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Tips to Navigate the Holiday Season with Self-Love: A Practical Guide


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Does the holiday season stress you out? If so, this podcast is for you! In today’s episode we’re taking a practical yet irreverent look at how to navigate the holiday season as self-lovingly as humanly possible. AKA how to NOT lose your sh*t! With relatable anecdotes and actionable tips, I’m reminding you that you have the power to navigate family gatherings, overwhelming responsibilities, and the pressure of gift-giving while staying true to yourself. From managing meltdowns to reframing triggered emotions, we’re talking tips and tactics to take control of your holiday experience and prioritize self-care. If you’re working to  embrace imperfection, set boundaries, and find joy in the midst of holiday chaos, this is an episode for you.


Topics we’re chatting about:

  • Embracing self-love and authenticity during the holiday season.

  • Navigating family gatherings and holiday stress without resorting to unhealthy coping mechanisms.

  • Differentiate between being 'triggered' and 'activated' during stressful situations.

  • Create a personalized holiday experience and devise a concrete plan to handle challenges. Understand the importance of self-care and forward planning during the holiday season.

  • Four concrete and practical strategies to navigate the holiday season. 

  • Understand the concept of a 'shit hits the fan' holiday toolkit, which includes a list of potential stressors and strategies to cope with them.

  • Understand the importance of advocating for oneself and strengthening the self-love muscle. 

    • Understand the value of practice and self-forgiveness when dealing with holiday stress
      • Discover the power of proactive living and self-love during the holiday season.
        • Working with your boundaries by using “boundary scripts.

        • Timestamps:

        • [00:00:00] Intro: Survive the holiday season with self-love.

        • [00:02:57] The big set up.

          [00:05:21] The goal is to stay self-loving and stay YOU.  What this means and why it matters?

          [00:07:26] Triggered vs Activated: Understanding the difference and why that matters.

          [00:11:40] The difference between having a REACTIVE or a PROACTIVE experience in life.

          [00:16:32] The importance of having a PROACTIVE holiday experience. Creating your Action Plan.

          [00:18:42] Strategy One: Define what the holiday needs to be for YOU.

          [00:22:00] Strategy Two: Give yourself the tools you need. 

          [00:23:58] Four steps to make a toolkit to prepare for holidays.

          [00:29:00] Strategy Three: Practice boundaries and use “boundary scripts” to set yourself up for success. 

          [00:32:58] Practice self-forgiveness.


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