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You know that moment when someone asks you to name one good thing about yourself, and your mind goes completely blank?

Pennie knows it well. After her second divorce, sitting in her sister’s basement with an assignment to list ten things she liked about herself, she cried for half an hour and managed one. Her feet.

When I asked her how she got from there to where she is now, she didn’t start with a breakthrough. She started with a garden.

She was a homeschooling mom of five, worn down and stuck, when a small whisper told her to grow one. Her husband never got around to building the boxes. 

So she went to the garage, picked up a power saw she’d been afraid of her whole life, and cut the boards herself. 

That one tiny brave step was the first proof she’d had in years that she could do hard things. Then she knelt in the soil and started discovering what school had never shown her. The girl they said had a learning disability was a woman who thinks in pictures, and thinks beautifully.

What grew in that garden carried her through the end of a long marriage. It carried her through her first job in seventeen years, and a résumé that terrified her, and the slow, patient work of rebuilding with her children. 

Today she coaches entrepreneurs and leaders, and she’s stepping onto the stages she dreamed about at twelve.

She’s honest that she isn’t finished, and that’s one of the things I love most about her. If you’re building something that matters to you, and a voice in your head keeps asking who you think you are to say it out loud, this one’s for you.

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Hosted by Bernice McDonald — Life & Courage Strategist, speaker, and author. 

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On a rainy night, ten-year-old Julie Fairhurst was home babysitting her three younger brothers when strangers came to the door and took all four children away. 

Two weeks later her mother appeared. Julie ran to her sobbing, and her mother raised both hands and said, “get her off me.”

There had been a car accident, and her mother's closest friend had died. 

No one talked about it. There was no counselling and no conversation. The family went quiet and stayed quiet — and every child in that house grew up deciding the coldness was about them.

Julie spent the next thirty years refusing gifts, refusing compliments, and paying every bill so she'd never owe anyone anything. 

She called it independence. 

Then one night she heard herself say something out loud, and everything turned.

Today Julie has published forty collaborative books and more than 350 true-life stories — and she has never charged women a participation fee to contribute them, because she never wanted money to keep a woman from being heard. 

This is how the silence finally broke. If you've ever gone quiet to keep the peace — this one is for you.

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Hosted by Bernice McDonald — Life & Courage Strategist, speaker, and author. 

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When addiction entered her home, Jen McCutcheon did what mothers do. 

She fixed. 
She researched treatment centres.
She planned interventions. 
Held the family together with whatever she could find. 

And she kept going until her body shut down.

Then came a night on the living room couch, crying in front of a blank wall, when something inside her said: you are the common denominator.

This is a story:

...about a woman who watched her son disappear and did not notice she had disappeared too. 

...about being told her story was not hers to tell. 

...about standing in a backyard with her nails cutting into her palms, realizing she had stopped breathing. 

...and about what she built once she stopped trying to fix and started going first.

It does not end tidy. Her son relapsed four weeks before this conversation. She is still in it, and so is he, and she will tell you that is part of it.

Jen is a recovery, trauma healing and personal power coach and the founder of Enable No More — changing the conversation around addiction, one family at a time.

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Mirna knew what burnout looked like. She’s a psychologist. She had helped other women recognize unhealthy workplaces, trust what they were feeling, and find their way through.

Then it happened to her.

She stepped into the biggest leadership role of her career, excited and ready. But within the first month, her body was already telling her something wasn’t right.

Then came the questioning. The labels. Too aggressive. Intimidating. Contrarian.

And slowly, Mirna began asking herself the question so many capable women ask when the people around them keep telling them a story about themselves they don’t recognize:

What if they’re right?

In this Courage Story, Mirna shares what finally helped her see that she wasn’t the problem, the night she sat alone in a hotel room and wrote her resignation letter, and the childhood voices that had been making her second-guess herself for decades.

Most importantly, she tells us what she found when she began peeling away all those other voices.

Her True Canvas.

The resilient, honest, curious, funny woman who had been there all along.

Today, through Your True Canvas, Mirna helps other women ask the same powerful question:

What actually belongs to me—and what have I been carrying that was never mine?

If you’ve ever found yourself doubting what you know, overriding what your body is telling you, or changing yourself to fit someone else’s version of who you should be, Mirna’s story may feel very familiar.

Because sometimes courage isn’t becoming someone new.

Sometimes it’s finding your way back to yourself.

Connect with Mirna Mejia and Learn To See Yourself as Your Own True Canvas:

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Website: Your True Canvas  www.yourtruecanvas.org

Hosted by Bernice McDonald — Life & Courage Strategist, speaker, and author. 

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For years, two things ran Sarka’s life without her seeing them: she didn’t believe in herself, and she thought she had to be perfect. 

It took a hard question — where will you be in 20 years? — before she turned around and looked to see what her life was becoming.

She became an entrepreneur with no savings and no plan, learned to answer her own fear instead of fighting it, and said yes to a TEDx stage she almost didn’t get — the one she forgot three times in rehearsal and gave anyway. 

Today she helps other people out of hiding, the way someone once helped her. 

