World-renowned development leader Tom Byer joins the show to break down where real soccer development truly begins — inside the home. Tom explains how early touches, simple routines, and parent involvement build confidence, coordination, and long-term potential. We explore culture, neuroscience, at-home training, and why the U.S. continues to struggle with building a true development identity.

This episode gives parents, coaches, and clubs practical steps to build a stronger foundation for young players from the very beginning.

Key Talking Points

Tom’s Story & Global Impact

• NY → Japan: How Tom built one of the world’s most successful technical programs

• The beginnings of Soccer Starts at Home

• Why Japan embraced ball mastery at massive scale

Early Development Insights

• Real development starts before organized soccer

• Kids fall in love with the ball first, not the sport

• Importance of repetition: one child + one ball

• Early comfort becomes confidence and leadership

Culture & Science

• What Latin and Asian cultures do differently

• Neuroscience behind early learning

• Why games don’t teach foundational skills

• Why parent involvement shapes long-term potential

Practical Application

• Simple at-home routines for ages 2–6

• How to support older kids who start later

• What clubs can do to reinforce early development

• Building better collaboration between parents and coaches

💬 Quotes from Tom Byer

“Parents are the most important link in the development chain.”

“Kids fall in love with the ball first — not soccer.”

“If you want to push the ceiling, you have to raise the floor.”

“The best coach in the world can’t fix a weak foundation.”

“Culture develops players long before coaching ever does.”

“Most of what we call development is really just selection.”

“For young players, one child and one ball is more valuable than any game.”

“Ball mastery is the great equalizer — it gives every child a chance.”

“We keep trying to build superstructures on top of shaky foundations.”

“Real development starts years before a kid ever joins a team.”

🔗 Connect with Tom Byer

Website: soccerstartsathome.thinkific.com

Book: Soccer Starts at Home

Instagram: tom.byer

X: @TomSan106

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