This episode we talk about how becoming a mum changes a woman. Not just physically but mentally and emotionally. We discuss the decision to be a stay at home mum for Pam, getting through post-natal depression and even self esteem issues that came with being a new mum. Pam shares what’s helped her be more present at home but also look forward to the future with her own passions and goals.

In this podcast (and in upcoming future ones) we’ve decided to revisit some of our older podcasts and recap and discuss where we are on it. And also how things are now or if our views have simply changed. This podcast we dive back into one of our older episodes of depression and suicide. Pam shares where she is at now and some of the things that she’s learnt to cope and get through it.

This week we talk about our journey with pregnancy life. And by our we mean it lol both from mums and dads both sides as we know both men and women have journeys with bringing a life into the world. We talk about our own mental health battles we’ve faced during Pam’s pregnancies and now awaiting baby number 3 how we’re facing this pregnancy. Happy listening

This episode we talk about some of the cultural differences we’ve faced since being together. Caleb being Samoan and Pam Tongan there has been so much we’ve learnt from one another. Although their are differences we’ve also learnt that we can pick and choose how we want to raise our kids and how we will incorporate our cultures into their upbringing.

This week we have a real conversation about how much being honest has helped heal both of us through addiction recovery. Our last pornography episode is still the most listened to and we hope this podcast can help others too. We hope this can serve and uplift someone who may also be going through this.

This episode we discuss how choosing to serve a mission over an NRL contract hasn’t been the only faith over the world decision Caleb’s had to make. We reflect on Caleb choosing to not play on Sundays, to changing schools for his faith. He shares his advice for others out there who may also be trying to choose what’s right for them and having the courage to act in faith.

This episode we talk about and reflect on our 5 year goals we set and achieved. From having 2 kids to having a 6 digit number in our bank account. We love goal setting and planning and we wanted to share and encourage you to get out there and achieve those goals!

This episode we talk about smacking our kids and why we’ve chosen to stop smacking our kids. We know it’s an unpopular opinion but wanted to share why we’ve decided to do this and how much it’s helped us. Happy listening

This week’s episode we talk about our decision to go back home. And ultimately the decision to quit rugby. This has been something we’ve been talking about and praying about for a while. Talking about how we are agents of our own life and we can make our life what we want. Happy Listening

This week on our podcast we talk about 2021 our own goals and also what we’re doing to make sure we make 2021 our big year.