What does it mean to be "in motion" in our marriage?  This phrase comes from one of the definitions of the word agency.  Our ability to make choices is key to how we are functioning in this world and how we are feeling about our life experience.  When we are in the opposite mode, and being more passive in our lives, we find that we can easily fall into victim mentality and blame.  

Listen in as we discuss one of the most famous couples in history, and how their blame led to a lack of clear communication.  And don't most married couples want their communication to be more clear and effective?  We may not even realize that not using our agency to its fullest capacity to empower our lives could be making our communication with our spouse more like a mist of darkness.  Remember the purpose of the wise, ancient sage?  They were also "in motion, " seeking to reach their full potential.  

Nick will even share an experience we had earlier in the day where blame was quick to show up, how we used our agency to be mentally active and "in motion" in challenging those thoughts, and how quickly things turned around!  Sometimes, improving our situation is not as challenging as we think it's going to be.