Her message is simple and hard to do  unless you know how: you are enough, but it's not a mantra. 

It's something you learn to feel right down to your toes.

CONNECT WITH THE LOVELY SARKA RISCH. You'll be glad you did.

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Website: www.sarkarisch.com

Hosted by Bernice McDonald — Life & Courage Strategist, speaker, and author. 

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Lonna found the answer to her prayers — a faithful man, a fresh start in a new state — and still ended up more alone than she’d ever been. 

Two wounded people with no tools, ten hard years, and a marriage on life support. 

What turned it around wasn’t willpower. 

It was a care pastor who told her she’d never even had words for what she’d survived, a counseling room where she rewrote the beliefs she’d been living out of, and one unforgettable moment in a remembered field where she finally saw where Jesus had been all along. 

In this episode, Lonna shares -

...how she went from a black-and-white world to Technicolor

...how the depth she’d been told was “too much” became the very thing that saved her and 

...how a marriage that nearly ended became one that gives other people hope. 

Here is a story of the slow brave work of opening the doors of her heart until the color came back.

Connect with Lonna:

Lonna spent years uncovering the lies she'd believed were truths about herself and others so she could finally tell the truth about her own story — and these days she helps others tell theirs. 

As the founder of Seven & Associates, she comes alongside nonprofit leaders to help them think like entrepreneurs, building the strategy, marketing, messaging and fundraising that let a mission-driven organization actually grow and last. She's a Fractional CMO and trained AI Architect. Find her at sevenandassoc.com.

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Hosted by Bernice McDonald — Life & Courage Strategist, speaker, and author. 

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Sharon could do anything. Give her a job nobody knew how to do, a problem no one could crack — she’d figure it out. 

Then she adopted a little girl whose early wounds no amount of trying could reach, and the woman who could do hard things came apart. 

This is the story of what happens after the control runs out: the guilt, the melt, the radical choice, and a rainy night when a frightened girl finally reached for her mother’s hand.

Contact Sharon here: 

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Hosted by Bernice McDonald — Life & Courage Strategist, speaker, and author. 

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Erica had just walked back through a door she thought was closed for good — teaching, after seven years away. 

It was the fall of 2020. Twelve-hour days. New everything. 

And then, in the space of a few weeks... her brother was diagnosed with cancer, she caught COVID, her mom got COVID and her dad went into the hospital alone and came home on hospice. 

Days later, her mom had a breakdown of her own.

Erica was the last one standing. 

Sick herself. Brand new in her job. Every person she loved most, in free fall at the same time.

This is the story of what she did next. 

How she survived hour by hour, ten minutes at a time. 

How she learned to trust a bridge she couldn't see. 

And how everything that felt pointless in that year became the exact skill set she now uses in her work today.

For any woman carrying more than she thought she could.

Connect with Erica:

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• Linked in: https://www.linkedin.com/in/erica-warrick2493/
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Hosted by Bernice McDonald — Life & Courage Strategist, speaker, and author. 

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Some women learn early that the safest thing to do is disappear. 

Kylyna learned it in a house where her father’s drinking was the weather — always there, never her fault, impossible to fix. 

So she got the good grades. She kept the peace. She stayed in her room. She made herself easy to overlook.

And then she grew up and had a baby. And something in her said no.

This is the story of a woman who held a line almost no one around her understood — with the father she loved and couldn’t trust, with the brother she couldn’t save, and, hardest of all, with herself, when she saw her own pain starting to turn into the same thing she’d watched destroy them.

It’s about the strength she built alone, long before she knew it was strength. 

It’s about grief that doesn’t tie up in a bow. 

And it’s about what gets built on the other side of all of it: a business of her own, two sons who know they don’t have to numb what hurts, and a Sunday-morning phone call nobody would have predicted.

If you’ve ever been the different one in a room — the one holding a line while everyone else looks away — this one is for you.

A gentle note: this episode touches on addiction in the family and the loss of a sibling, held with care.

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Hosted by Bernice McDonald — Life & Courage Strategist, speaker, and author. 

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Nadine spent decades helping other women find themselves — as a relationship counselor, NLP trainer, and self-esteem facilitator. 

But for 19 years inside her own marriage, she was quietly losing track of who she was.

It wasn't dramatic. It was the slow accumulation of small surrenders: preferences set aside, choices made around someone else's moods, a voice that used to sing falling silent somewhere she couldn't quite name.

When the marriage ended, Nadine made a choice many women don't know how to make: she refused to let the anger take her down. She changed the locks. She packed her cart with the foods she actually liked. And one day, driving alone, she caught herself singing — and realized she couldn't remember when she had stopped.

Nadine's story is a courage story about identity: what it costs when we give it away, what it takes to reclaim it, and how becoming fully yourself again is exactly what makes the second act possible.

If you have ever looked up and wondered how you got so far from yourself — this one is for you.

Guest: Nadine Hanchar | Relationship Counselor, NLP Trainer, Women's Self-Esteem

Website: https://progressiveplus.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nadinehanchar/

Hosted by Bernice McDonald — Life & Courage Strategist, speaker, and author. 

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