It feels like our world is becoming more crass, harsher, divided and intolerant of others. This is not just the case among unbelievers but it is true among believers whose treatment of their fellow Christ followers leaves much to be desired. Often over things like politics and vaccinations, ethnic differences, and differing world views. Even Covid and whether one should mask or not have become issues that engender anger and disagreement.
The Apostle Peter addressed the issue of our attitudes, words, and actions in 1 Peter 3:8-12. “Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble. Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult. On the contrary, repay evil with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing. For, “Whoever would love life and see good days must keep their tongue from evil and their lips from deceitful speech. They must turn from evil and do good; they must seek peace and pursue it. For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous and his ears are attentive to their prayer, but the face of the Lord is against those who do evil.”
Those words of Peter describe a different way. A very different way! In a day of broken relationships and harsh treatment of one another, here is the different way. Being like-minded, sympathetic, loving, compassionate, humble, a person who blesses, goodness, peaceful, speech that brings blessing, while avoiding evil, unkindness, insults and deceit.
This isn’t easy. Our natural responses are to repay insult for insult, nurture bitterness over offenses, find subtle ways to undermine those who we don’t like, share opinions about others that hurt their character and feel fully justified in doing so because, in our opinion, we have been wronged.
How do we live out these instructions of Peter? First we need to discipline ourselves and take charge of our words, actions, and attitudes. Peter literally says, “rid yourselves of all malice and deceit, hypocrisy, envy and slander of every kind.” 1 Peter 2:1. We have a responsibility to, as Peter says, “grow up in our salvation, now that we have tasted that the Lord is good.”
He also tells us to “have sincere love for your brothers” and “love one another deeply, from the heart.” 1 Peter 1:22. Love doesn't treat people badly. Love is sympathetic, compassionate, humble, peaceful and avoids evil, unkindness, insults and deceit. It is literally a different way to treat those around us. It is the Jesus way, not the world’s way.
Our world has plenty to divide over. Christ followers are called to unite rather than divide and to treat one another as Christ treats us - with love and respect and kindness.
Father. When I am tempted to say harsh words, think unkind thoughts or harbor anger and bitterness, remind me of Peter’s words. Help me to unite rather than divide and love my brothers and sisters from my heart. Amen.