TOB Podcast

In our final episode of Season 1, we’re taking a moment to look back on the journey so far! Join us as we dive into a fun TOB podcast quiz, revisit our favorite (and not-so-favorite) moments, and reflect on everything we’ve learned along the way.

We’re incredibly grateful to our amazing community! Thank you for listening, supporting, and growing with us. This is just the beginning, and we’ll be back before you know it.

Stay tuned and follow us on social media for updates on Season 2. Until next time!

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Have you ever felt like you had to perform to be a “good Christian”? Like certain habits or rules defined your closeness to God? You’re not alone. In this episode, we unpack the things we used to do out of fear or obligation and trade them for a deeper, freer relationship with God rooted in truth and grace.

Through honest reflections, personal stories, and practical advice, we talk about what it really means to know God, not just know about Him. Because pursuing Him takes maturity, but it also takes being real and the beautiful part is, He was already pursuing you first.

Whether you’re rebuilding your faith or don’t know where to start, this episode will help you take a step closer.

Watch now and let’s grow together.

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In this episode, we open up with a game called “Growing up, I knew I was in trouble when” and how those memories still sit with us today.

We explore the long-term effects of physical discipline, and how it often teaches children to suppress emotions or normalize violence instead of learning how to emotionally regulate and dive into the difficult, but necessary, conversation around choosing patience and communication over punishment.

Lastly, we talk about the controversial use of Bible verses to justify physical punishment, and what happens when scripture is weaponized in parenting.

If you’ve ever questioned the way discipline was handed down to you or how you plan to break the cycle this episode is for you.

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Are Christian influencers getting it wrong? In this episode, we’re diving into the difference between being a Christian influencer and being a Christian who happens to create content. We’re calling out the double standards the world puts on believers, the way Christians tear each other down more than build each other up, how the Church has become known more for what it’s against than what it stands for, and unpack the lie that kindness means you’re not holding people accountableWe also discuss the dangers of platforming your faith and share some of our experiences on the journey so far. This one is honest, bold, and might make you uncomfortable in the best way. Watch now and join the conversation.Join the conversation—watch or listen now!✨ Keep up with us beyond the podcast for behind-the-scenes moments, and daily encouragement: TikTok: @tob.podIG: @tob.podcastYouTube: @tob.podcast

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In this episode, we dive deep into one of the most relatable human experiences: the gap between how others see us and how we truly feel inside. Why do so many of us hide parts of ourselves to avoid conflict, shame, or judgment? And what does it cost us?

We explore what it means to protect our true nature, especially when we’re naturally more introverted in a world that often expects us to be loud, social, and “on.” We talk about the pressure to perform, the emotional labor of pretending, and the quiet strength of just being who you are.

We also touch on the tension that can rise as parents and children grow when the balance of authority begins to shift. How do we navigate those evolving relationships with care and honesty?

And finally, a moment of reflection: what would we say to our 8-year-old selves? And what would they think of the person we’ve become?

Tune in for an honest, thoughtful conversation that just might help you feel more seen—and more permission to be exactly who you are.

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In this fun and heartfelt episode, we’re celebrating a major milestone—Queen’s 1-year wedding anniversary! Tune in as we reflect on what the first year of marriage has taught her and share some sweet (and hilarious) highlights from the journey so far.

We play a spicy relationship game where we call out real-life scenarios and decide: Is this princess treatment or just the bare minimum?Get ready for some surprising takes and honest convos about what women really deserve in relationships. And finally, we dive into the world of Love Island—yes, we’re watching as Christian girls, and yes, we’ve got thoughts! From temptation to intentional dating, we’re breaking down what it’s like to engage with dating shows through a faith-based lens.

Grab your favorite drink and come join the convo. Listen now wherever you get your podcasts!

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This week on TOB, we’re joined by none other than OJE THE DJ! Since 2014, OJE has been a key voice in faith-based music, bringing unforgettable energy to events like Kingdom Bound, Change Conference, Overflow, and more — from Canada to the U.S. and Europe. He’s shared the stage with artists like Lecrae, Chris Tomlin, and Elevation Rhythm, and is also 1/3 of ANC3 — a dynamic group blending faith, music, and anime in viral ways.

In this episode, we dive into what it’s like being Christian in anime spaces, how obedience sharpens spiritual discipline, why God’s calling to abstain isn’t a one-size-fits-all, plus, a little trauma-dumping about rude encounters

You don’t want to miss this one. Hit play and get to know the heart and humor behind OJE THE DJ. Watch now, and don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe!

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Is the idea of “soft life” compatible with a life of faith? In this episode, we explore how the modern pursuit of ease and luxury stacks up against biblical examples like Jesus, John the Baptist, and Queen Esther. We talk purpose, responsibility, rest, and the tension between inner healing and outward appearances.

Can spiritual warfare, hard work, and true peace coexist? We think so—and we’re praying for the joy of the Lord to return to the Church and strengthen the collective.

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In today’s episode, we kick things off with a thought-provoking game brought to us by @andletthechurchsay that leads to some deep and dynamic conversations. From lighthearted debates—like whether women should propose to men or how much PDA is too much during the dating phase—to heavier topics around faith, salvation, and the state of the Church.

We reflect on the overwhelming love of our Heavenly Father and ask the hard question: Do we truly trust God, or are we just hoping He’ll co-sign our chaos? And also take a critical look at the blindspots in today’s church—are we really in alignment with God’s will, or just assuming we are?

This episode is honest, unfiltered, and rooted in truth. Let’s get into it.

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In this powerful episode, we’re joined by a special guest — our friend Tolu, who’s about to begin her PhD in psychology. Together, we unpack a listener’s heartfelt dilemma: how do you reconcile your faith with the need for therapy?

Tolu brings insight, compassion, and clarity to the conversation, reminding us that faith and therapy are not enemies — they can actually work hand-in-hand. We dive into why mental illness can be so hard to explain, especially in Christian spaces where struggles aren’t always visible — and aren’t always treated with the care they deserve.

From the stigma around seeking help, to the times when Scripture has been misused to silence mental health concerns, to the cultural influences that discourage vulnerability — we go there. And we ask the big questions: Why does the Church often avoid these conversations? And how can we, as believers, show up better for those quietly suffering?

Whether you’ve been wrestling with your own mental health, or want to learn how to support others with more empathy and grace, this episode is for you.

Helpful mental health resources can be found below:

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