.com/InsideThePickleJar
YouTube ~ www.youtube.com/@TonyaWeaverCoach
Instagram ~ www.Instagram.com/tonya_weaver_coach
LinkedIn ~ www.linkedin.com/in/tmweaver/
Etsy ~ www.etsy.com/InsidethePickleJar
TikTok ~ www.tiktok.com/tonyaweaver606
Website ~ www.risingtidecoaching.org
Full video from the HealthyGamerGG and is a great watch: https://youtu.be/1onkZGsknsk?si=rNDb5v0r83uPcyVy
#Neurodiversity #SelfCompassion #InsideThePickleJar
Support the show