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“Abusive power and control (or controlling behaviour or coercive control) is the way that abusers gain and maintain power and control over a victim for an abusive purpose such as psychological, physical, sexual, or financial abuse. The abuse can be for various reasons such as personal gain, personal gratification, psychological projection, devaluation, envy, or just for the sake of it as the abuser may simply enjoy exercising power and control.

Controlling abusers may use multiple tactics to exert power and control over their victims. The tactics themselves are psychologically and sometimes physically abusive. Control may be helped through economic abuse thus limiting the victim's actions as they may then lack the necessary resources to resist the abuse.[94] The goal of the abuser is to control and intimidate the victim or to influence them to feel that they do not have an equal voice in the relationship.[95]

Manipulators and abusers control their victims with a range of tactics, including positive reinforcement (such as praise, superficial charm, flattery, ingratiation, love bombing, smiling, gifts, attention), negative reinforcement, intermittent or partial reinforcement, psychological punishment (such as nagging, silent treatment, swearing, threats, intimidation, emotional blackmail, guilt trips, inattention) and traumatic tactics (such as verbal abuse or explosive anger).[96]

The vulnerabilities of the victim are exploited with those who are particularly vulnerable being most often selected as targets.[96][97][98] Traumatic bonding can occur between the abuser and victim as the result of ongoing cycles of abuse in which the intermittent reinforcement of reward and punishment creates powerful emotional bonds that are resistant to change and a climate of fear.[99] An attempt may be made to normalise, legitimise, rationalise, deny, or minimise the abusive behaviour, or blame the victim for it.[100][101][102]

Isolation, gaslighting, mind games, lying, disinformation, propaganda, destabilisation, brainwashing and divide and rule are other strategies that are often used. The victim may be plied with alcohol or drugs or deprived of sleep to help disorientate them.[103][104]

Certain personality types feel particularly compelled to control other people.” Organized crime is a deadly weaponry of all kinds cult! Gender and sexual diverse ethical adult tourism is good, but the organized crime version of it is bad. The Bible writers may have placed their superstitions in the Biblical canon. The bigamy of organized crime is bad, but ethical bigamy is good. I love ethical, consensual non-monogamy and ethical, consensual monogamy. The non-monogamy and monogamy are both bad within organized crime. The two-person sex within organized crime is bad, but the two-person sex outside of organized crime is good. People do steal drugs from drug suppliers and drug traffickers in organized crime for pure evil profit. I am an organized crime cult survivor!

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“HUMAINE's proposal for EARL

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The emotion annotation and representation language (EARL) proposed by the Human-Machine Interaction Network on Emotion (HUMAINE) classifies 48 emotions.[43]

Negative and forceful

Anger

Annoyance

Contempt

Disgust

Irritation

Negative and not in control

Anxiety

Embarrassment

Fear

Helplessness

Powerlessness

Worry

Negative thoughts

Pride

Doubt

Envy

Frustration

Guilt

Shame

Negative and passive

Boredom

Despair

Disappointment

Hurt

Sadness

Agitation

Stress

Shock

Tension

Positive and lively

Amusement

Delight

Elation

Excitement

Happiness

Joy

Pleasure

Caring

Affection

Empathy

Friendliness

Love

Positive thoughts

Courage

Hope

Humility

Satisfaction

Trust

Quiet positive

Calmness

Contentment

Relaxation

Relief

Serenity

Reactive

Interest

Politeness

Surprise.”

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“Two names and a variety of titles are used to refer to Jesus in the New Testament.[1] In Christianity, the two names Jesus and Emmanuel that refer to Jesus in the New Testament have salvific attributes.[2][3][4] After the crucifixion of Jesus the early Church did not simply repeat his messages, but focused on him, proclaimed him, and tried to understand and explain his message. One element of the process of understanding and proclaiming Jesus was the attribution of titles to him.[5] Some of the titles that were gradually used in the early Church and then appeared in the New Testament were adopted from the Jewish context of the age, while others were selected to refer to, and underscore the message, mission and teachings of Jesus.[5] In time, some of these titles gathered significant Christological significance.[6]”

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“It’s a global business

With revenues estimated in the billons, their criminal enterprises closely resemble those of legitimate international businesses. They have operating models, long-term strategies, hierarchies, and even strategic alliances, all serving the same purpose: to generate the most profits with the least amount of risk.” No one came to my mother’s apartment because “the bodyguards” (the killers) declared that any criminal that is near my mother’s apartment would be the victim of contract kills by the killers that are worth millions of dollars. The killers would be near my mother’s apartment as unofficial street patrols when I was inside of it and outside of it to keep organized crime away from her home.

