My sister… if life has been hitting you back-to-back—one problem, then another, then another—like trials and tribulations are doing a full-course meal on you… this message is for you!

In the book of Job, we meet a man who was living blessed-blessed… and then suddenly lost EVERYTHING. And yet, Job stayed in the conversation with God… and God still wrote him a major comeback.

And that’s why today’s word is simple but serious:God will elevate you! Job’s story proves God can restore what you lost!

Welcome to Part 2 of the Hope Series: Shots of hope when you’re running on empty. Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat) brings a bold, Scripture-rooted word for the exhausted woman who’s still showing up… but privately wondering, “God… what is this???”

Job’s story is proof that your pain is not your permanent address—and your dark season is not the end of your story.

Chapters:

00:00 Life has been disrespectful lately!

02:51 Job was living blessed… then everything fell apart

11:43 Job's comeback!

14:28 Your comeback!

16:46 Declaration

17:47 Prayer

21:02 Closing words

If this hit home, send it to one sister who’s running on empty—because sometimes a reminder is the rescue.

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My sister… if you’ve ever felt trapped—like life collapsed on you and you couldn’t breathe, couldn’t move, couldn’t see a way out—this message is for you.

On September 11, 2001, Genelle Guzman-McMillan was buried under the rubble of the World Trade Center and survived for about 27 hours before being rescued—widely reported as the last person pulled out alive from Ground Zero.

And that’s why today’s word is simple but serious:Jesus is the Light in your darkness!Welcome to Part 1 of the Hope Series: Shots of hope when you’re running on empty.

Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat) brings a bold, Scripture-rooted word for the woman who feels cornered on the inside… but still showing up.

Genelle’s story is a reminder that even under the rubble, you are not forgotten—and even in the dark, Light can still find you!

Chapters:

00:00 Breaking news: “just be positive” is canceled

06:12 The miraculous rescue: Genelle + why this matters

11:27 The only Light you need is Jesus!

17:23 Faith beyond your five senses

24:18 Declaration

25:53 Prayer

29:03 Closing Words

If this hit home, send it to one sister who’s running on empty!

Book:

Angel in The RubbleGenelle Guzman-McMillan https://www.amazon.ca/Angel-Rubble-Miraculous-Rescue-Survivor/dp/1451635230

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My sister… if Jesus can turn fishermen, doubters, and “people with a past” into world-changers… then you really don’t get to count yourself out!

Because the truth is: you’re not “too late.”You’re not “too messy.”You’re not “too ordinary.”

You might just be one honest YES away from the kind of transformation that makes people look at you like…“Wait… is that the same woman?!”

In this message, Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat) breaks down the real reason Jesus calls “unqualified” people on purpose—and how surrender (not performing) is where the change starts.

We’re talking about:

• Why Jesus transforms from the inside out (not just behavior tweaks)

• The proof: Peter, Andrew, Matthew, Thomas… and the woman who said yes with one shaky touch

• The warning: being around Jesus isn’t the same as being changed by Jesus• Why your “yes” doesn’t need to be perfect—just honest.

If you’ve been waiting to feel ready… sis, this is your reminder: ready isn’t the requirement. Yes is.

Chapters

00:00 Intro

03:58 Setup — How Jesus changes people

16:41 Proof #1 — Simon Peter

20:44 Proof #2 — Andrew

22:22 Proof #3 — Matthew

24:34 Proof #4 — Thomas

27:18 Proof #5 — the woman with the blood loss

30:40 The warning — Judas

33:44 Just say yes — Your identity in Christ Jesus

37:11 Declaration

38:31 Prayer

41:50 Closing words

If this hit you, send it to one sister who keeps hesitating… while Jesus keeps calling.

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You can’t run God’s race in somebody else’s lane and then wonder why you’re tired.Because sometimes you’re not stuck because you’re not gifted.You’re stuck because you’re gifted… but misplaced.

In this bold word, Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat) breaks down what it looks like to stay in your lane—the lane God designed for you—so you stop burning energy trying to win in a lane He never assigned.

And my sister… this is bigger than “purpose talk.”

This is about alignment. Identity. Obedience. Peace.

We’re talking about:

• How “familiar” can trick you into staying misaligned

• Why some doors stay shut (and it’s not because you’re cursed)

• The real cost of running for approval

• How to pray your way into your lane (Ask. Seek. Knock.)

• Why identity in Christ changes everything

• The difference between being around Jesus… and being transformed by Jesus

Because Jesus doesn’t just call you to run.

He calls you to run the right lane.

