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TonioTimeDaily

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  • The unresolved relationship hurts, the unresolved relationship habits, and the unresolved relationship hang-ups in organized crime

    "Article 3 — Right to Security of Person

    Everyone has the right to life, liberty and security of person.

    Article 4 — Freedom from Slavery

    No one shall be held in slavery or servitude; slavery and the slave trade shall be prohibited in all their forms.

    Article 5 — Freedom from Inhumane Treatment

    No one shall be subjected to torture or to cruel, inhumane or degrading treatment or punishment.

    Article 6 — Right to Legal Recognition

    Everyone has the right to be recognized as a person before the law.

    Article 7 — Right to Equality Before the Law

    All are equal before the law and are entitled without any discrimination to equal protection of the law. All are entitled to equal protection against any discrimination in violation of this Declaration and against any incitement to such discrimination."

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    1 hr 15 min
  • The unresolved sexual hurts, the unresolved sexual habits, and the unresolved sexual hang-ups of organized crime
    “Sexual objectification is the act of treating a person solely as an object of sexual desire. Objectification more broadly means treating a person as a commodity or an object without regard to their personality or dignity. Objectification is most commonly examined at the level of a society, but can also refer to the behavior of individuals and is a type of dehumanization.”
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    2 hr 11 min
  • Some churches are toxic workplaces
    All of these things occur in some churches: “Studies by National Occupational Safety and Health found toxic workplace environments a leading cause of workplace violence such as "violent acts, including physical assaults and threats of assault, directed toward persons at work or on duty." Studies on this issue include verbal violence (threats, verbal abuse, hostility, harassment, and the like) can cause significant psychological trauma and stress, even if no physical injury takes place. Verbal assaults and hostility can also escalate to physical violence.”
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    1 hr 23 min
  • Christlikeness has no religion! Empathy has no religion! Neighborliness has no religion!
    Human rights has no religion! The golden rule has no religion! The silver rule has no religion! Unconditional love, sacrificial love, compassionate love, selfless love, and companionate love has no religions! Humanists seek to understand the universe by using science and its methods of critical inquiry-logical reasoning, empirical evidence, and skeptical evaluation of conjectures and conclusions-to obtain reliable knowledge. Humanists affirm that humans have the freedom to give meaning, value, and purpose to their lives by their own independent thought, free inquiry, and responsible, creative activity. Humanists stand for the building of a more humane, just, compassionate, and democratic society using a pragmatic ethics based on human reason, experience, and reliable knowledge-an ethics that judges the consequences of human actions by the well-being of all life on Earth." -– Steven Schafersman
     "Humanism is an approach to life based on reason and our common humanity, recognizing that moral values are properly founded on human nature and experience alone."
    – The Bristol Humanist Group. I was called every disability slur in profane language that you can think of from a few of the organized crime figures, the rapists actually. The organized crime figures lied about my being a midget when it came to making me drive custom made, luxury vehicles. The criminals lied to their car dealership friends about it. The drug customers like the other civilians were “protective” of me in terms of exchanging words and fists with a few criminals who tried to start drama with me. I believed in eternal sin as a five-year old child. All of my doubts are released (which aids in my restful sleep and my being enthused while awake.) I’m not feuding with Jesus and Jesus isn’t feuding with me. I strictly and only have problems, issues, and conflicts with institutional religion.
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    1 hr 10 min
  • I'm challenging the original sin doctrine!

    "Original sin is the Christian doctrine that holds that humans, through the fact of birth, inherit a tainted nature in need of regeneration and a proclivity to sinful conduct.[1] The biblical basis for the belief is generally found in Genesis 3 (the story of the expulsion of Adam and Eve from the Garden of Eden), in a line in Psalm 51:5 ("I was brought forth in iniquity, and in sin did my mother conceive me"), and in Paul's Epistle to the Romans, 5:12-21 ("Therefore, just as sin entered the world through one man, and death through sin, and in this way death came to all people, because all sinned").[1] Why are some "sins" "the eternal sin" and other sins not seen as "the eternal sin"? 