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“In addition, like any other industry, there are people who work in or service the sex industry as managers, film crews, photographers, website developers and webmasters, sales personnel, book and magazine writers and editors, etc. Some create business models, negotiate trade, make press releases, draw up contracts with other owners, buy and sell content, offer technical support, run servers, billing services, or payroll, organize trade shows and various events, do marketing and sales forecasts, provide human resources, or provide tax services and legal support. Usually, those in management or staff do not have direct dealings with sex workers, instead hiring photographers who have direct contact with the sex workers.” In the organized crime world, “snitches”, “rats”, and some drug suppliers get killed, beaten, and robbed. Some criminals have robbed the nunnery and religious figures. The drug suppliers get robbed of their money and their drugs. I was considered a polarizing figure in the crime-ridden streets. The killers were armed, hiding their weaponry while walking, running, and driving. I left religion because of the hierarchy of iniquity, the church having a “do as I say and not as I do” imagery of God, the theatrical and performative religion, the trying too hard to be “cool Christians”, pulpit dishonor, the church protecting it own sins and denouncing the world’s sins, the church’s perfectionism, preachers not preaching what they truly believe for the continuation of materialistic gain, the church is not permitting the sins of church leaders, the church is Christian in Church buildings Only and Christian in Name Only. silence about organized crime outside of the church and inside of the church, sexually repressed/sexually suppressed/romantically repressed/romantically suppressed church women making sexual passes at me in church buildings and outside of church buildings and romantic passes at me out of depressed desperation. I used the Bible to successfully resist them.

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“EXAMINE YOUR BELIEFS ABOUT SEXUALITY AND PERFORMANCE

Since this article is about sensuality in your performance, start by examining your beliefs about sexuality itself.

At what age did you learn about sexuality and from whom? What was the message? What did your parents and teachers tell you about sexuality? Did you grow up with religious beliefs about sexuality?

How do you see gender roles in general and in sexuality?

How do you feel about your own sexuality? Your gender? Your body?

What do you believe about performance? For whom do you perform? For yourself? For the viewer?

These questions will help you explore the mental framework in which your sexuality and your performance are taking place.

MINDFULNESS BODY SCAN

You can find a lot of guided body scans on apps like the UCLA Mindful App, Insight Timer or Calm. Through body scans, you can learn to pay closer attention to the sensations in your body. This will help you to be more in tune with the sensations you are experiencing in the moment and also help you stay connected with your body while you are performing. It will help ground you in case you are getting in your head about your performance and help you focus on your experience instead of the camera.

FOCUSING ON TOUCH

This can be done when you are alone or while you are performing. When you have some time, maybe before going to bed or right after waking up, take a few minutes and lightly run your fingers along your arm. While doing that, pay attention to the sensations on your arm as well as in your fingers. Notice how it feels to touch and how it feels to be touched. You can do the same thing during a performance with a partner. Pay attention to how it feels to give touch and how your body feels receiving touch. This is another way to stay present to the experience and to your body while also being in tune with your partner.

LISTENING

If you can, sit down with a partner and take turns with one person talking and the other just listening. While you are listening, pay attention to any judgments that come up for you while the other person is talking, watch your impulse to respond to them with something you might want to say. Stay with your breath while you listen to them and hold space for what they are saying. You can even put one hand on the center of your chest, your heart chakra. If you want to try this by yourself, you can choose a podcast or maybe a talk show and just focus on what comes up for you while you are listening. Then take this quality of listening into your performance with a partner. It will help you to feel more in tune with your partner, more open to what they are communicating to you and more able to respond in an open manner.

ADDRESSING PAST TRAUMA AND INNER CONFLICTS

Many of us have a history of trauma or are dealing with anxiety or have other things that make it hard to stay present to sensation or feelings. I see it as a badge of honor to go to therapy or find a support group where we can talk about our experience, reflect on it, be listened to and receive validation for the pain we are experiencing. I think addressing the issues in our lives is a prerequisite to opening up to feeling and sensuality.

In summary, mindfulness aims at enabling you to create space for your thoughts and emotions so that there is enough room to notice the physical sensations of pleasure and to stay connected with yourself and your partner. A preoccupied mind is a disengaged mind. Mindfulness will also enable you to notice your own boundaries more and be able to communicate them to a partner. Paying attention to your thoughts and your sensations will help you to feel more centered and will make for a more authentic and pleasurable performance.”

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“Rape culture is a setting, studied by several sociological theories, in which rape is pervasive and normalized due to societal attitudes about gender and sexuality.[1][2] Behaviors commonly associated with rape culture include victim blaming, slut-shaming, sexual objectification, trivializing rape, denial of widespread rape, refusing to acknowledge the harm caused by sexual violence, or some combination of these.”

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“Racism is the belief that groups of humans possess different behavioral traits corresponding to inherited attributes and can be divided based on the superiority of one race over another.[1][2][3] It may also mean prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against other people because they are of a different race or ethnicity.[2] Modern variants of racism are often based in social perceptions of biological differences between peoples. These views can take the form of social actions, practices or beliefs, or political systems in which different races are ranked as inherently superior or inferior to each other, based on presumed shared inheritable traits, abilities, or qualities.[2][3] “ “It is reasonable to ask what the characteristics of a true religion might be expected to be, and then compare Christianity against those expectations. This is not an unfair thing to do because, like other religions, Christianity purports to possess characteristics that can pertain only to an institution appointed by God. The following list contains some of the characteristics that Christians have claimed for their faith, and that a disinterested observer might reasonably expect the one true religion to possess*:

The tenets, doctrines and practices of the religion should be distinctive and original.

