What happens when you have a plan… and the day has other ideas?

On a snowy day filled with good intentions, I kept saying, “I’m going to record my podcast now,” only to be called away—again and again—to help someone else. Fire calls. People stuck in the snow. A quick trip to help my dad after he locked his keys in his truck. By the end of the day, the plan hadn’t happened—but something else had.

In this episode, we talk about the best-laid plans, why they don’t always come to fruition, and how that doesn’t automatically mean the day was wasted or the effort was lost. Sometimes, life reroutes us not to derail us, but to place us exactly where we’re needed.

This is a reflection on flexibility, service, and learning to measure a “good day” by more than what gets checked off a to-do list. If you’ve ever felt frustrated when your plans fall apart—or quietly proud of how you showed up anyway—this episode is for you.

We spend so much of our lives trying to prepare — for hard conversations, big moments, loss, love, fear, and change. We read, we listen, we rehearse, and we tell ourselves that if we just know enough, we’ll be ready.

But some things in life can’t be prepared for until you’re actually in them.

In this episode, I talk about the difference between hearing someone else’s story and living your own. Why no amount of advice, training, or observation can fully prepare us for emotionally heavy moments — or for the beautiful, exhilarating ones either. Whether it’s grief, fear, uncertainty, or falling deeply in love, these experiences don’t land in our minds alone — they move through our whole bodies.

I also explore the reality of the unknown. We don’t walk through life blindly, but we rarely have a full map. Often, the path only reveals itself once we start walking it.

If you’ve ever felt unprepared, overwhelmed, or unsure — this episode is a reminder that you’re not behind, broken, or failing. You’re human. And sometimes, the only way forward is to take the next step and let the path meet you there.

Have you ever noticed how a single brick can be used in so many different ways—flat in a wall, turned on its narrow edge to frame a window, or cut to create a perfect fit? It’s one simple building block, yet it becomes an entire structure when arranged with purpose.

In this episode, Todd shares how a small detail on a brick building unlocked a bigger reflection on human potential. Just like that brick, each of us carries skills and strengths that can be used in more than one way. With a little creativity, effort, and courage, you can take what you already have and build something remarkable.

Todd explores how versatility shows up in everyday life, why reinvention isn’t always necessary, and how shifting the orientation of your strengths—rather than replacing them—can help you grow, succeed, and create something meaningful. You’ll walk away with a simple reflection exercise and a renewed confidence in your own ability to build the “structures” that matter most: your goals, your relationships, your mindset, and your future.

If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re equipped for the next step in your journey, this episode is your reminder that you already hold the bricks. Now it’s time to build.

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In this episode, Todd unpacks one of life’s most familiar patterns: how the moments we fear, anticipate, or overthink often feel far heavier before they arrive. From childhood worries to adult transitions, we’ve all faced situations that seemed impossible from the outside—only to discover, once we stepped into them, that we were far more capable than we imagined.

Todd shares personal stories, gentle humor, and honest reflections on why anticipation amplifies anxiety, how our minds try to protect us by preparing for the worst, and why reality is usually kinder than the version we build in our heads. Along the way, he offers simple, steady practices for easing worry and grounding ourselves when the unknown looms large.

This episode is an encouraging reminder that you’ve handled hard things before… and you’ll handle the next one too. Sometimes the scariest part is just the waiting. And once it happens? You might just find yourself standing in a clearer, brighter place than you expected.

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In this episode, Todd unpacks a simple farm-inspired analogy with a surprisingly powerful message: not all emotional weight is created equal. Some feelings scatter on their own like birdseed. Others take a little effort, like moving a bale of hay. And some—those heavy, life-shaping burdens—sit in our lives like a boulder that won’t budge without real help and intention.

Through relatable examples and honest reflection, Todd explores how we can recognize the differences between these emotional loads, respond to each one wisely, and stop carrying what no longer needs to be on our shoulders. If you’ve been feeling weighed down or unsure how to move forward, this episode offers clarity, encouragement, and a framework you can use today to lighten your emotional backpack.

Take a moment, take a breath, and take a look at what you’re carrying. You might realize it’s time to finally set something down.

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This week’s episode begins with a simple sentence that stopped me in my tracks. A friend recently told me, “I love the way you see the world.” It wasn’t just a compliment — it was an invitation to look more closely at how our perspective shapes our experience.

In this episode, we explore the quiet power of noticing the little things: a bird’s nest tucked in the grass, a fallen tree you pass on the way to the mailbox, the scent of leaves underfoot, the golden angle of the sun in the fall. These small moments aren’t insignificant; they’re reminders that beauty is always within reach when we train our eyes — and our minds — to look for it.

We’ll talk about how perception can change the feel of a moment, why outside perspective can sometimes be the nudge we need, and how choosing to see the world through a gentler, more curious lens can shift everything from our stress level to our sense of gratitude.

If you’re ready to slow down, tune in, and see your surroundings with fresh eyes, this episode will give you practical tools and a few memorable phrases to carry with you. After all, the way we look at the world often determines what we discover in it.

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Ever notice how a simple question can sometimes turn into a full-blown argument? One minute someone’s sharing an idea, and the next, they’re shutting down because the conversation shifted from curious to critical. In this episode, Todd dives into why that happens — especially in our closest relationships — and how we can learn to ask questions that invite connection instead of conflict.

Through personal stories, relatable examples, and a few hard-earned lessons, Todd explores the fine line between showing genuine interest and sounding dismissive, even when we don’t mean to. You’ll walk away with a few practical ways to keep curiosity at the center of your conversations, especially when emotions are running high or surprises pop up.

Because when we learn to be curious, not critical, we open the door to understanding — and that’s where real communication begins.

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