    "In Christian hamartiology, eternal sin, the unforgivable sin, unpardonable sin, or ultimate sin is the sin which will not be forgiven by God. One eternal or unforgivable sin (blasphemy against the Holy Spirit), also known as the sin unto death, is specified in several passages of the Synoptic Gospels, including Mark 3:28–29,[1] Matthew 12:31–32,[2] and Luke 12:10,[3] as well as other New Testament passages including Hebrews 6:4–6,[4] Hebrews 10:26–31,[5] and 1 John 5:16.[6][7][8]

    The unforgivable sin is interpreted by Christian theologians in various ways, although they generally agree that one who has committed the sin is no longer able to repent, and so one who is fearful that they have committed it has not done so.[9][10]"

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    46 min
  • Solo Poly: Non-primary partners tell: How to treat us well and The Middle away: Buddhist Teaching
    “Addressing a group of monks, the Buddha said,
    It is this Noble Eightfold Path; that is, right view, right intention, right speech, right action, right livelihood, right effort, right mindfulness, right concentration. This, monks, is that middle way awakened to by the Tathāgata (or enlightened one), which gives rise to vision, which gives rise to knowledge, and leads to peace, direct knowledge, enlightenment, and wisdom (or Nibbāna).” “DO: Honor time commitments and dates.
    Listen to, validate, and be flexible toward your non-primary partner’s needs and concerns.
    Make your non-primary relationship a priority.
    Offer reassurance and understanding.
    Embrace your non-primary partner’s world.
    Keep your promises.
    Support good metamour relations.
    Invite non-primary partners into negotiations and decisions that affect them.
    Clarify your boundaries and commitments BEFORE you begin a new relationship.
    Fully disclose your constraints, agreements and boundaries.
    Expect to be surprised by your own emotional reactions.
    Trust what your non-primary partner says about their relationship goals.
    Speak up about fairness toward non-primary partners.
    Assume good intentions.
    DON’T: Don’t bail at the first bump.
    Don’t violate agreements.
    Don’t conflate “fairness” with “equality.”
    Don’t default to playing the go-between.
    Don’t foster competition or conflict among your partners.
    Don’t pretend the dynamic of your existing relationship(s) will not change.
    Don’t make it more complicated than it needs to be.”
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    1 hr 44 min
  • Christlikeness is not about theological warfare, it's all about equity, justice, equality, and egalitarianism for all! My secular interpretations of Christlikeness!
    Here are many forms of Christlikeness:
    "Civil and political rights
    The International Covenant on Civil and Political Rights and its First Optional Protocol entered into force in 1976. The Second Optional Protocol was adopted in 1989.
    The Covenant deals with such rights as freedom of movement; equality before the law; the right to a fair trial and presumption of innocence; freedom of thought, conscience and religion; freedom of opinion and expression; peaceful assembly; freedom of association; participation in public affairs and elections; and protection of minority rights. It prohibits arbitrary deprivation of life; torture, cruel or degrading treatment or punishment; slavery and forced labour; arbitrary arrest or detention; arbitrary interference with privacy; war propaganda; discrimination; and advocacy of racial or religious hatred.
    Human Rights Conventions
    A series of international human rights treaties and other instruments adopted since 1945 have expanded the body of international human rights law. They include the Convention on the Prevention and Punishment of the Crime of Genocide (1948), the International Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Racial Discrimination (1965), the Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination against Women (1979), the Convention on the Rights of the Child (1989) and the Convention on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities (2006), among others." Don’t forget that is Christlike to be about breaking the political influence of market-dominant companies!
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    47 min
  • The treatment of slaves within organized crime! I conclude with proper casual sex treatment!
    "Living conditions
    Compiling a variety of historical sources, historian Kenneth M. Stampp identified in his classic work The Peculiar Institution reoccurring themes in slave masters’ efforts to produce the "ideal slave":
    Maintain strict discipline and unconditional submission.
    Create a sense of personal inferiority, so that slaves "know their place."
    Instill fear.
    Teach servants to take interest in their master's enterprise.
    Prevent access to education and recreation, to ensure that slaves remain uneducated, helpless, and dependent.[10][11]."
         