Chapters

00:00 Intro — stay in your lane

03:46 Vonetta Flowers: wrong lane → right lane

07:32 Are you gifted but misplaced (familiar vs assigned)

11:47 Bible proof: God calls people by name

17:38 Ask, seek, knock — pray your way into your lane

21:25 Identity healing + comparison detox

25:34 Declaration

26:47 Prayer

29:29 Closing wordsIf this hit home, send it to a sister who’s exhausted from running in the wrong lane.

If you missed some messages, watch the full People-Pleasing Detox playlist here:https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLaBx7CwnkcPzd6iT6Hp7XocvgXqY3pdKF

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My sister… be honest: are you chasing “happiness”… but still ending up tired, stuck, and low-key scared you’re going to look back and say, “I wasted years”?

In this message, Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat) talks about the one big regret that sits behind so many other regrets… and how to make decisions that lead to peace, purpose, and a life you don’t have to mourn later!

We’ll get into:

• Why life is shorter than we act like it is (and Scripture is not playing about that)

• How tiny “later” decisions quietly create massive regret

• Why fear can have you running fast… in circles

• Why God’s direction protects you from dead ends you can’t see• How to guard your heart (without guilt) and protect your purpose

• What to do if you feel like you’re “too late”, “too old” or “too far gone”

Yes, I reference The Pursuit of Happyness for a couple minutes (to expose the lie behind what we think will make us happy) — but this message is bigger than a movie. This is about your life. This is about what God wants to say to YOU.

I also reference the ‘Top 5 Regrets of the Dying’from Bronnie Ware to show what people keep realizing too late—and how God’s wisdom helps you avoid that kind of ending.

Chapters

00:00 Intro

05:30 The pursuit of happiness—and the lie we believe

11:55 What regret really is

14:43 The One big regret

16:00 The one and only key you will ever need

18:00 God sees from above (the maze)

20:23 Practical example: partnerships and consequences

24:58 “Imagine if…” Bible montage (obedience changes everything)

32:41 Cautionary “Imagine if…” (when people disobeyed)

39:02 The turn… for you

43:54 Declaration

45:08 Prayer

50:07 Conclusion

Send this message to a sister who needs to be reminded it's not too late for her!

If you missed some messages, watch the full People-Pleasing Detox playlist here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLaBx7CwnkcPzd6iT6Hp7XocvgXqY3pdKF

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My sister… let’s be real. You can’t please everyone AND follow God. Jesus already said it: no one can serve two masters. But a lot of us? We’re trying very hard. And it’s keeping us sooo stuck.

In this bold new word, Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat) breaks down why people-pleasing is quiet slavery, how good intentions can still pull you off course, and what it really costs when you choose people over God.

Because every time you say “yes” to keep people happy, you are very likely saying “no” to God… without even realizing it!This People-Pleasing Detox message will set you free.

We’re talking about:

• How people-pleasing becomes bondage

• When “good intentions” derail God’s instructions

• What it looks like to grow when people don’t get it

• How to filter your choices through God’s glory (not guilt)

• How to stop letting family, friends, and group chats run your life

Because sis… it’s time to choose your Master. The right one.

Chapters

00:00 Intro

02:34 Who’s your master?

08:00 The real cost of freedom

13:44 Scenario #1: Loyalty to people vs obedience to God

19:20 Scenario #2: Family pressure vs transformation

23:00 God → you → others

25:11 “Do it all for God’s glory”

29:09 Filter people’s advice through the Word

31:25 Wrap-up — pick your Master

34:12 Declaration Time

35:46 Prayer

39:17 Conclusion

If this hit home, send it to a sister still saying yes to the wrong master.

If you missed some messages, watch the full People-Pleasing Detox playlist here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLaBx7CwnkcPzd6iT6Hp7XocvgXqY3pdKF

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Christian boundaries are biblical, sis. If you’ve been people-pleasing, feeling guilty, and trying to protect your peace without sounding “mean” — Jesus already gave us a playbook!

In this message, Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat) breaks down 7 warnings Jesus gave about people and what to do when someone’s influence, words, or access is quietly pulling you off God’s path.

And Jesus?The most loving Person who ever lived?He was not confused about boundaries. He gave warnings—clear ones.

In this Part 5 of People-Pleasing Detox: For Exhausted Women, we’re talking about:

* Why “small” influence can slowly corrupt your standards

* How to spot people who look wise… but produce messy results

* When Jesus says leave them

* How to stop forcing access when truth is rejected

* Why “cut it off” applies to more than habits

* How to stop over-explaining

* Why not everybody deserves access to what God is doing in you If you’ve been asking:

* “How do I set boundaries as a Christian?”

* “What does the Bible say about toxic people?”

* “How do I protect my peace without feeling guilty?”

* “How do I stop people-pleasing and still be loving?”

