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By Antonio MyersSociety & Culture
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  • The traumas traumatizes me no longer

    ”Partialism is sexual fetish with an exclusive focus on a specific part of the body other than genitals.[1][2][3] Partialism is categorized as a fetishistic disorder in the DSM-5 of the American Psychiatric Association only if it causes significant psychosocial distress for the person or has detrimental effects on important areas of their life. In the DSM-IV, it was considered a separate paraphilia (not otherwise specified), but was merged into fetishistic disorder by the DSM-5.[1] Individuals who exhibit partialism sometimes describe the anatomy of interest to them as having equal or greater erotic attraction for them as do the genitals.[4]”

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    35 min
  • Porn performer rights part 1
    “What Is It Like To Work In Porn?
    Creating a porn movie from scratch takes a lot of effort from a lot of people and it’s often all too easy to forget the fact that the set of an adult film involves more than just the people you see on screen.
    For a big-budget production filmed by one of the larger studios, there is the director, camera crew, multiple technicians (sound, light, wardrobe, hair and makeup) and production assistants.
    The new technology of VR, UHD, 3D and POV filming may demand more technical expertise so you could be looking at a dozen of so people on set at any one time….and that’s in addition to the two, three, four or more performers waiting for their scenes. Off-set there are writers, editors and other producers all working hard to put together something that will appeal to their audiences and maybe deliver a few gongs at the many adult industry awards nights.
    CEO of Joybear Pictures was quoted in a recent interview claiming that up to 30 people work on an average film for his studio.
    However, to give their performers more of an intimate atmosphere when filming some scenes this is condensed to a skeleton crew of just four people (director, camera 1, camera 2 and the sound/production manager).
    Still far from your ordinary night in with the missus and a far bigger audience than many people would be comfortable performing for.
    In truth, the reality of working in porn is far from the polished and flawless results that you finally get to see on DVD or through a premium porn channel.
    This is not an industry where you simply put two people together in a room and film the results.”
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    1 hr 43 min
  • I have and maintain my healthy relationship with sex and sexuality!

    “Those who identify as feminist pornographers are primarily independent, sole operators and performers, creating their own vision of good porn. Very few work with the larger US companies, although there have been a few such as Tristan Taormino who have made films for the big labels, hoping to encourage change within those organizations. But primarily we are still a small group working for ourselves. We don’t tend to phone Steven Hirsch at Vivid and say “Hey, you know you should start calling your films feminist, you’ll make millions!” The pornography we make is hugely varied and covers the entire spectrum of human sexuality. It seeks to represent all bodies, all genders, all fantasies — and that can include kinky sex that is often misrepresented as being “violent” and “harmful” in research. The common element you’ll see in feminist porn is a focus on respect, consent and pleasure. One of the key things that unite feminist pornographers is that we don’t just make porn; we are also a community and we talk about things. We have conferences and we critically think about all aspects of pornography. We participate in academic studies, we write for Porn Studies, we blog, we read, we get together and talk about what’s wrong with porn and what we can do to change that. We are being the change we want to see in the world. We also talk about ethical production methods and sex work. Part of the feminist porn movement is a discussion about labour and how producers and performers can work together for mutual benefit. Of course, ethical production is by no means exclusive to those who identify as feminist within the porn world. What is different is that we are bringing this issue into the conversation and making our ethics and methods explicit to the audience, seeking to dispel any concerns that they may have about how that porn was made. McNally talks of “trade” but she doesn’t speak of the exploratory nature of feminist porn. Some of us may be straight-up capitalists and others are doing it for political reasons, for personal reasons, for charity, for love. Some of us are making a profit, some are struggling to pay the rent. Some of us are finding new ways to interact with the public and to create a user-generated experience that centres the viewer and their desires and politics. Some of us are crowdfunding, some are trying to create a sustainable non-profit payment model for porn, others are developing payment models that profit-share with performers. And here’s the thing that Laura McNally dismissed in her article: we may be small but we are making a difference. Feminist porn is becoming a “brand” of sorts. The media is increasingly reporting on it. Consumers are becoming more aware of the possibility of a more positive kind of porn. More importantly, the US mainstream porn industry IS taking notice. Industry awards night XBiz has introduced a “Feminist Porn Release” category and have been hosting panels on feminist and women-made porn for several years at their annual conference and trade show. Similarly, AVN has come on board with a feminist porn discussion at their conference. There is an increasing awareness in the industry of consumer demand for ethical porn. Better still, a new performer advocacy group has formed — APAC USA. Not quite a union, it is still a vital step toward a more transparent and ethical porn industry. APAC aims to “provide representation for performers in the adult film industry and to protect performers’ rights to a safer and more professional work environment.” Sure, some of these changes may well just be “femwashing”. And yes, a lot of porn remains sexist and sex-negative, especially what you see on free tube sites. But change is happening and it is worth celebrating.” Links: https://medium.com/@msnaughty/how-to-be-an-anti-porn-campaigner-a9b492a5756e and https://medium.com/@msnaughty/how-the-porn-industry-can-lift-its-game-on-consent-9aad11aa0efd.