    "1. Consent should be continuous and non-negotiable 
    Either in long-term relationships or single-night ones, consent should be consistent. Before, during, after sex, you have every right to call the thing off any moment you feel something is off. Or if the day isn’t right and you’re just not into it.
    Don’t guilt-trip yourself into indulging in something for the benefit of your partner or to avoid the risk of offending them. Consent is non-negotiable for both parties. Respect them and yourself enough to make allowances for it." By the way, I’m into sucking as much as I can when it comes to sex! 😃
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    47 min
  • Healthy sexual-roleplaying
    "Why you may want to try it.

    "Sexual role play can bring elements of play and novelty to a relationship. This is especially rejuvenating when partners feel like they've hit a plateau in the relationship," says therapist Wardeh C. Hattab, LCSW. Using role-play can help you and your partner rediscover the intrigue of your early days together and inject fun back into a sex life that might have begun to feel a little routine.

    Role-play is also a chance to step outside of the everyday rules you usually live your life by. "It allows couples to do things they wouldn't have felt comfortable doing otherwise," explains sex therapist Aliyah Moore, Ph.D. "If you're used to asking politely, role-playing gives you the chance to become more assertive and make decisive orders toward your partner. On the other hand, if you're someone who's used to pleasing others, role-playing gives you the chance to simply lie down, relax, and take the role of the receiver."

    Moore goes on to say that role-play can be a wonderful way for couples to bond and get closer as "acting out a fantasy builds the anticipation between partners, making sexual encounters more intimate and fulfilling."

    Starting the conversation.

    It might feel a little intimidating to bring up role-playing with your partner if it's something the two of you have never done before. To make it easier, sex educator Niki Davis-Fainbloom recommends bringing up the topic outside of sexual scenarios, "so partners have time to think about it without feeling pressure to do anything right away."

    She also suggests that you consider what scenarios you might be interested in exploring before you bring it up with your partner so that you're prepared to answer their questions and explain what you might be into.

    It's also important to keep in mind that discussing desires related to role-play should be a series of discussions rather than a one-and-done situation, says Hattab."

    "Role-play is when you take on the persona of someone else while having sex. For example, a couple may have sex while pretending to be strangers who met at a bar or acting out a scene where one person is royalty and the other is a servant.

    The role-play can be as developed and complex or as simple as you like: You can incorporate costumes, backstories, and music to set the scene, or you can just narrate what you're doing from a different perspective. The point is just to use your imagination to heighten sexual pleasure, tap into sexual fantasies, and play with creativity and self-expression."

    "Tips to keep in mind.

    Setting boundaries is of the utmost importance when experimenting with role-play, says Prem. Spell out to your partner what you're comfortable with and what you're not. Establish a safe word before beginning that you can use to come out of the scene if you start to feel uncomfortable or overwhelmed.

    Being really clear with your partner about which aspects of a role-play scenario turn you on can help both of you to glean more pleasure from it. "An open discussion of the fantasy may help the partner understand what aspect means the most in role-playing to the other person," Hattab adds. "A partner who is less interested in role-play may be open to it with some more understanding of why their partner has this fantasy."

    Make sure you're on the same page before diving in. A scenario in which you're the doctor and your partner is the patient, for example, could have myriad different ways of being played out. Establish a framework together for what things are off-limits and what things you both think is sexy."

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    1 hr 45 min

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Autism is my super blessing! I'm a high-school valedictorian, college graduate, world traveler, disability advocate. I'm a Unitarian Universalist. I'm a Progressive Liberal. I'm about equal rights, human rights, civil & political rights, & economic, social, &cultural rights.