The tenets, doctrines and practices of the religion should be clear and unambiguous.

Doctrines should be free from error.

The religion should be internally consistent.

Doctrines should not be contradictory or lead to absurd or irrational conclusions, nor depend upon irrational arguments.

The religion should be unchanging and not culturally determined.

Access to the religion should be equally available to all people.

The religion should be fair. It should not favour any one group of people or put another at a disadvantage.

Adherents should be united in their divinely inspired belief. In other words they should all believe the same things.

The one true religion might be expected to be noticeably superior to other, false, religions.

It should be possible to distinguish the one true religion from other belief systems.

The religion should be a force for good in the world.

The religion should not be intellectually dishonest.

In the links above, each of these attributes are assessed against the record of Christianity. The end result is that Christianity dismally failed the test. It fails to rise above other religions in a fashion that would suggest that it is a true religion. Rather it contains all of the hallmarks of a man-made belief system.” The books of the Bible were selected by humans for canonical purposes, The Bible has interpolations in it, and The Bible has been tampered with. Religious texts are imperfect , filled with gray areas, and contradictory, life is imperfect, filled with gray areas, and contradictory, and humans are imperfect, filled with gray areas, and contradictory.

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“Core skills:

The World Health Organization in 1999 identified the following core cross-cultural areas of life skills:[8][9]

decision-making and problem-solving;

creative thinking (see also: lateral thinking) and critical thinking;

communication and interpersonal skills;

self-awareness and empathy;

assertiveness and equanimity; and

resilience and coping with emotions and coping with stress.” By the way, I am open to being featured in neurodiverse adult films, neurodivergent adult films, adult films featuring people with autism, adult films featuring people who are called by society “midgets” and “dwarfs”, and adult films featuring people with disabilities. I need full body exploration, full body orgasms, and multiple orgasms.

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“True Skeptics / Open-Minded Skeptics

Questions everything and takes nothing on faith, even from cherished established institutions.

Asks questions to try to understand new things and are open to learning about them.

Applies critical examination and inquiry to all sides, including their own.

Withholds judgment and does not jump to rash conclusions.

Seeks the truth and considers it the highest aim.

Thinks in terms of possibilities rather than in preserving fixed views.

Fairly and objectively weighs evidence on all sides.

Acknowledges valid convincing evidence rather than ignoring or denying it.

Possess solid sharp common sense and reason.

Are able to adapt their paradigms to new evidence and update their hypothesis to fit the data.

When all conventional explanations for a phenomenon are ruled out, are able to accept paranormal ones.

Accepts that there are mysteries and revels in trying to understand them.

Views science as a tool and methodology, not as a religion or authority to be obeyed. Understands the difference between the scientific process and the scientific establishment.

Acknowledges that the scientific establishment is subject to politics, corruption, control, censorship and suppression, as all human based institutions are – and therefore must be critically examined and scrutinized, rather than taken on faith, especially in the light of contrary evidence to their claims.

Will admit they are wrong when the evidence calls for it.

PseudoSkeptics / Closed-Minded Skeptics

Does not question anything from established non-religious institutions, but takes whatever they say on faith and demands that others do the same.

Does not ask questions to try to understand new things, but judges them by whether they fit into orthodoxy.

Applies “critical thinking” only to that which opposes orthodoxy or materialism, but never to the status quo itself.

Immediately judges as false and debunks anything that contradicts their paradigm.

Are not interested in truth, evidence or facts, only in defending their views.

Cannot think in terms of possibilities, but sees their paradigms as fixed and constant.

Are willing to lie and deceive to discredit their opponents.

Automatically dismisses and denies all data that contradicts materialism and orthodoxy.

Are judgmental and quick to draw conclusions about things they know little or nothing about.

Scoffs and ridicules what they oppose instead of using objective analysis and examination.

When faced with evidence or facts they can’t refute, uses semantics, word games and denial to try to obfuscate the issue.

Unable to adapt their paradigms to new evidence, and denies data which doesn’t fit into them.

When all conventional explanations for an unexplainable phenomenon are ruled out, are still not able to accept paranormal ones.

Dislikes mystery and uncertainty, and insist that all unknown phenomena must have a mundane explanation.

Views the scientific establishment as a religion and authority to be taken on faith and never questioned or challenged. Does not understand the difference between the scientific process/methodology and the scientific establishment institution.

Assumes that the scientific establishment is objective and unbiased, and free of politics, corruption, control, censorship and suppression for no other reason than blind faith in authority.

Will never admit that they are wrong no matter what, regardless of evidence.” These all apply to some faith-based people and some secular people.

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