Tomkats midnight lounge

We all need an ending. Even though it might night be a happy one we all need to know how it ends. And why

Pre covid to post covid, how do you spend your time with the one you love 

If you have mixed kids, especially of one of them are black pay attention to this.  This is just opinion 

Be honest with yourself and with others 

We all have them and most of us will still have them. But how do we get over them? How do we find the strength to believe someone when so many of the people we have trusted in the past have broke us down. How do we make sure that the people know we have these issues and respect it.

We have to ask ourselves before we put ourselves in these situations, are we ready for love? Are we ready to be loved? a lot of us have been hurt in the past and I know that it is hard to get over but understand this, if you don't get over those past issues then you will be damaged and will be unable to receive the love you deserve. be willing to open you hearts and minds.

with a new decade upon us we have to start thinking long term. In our life and in the relationships the we have, had or want to get into. communication is always key but there is more to that. making proper connections with loved ones and learning how to let go of people that are toxic in your life and accept the ones that have been there for you the most but do not have the toxic qualities that we need to stay away from.

For the culture has been one of those buzz words that have been buzzing around for the las 2 years and I just want to give a perspective on what I think it means to me. This goes into the music and fashion. More so the music. Just to show the pride we should have as being black people. This isn't a hit on any other race and I love all people and all cultures, but I just wanted to make sure that when people heard vote term for " For the culture " the knew what it men for us,  or just me. so I hope you enjoy