Should you tell your spouse before filing for divorce—or keep that decision private until the papers are served? In this episode of the Happily Ever After Divorce™ podcast, Sara and Shawna dive into the legal strategies and emotional realities behind one of the most common (and complicated) questions in divorce. They explore how safety concerns, financial risks, and your spouse’s temperament all factor into timing, while also highlighting the role of personal values, conscience, and the kind of person you want to be on the other side of conflict. This candid conversation reminds listeners that the “right” choice isn’t just about legal advantage—it’s also about how you’ll feel about yourself when the dust settles.