This message is for you!By God’s grace, this Word will help you stop calling dysfunction ‘love’ — and start moving how Jesus moved!

Chapters

00:00 Intro

04:36 Warning 1

11:22 Warning 2

17:44 Warning 3

22:23 Warning 4

25:20 Warning 5

28:25 Warning 6

30:15 Warning 7

33:50 Declaration Time

35:10 Prayer for you

40:17 Closing Words

If God brought someone to mind while you were watching, send it to her. Remind her: she is allowed to be free — and walk how Jesus walked!

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Psalm 1 isn’t just poetry, sis. It’s God’s blueprint for a blessed life—and a warning about who you might need to distance yourself from.

In this message, Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat) breaks down Psalm 1 (NIV) line by line and brings it into modern life—friendships, family, group chats, work circles, relationships… the environments that shape your thinking.

Because sometimes you’re not “stuck” because you lack effort.You’re stuck because you keep sitting in the wrong seat.

We’re talking about:

* Bad company that drains you, guilt-trips you, manipulates you, and keeps you stuck

* Why staying connected to the wrong people can cost you more than you realize

* How to stop people-pleasing your way into compromise

* How to set godly boundaries without being hateful or acting superior

* How to become planted, peaceful, fruitful, and unshakable—even in dry seasons!

If you’ve been asking:

* “What does Psalm 1 mean?”

* “What does the Bible say about bad company?”

* “How do I deal with mockers and toxic influence?”

* “How do I stop people-pleasing and protect my peace?”

This message is for you, my sister!

This Psalm will either plant you… or expose what’s been draining you.

Timestamps

00:00 Intro — Why some people keep rising and some stay stuck? Kayla’s story

08:05 — Who are “these folks” you need to avoid?

13:42 Psalm 1 (NIV)

14:10 Verse 1 — walk / stand / sit (the progression)

19:53 Verse 2 — delight + meditate (day and night)

25:28 Verse 3 — the tree by streams (the oasis picture)

29:50 Verse 4 — chaff (noise, no nourishment)

33:39 Verse 5–6 — two roads, choice, God watches

40:55 Save your peace, save your calling!

46:18 Declaration — “I’m not cracking the door anymore!”

47:56 Prayer for you!

51:19 Last wordsIf this helped you, share it with a sister who needs to be reminded it’s time to move!

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Adam and Eve didn’t lose everything in one bite—
they lost it the moment the enemy turned God’s clear Word into a debate.

Fed up of starting over? This Bible-based encouragement for exhausted women exposes the real reason your “fresh start” keeps slipping through your fingers—and how to finally walk into lasting change with God.

Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat) takes you back to Genesis to show how one quiet question can plant self-doubt, trigger second-guessing, and send you on a detour you never planned.

This is Part 3 of People-Pleasing Detox: For Exhausted Women

Timestamps

0:00 – Intro: “happy new YOU!”

5:04 – Why you keep restarting (the real battle)

11:10 – Genesis: the moment doubt got planted

22:57 – The consequences… and hope for you!

39:15 – Declaration time: no more second-guessing

40:34 – Prayer: grace for a new season

43:24 – Closing: guard the blessing, guard the heart

👋 Welcome to To Run or Not To Run with Jesus Christ—created for women who want Scripture, real talk, and Holy Spirit conviction without shame!

New episode every Thursday at 11 AM ET!

If this helped you, share it with a sister who needs a reset with God.

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What do you do when you’re finally growing… and the people closest to you start acting weird?

You start healing, setting boundaries, saying “no” with peace… and suddenly you’re “different.”

You stop overfunctioning and now you’re “difficult.”And the wild part? Sometimes the pushback starts before you even change—the moment you think about changing.

In this message for women of faith, Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat) breaks down why people resist your growth—and how to stop people-pleasing “to keep the peace” when that peace is really just you shrinking.

We’re naming what’s happening (homeostatic resistance), and we’re going straight into Scripture with one of the clearest examples of transformation backlash.

Sis, don’t let anybody dim your light—just because your growth makes them uncomfortable.

👋 Welcome to To Run or Not To Run with Jesus Christ.

This is Part 2 of the series: People-Pleasing Detox: For Exhausted Women

⏱ Chapters

00:00 Intro — Don’t let them dim your light

05:39 What is homeostatic resistance is (why people push back)

10:07 Before the encounter

13:54 After the encounter

21:34 How to respond when they want the old you back

24:56 Protect your spark (guard your heart)

26:52 Different Point of View (POV)

34:25 Declaration

35:55 Prayer

38:41 Closing encouragement

New episode every Thursday at 11 AM ET!

If this message hit home, share it with a sister who’s healing, evolving, and tired of being guilted back into her old role.

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