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    2 hr 54 min
  • My flawless sexual wisdom!
    “Feminist Porn As An Ideal
    If we think of feminist porn as a political ideal, we might talk about pornography that reflects certain beliefs. Feminism has traditionally been about seeking equality between the sexes and breaking down patriarchy. Porn can reflect that by depicting female agency and female pleasure, assuming an equality between sexual partners without any assumption that the sex should involve sexist roles or behaviour. Feminist porn seeks to show enthusiastic consent and a belief that sex is ultimately a positive thing. Ultimately, one might argue that it aims to subvert the usual tropes of mainstream porn that tends to centre the white, straight male gaze. The concept of the “female gaze” – while difficult in itself to define – has long been part of the discussion.
    Feminist porn ideology also embraces a wider, intersectional definition of feminism, giving space the pespectives of queer, trans, non-binary people and people of colour, embracing body positivity and fighting against racism, ablism, homophobia, transphobia and sex work stigma through the positive depiction of different sexualities and experiences.”
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    1 hr 55 min
  • The full story of my agnostic theism and my weak agnosticism
    “Agnostic theism (also called "religious agnosticism") is the view of those who do not claim to know the existence of God or gods, but still believe in the existence of such a being. Some agnostic theists happily admit of their ignorance humbly, so they may be able to become closer to God piously. Others, while believing in the divine, may despair of ever fully comprehend what it is in which they believe. Weak agnosticism (also called "mild agnosticism," "soft agnosticism," "open agnosticism," "empirical agnosticism," "temporal agnosticism") refers to the view that the existence or nonexistence of God or gods is currently unknown but is not necessarily unknowable, given the proper evidence. Therefore, the weak agnostic will withhold judgment of the existence of God or gods until more evidence is available. A weak agnostic would say, "I don't know whether God exists or not, but maybe you do."
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    1 hr 39 min
  • What Christian deism, non-religious deism, and moralistic therapeutic deism means to me
    “My beliefs as a five-year old were: A God exists who created and ordered the world and watches over human life on earth. God wants people to be good, nice, and fair to each other, as taught in the Bible and by most world religions. The central goal of life is to be happy and to feel good about oneself. God does not need to be particularly involved in one's life except when God is needed to resolve a problem. Good people go to heaven when they die.[7]” Did Jesus struggle with his own times of disappointment, sorrow, anger, prejudice, impatience, and despair, just as other human beings struggle with these experiences as a fully human being? The concept of Jesus being flawless has always intrigued my intellect because it is beyond my comprehension and it makes me ask countless questions. If my life depended on it and I had two options to pick from between the Unitarian Universalist human rights Jesus instead of the Churchianity Jesus in terms of discipleship, belief, and being a pupil, I would be a disciple and student and believer in the Unitarian Universalist human rights Jesus. I’m not a fan of the Churchianity Jesus. I read and study all religious texts and I read and study all secular schools of thought. It would be awesome to fully know and not just stop at believing.
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    43 min
  • My full story of my being a Secular Jesus Follower and my being an Agnostic Christian
    “So, someone might say, “Yes, I still hold to the teachings of Jesus and what he did, that is what seems to help me in life, that’s what I gravitate towards, but at the end of the day, who really knows? I'm agnostic, but I think Jesus is cool.” The motto of agnosticism is, “I don’t know, who can say for sure?”
