Timepass Podcast

Ashika, and the Aftershow Crew, Tej and Fabian recap their recent vacation to Mexico. The crew shares all  the hot spots to visit in Puerto Vallarta and their journey to Tequila, while spilling the tea on who did what in Mexico. From kissing contests, to a lesbian encounter and pool make out sessions, all the tea is being spilled! Don't miss this hilarious recap to find out how the Aftershow Crew does Mexico. 

Ashika shares her experiences during this past retrograde. What is retrograde? Is it real? And why does retrograde season involve your computer shutting down and your exes coming back? Find out what surprises awaited Ashika this retrograde and how she dealt with them.

Ashika brings on the OG Aftershow crew Tej and Fabian, to dish on open relationships. Listen to find out which one of the friends is actually in one and how it all works.  Is it a free for all? Is there jealousy or love even? Tune in as they break down polyamorous relationships and marriages.  

Ashika is joined by Brittania Jamay, a drag queen born in the Castro District in San Francisco. Brittania shares her coming out story as a drag queen and the two gals gab about what it takes to be a drag queen, drag queen pet peeves and the dos and don'ts of interacting with a drag queen at the club/bar. The drinks are flowing and the tea is spilling!

In honor of Pride Month, Ashika invites two of her gay male friends on this week's episode to share their coming out stories. They discuss the stages of confusion, realization, struggle and acceptance, or lack their of, from their friends, family and society. 

This week Ashika stops and notices the different dating patterns some of her friends have or are starting to have. The idea to talk about patterns came to her as some of her friends were discussing Ashika's own dating pattern that she hadn't really noticed before. Can we really break our dating patterns? 

Ashika invites her soon-to-be married older brother, Arnold, on the show to discuss how he met his fiancé. The siblings discuss the old school ways of arranged marriage versus the new more relaxed matchmaking techniques and Arnold gives an inside scoop on why he decided to turn to family for help in finding his life partner. 

Ashika is joined by dating and relationship coach, Varsha Mathur. Varsha has found love again and is now happily married but her and Ashika swap stories of what its like being South Asian and dating after divorce. As the conversation deepens, Varsha can't help but coach Ashika, just a little bit, as she shares her dating life woes.  

In Part 2, Ashika invites two friends on the show to share and discuss how to know when you truly are over it. The girl gang shares their own stories of baggage, trauma, hurts and how they've had some dating fails when they moved on too soon before they were healed. 

In the first part of this two part series in breakups, Ashika shares her tips on how to get over it. Expect her usual uncensored, unfiltered candor as she discusses both unhealthy and healthy ways she has personally coped with heartbreak. If you are going through a breakup or have ever been in a break up you will totally relate!