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    1 hr 42 min
  • I made and maintain my complete peace with religion, spirituality, faith, and theism!
    “Ethical values are derived from human need and interest as tested by experience. Humanists ground values in human welfare shaped by human circumstances, interests, and concerns and extended to the global ecosystem and beyond. We are committed to treating each person as having inherent worth and dignity, and to making informed choices in a context of freedom consonant with responsibility.” I don’t mind human rights honoring religions, human rights honoring spiritualities, human rights honoring houses of worship, human rights honoring denominations, human rights honoring faiths, and human rights honoring theism. I am against human rights abusing religions, human rights abusing spiritualities, human rights abusing houses of worship, human rights abusing denominations, human rights abusing faiths, and human rights abusing theism. I am for human rights honoring secularity/secularism, that’s the only type of secularity/secularism that I embrace.
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    1 hr 17 min
  • The full story of my leaving religion!
    “14: Romans canonized the New Testament and made it their state religion.
    The idea that Romans invented the New Testament sounds even less absurd when you consider the fact that the New Testament was canonized entirely by Roman scholars. The first official cannon was created at the First Council of Nicea, which was presided over by the emperor of Rome. Everyone knows Jesus’ birthday and deathday were forged to coincide with other holidays. Most Christians probably always assumed this lie was reverse engineered by a sneaky Pope somewhere around the medieval times, but now that you know it was established by the First Counsel of Nicea, why would you believe anything else they said in the same meeting?
    It would be more accurate to ask, why would you believe a lie the first time you heard it but not the second? Jesus’s entire life and death are metaphors for the rotation of the Earth around the Sun. Jesus is called “the son.” He gives light and life to the world. When he went below the Earth, there was darkness, and when the sun rose again, life came back to the entire world.
    Both the Pagan version of Easter and the Jewish Passover are celebrated when the rising spring sun brings salvation from the winter darkness. They’re all based on the same concept. You don’t have to be a genius or a conspiracy theorist to see the astrological symbolism. Though you’d have to be crazy to believe the people who lied about Christmas and Easter, weren’t also making stuff up when they included those astrological metaphors in the Gospels.” Link: https://thewisesloth.com/2017/12/05/14-clues-christianity-roman-mythology/
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    3 hr 3 min
  • I never glorify the streets & I never dehumanize those who fell and/or fall victims to the streets!!
    “The word mafia (/ˈmɑːfiə/; Italian: [ˈmaːfja]) derives from the Sicilian adjective mafiusu, which, roughly translated, means "swagger", but can also be translated as "boldness" or "bravado". In reference to a man, mafiusu (mafioso in Italian) in 19th century Sicily signified "fearless", "enterprising", and "proud", according to scholar Diego Gambetta.[3] In reference to a woman, however, the feminine-form adjective mafiusa means 'beautiful' or 'attractive'.” “The [Sicilian] mafia's principal activities are settling disputes among other criminals, protecting them against each other's cheating, and organizing and overseeing illicit agreements, often involving many agents, such as illicit cartel agreements in otherwise legal industries.
    — Diego Gambetta, Codes of the Underworld (2009).”
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    1 hr 10 min

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Autism is my super blessing! I'm a high-school valedictorian, college graduate, world traveler, disability advocate. I'm a Unitarian Universalist. I'm a Progressive Liberal. I'm about equal rights, human rights, civil & political rights, & economic, social, &cultural rights.