Too Stubborn to Quit - The Pam and Linda Show

For years, many of us have carried Christmas on our shoulders — the planning, the cooking, the decorating, the expectations. In this episode of Too Stubborn to Quit, Pam and Linda talk about what happens when you finally loosen your grip on the holiday and choose peace over perfection.

This conversation is about releasing guilt, redefining traditions, and giving yourself permission to enjoy Christmas instead of managing it. Because letting go isn’t giving up — it’s growing into the version of the holiday that actually fits this season of life.

Less pressure. More presence. And a Christmas that feels good again.

Episode 9: Moving Forward in the Face of Adversity — with J.T. Pogreba

In this inspiring episode of Too Stubborn to Quit, Pam and Linda sit down with J.T. Pogreba — a survivor of California’s devastating Dixie Fire whose story is a masterclass in resilience. After losing nearly everything, J.T. packed up her two dogs, rebuilt her life in Indiana, moved again to Florida, and now has her eyes on a brand-new adventure: moving to France.

Through all the chaos, one simple mantra kept her going:
“No matter what’s falling apart around you… you still have to get up and feed the dogs.”

This episode is about courage, reinvention, and the small daily acts of responsibility that keep us grounded when life feels impossible.

If you’re facing your own fire — literal or otherwise — this conversation is the reminder that movement, hope, and stubborn determination are always possible.

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Help for disaster recovery, temporary housing, financial aid, and rebuilding resources.
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Dial 211 to connect with local food banks, housing support, financial aid, transportation, and senior services.
Free, confidential, 24/7.

Find local food banks anywhere in the U.S.
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Call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or text START to 88788

Emergency help for pet boarding, veterinary care, and crisis support.
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Many offer temporary pet housing or emergency food assistance.

❤️ A Reminder from J.T.’s Story:

“Even when everything is burning down around you… you still have to get up and feed the dogs.”
Sometimes the smallest responsibility is the anchor that keeps you moving forward.

Thanksgiving Traditions — What We’re Keeping and What We’re Kicking Out

In this Thanksgiving episode of Too Stubborn to Quit, Pam and Linda dig into the traditions we’ve loved for decades… and the ones we’re finally giving ourselves permission to let go of. From the dishes that absolutely belong on the table to the old habits that only added stress, we talk about how Thanksgiving evolves in the second act — and how to make it joyful, not exhausting.

Whether you're hosting, traveling, or keeping it simple this year, this conversation is a reminder that traditions should feed your soul, not drain it.

Stay strong, set your boundaries, and stay Too Stubborn to Quit.

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As we head into Thanksgiving, Pam shares a heartfelt reminder about gratitude in the second act of life — the things we appreciate now that we were too busy, too stressed, or too young to notice before. From simple comforts to unexpected blessings, this episode celebrates the quiet moments, the resilience we’ve earned, and the little joys that carry us through the chaos.

If you're feeling thankful, overwhelmed, or somewhere in between, this conversation is your invitation to pause, breathe, and remember what truly matters.

Stay strong, stay curious, and stay grateful.
#TooStubbornToQuit #BeGrateful

📝 SHOW NOTES — “What Our Parents Knew: Canning, Freezing & Feeding Yourself Smart”

This episode is all about the old-school kitchen skills that kept our parents and grandparents fed — and why these skills matter just as much today. Canning, freezing, stretching meals, smart shopping… these weren’t hobbies for them. They were survival skills.

Below are the simple, beginner-friendly recipes mentioned in this episode, plus instructions for canning tomatoes and making peach jelly. And now — by request — easy homemade bread and rolls.

If you or someone you know is facing food insecurity, please remember: you are not alone.
📞 Dial 211 for free, confidential help connecting to food and senior support services in your area.

Ingredients:

• 4 cups peach juice (fresh or bottled)

• 1 box powdered pectin (1.75 oz)

• 5 cups sugar

• 1 tbsp lemon juice

Peach Juice (if fresh):

1. Slice 10–12 peaches (no need to peel).

2. Cover with water; simmer 15 minutes.

3. Strain through cheesecloth — don’t squeeze.

4. Measure 4 cups juice.

Make Jelly:

1. Combine juice, lemon juice, and pectin; bring to rolling boil.

2. Add sugar all at once.

3. Boil hard for 1 minute; remove from heat.

4. Skim foam if needed.

To Can:

1. Ladle into hot jars (¼-inch headspace).

2. Add lids; tighten finger-tight.

3. Water-bath 10 minutes.

4. Cool 12–24 hours; check seals.

Shelf life: 1 year.

You Need:

• Fresh tomatoes

• Bottled lemon juice

• Salt (optional)

• Clean jars & lids

• Large pot

Prep Tomatoes:

1. Dip in boiling water 30–60 sec.

2. Transfer to ice water; skins slide off.

3. Cut into chunks.

Pack Jars:

1. Add lemon juice:

   • 1 tbsp per pint

   • 2 tbsp per quart

2. Add tomatoes + optional salt (½ tsp per pint).

3. Leave ½ inch headspace.

4. Clean rims; add lids.

Water Bath:

• Pints: 40 minutes

• Quarts: 45 minutes

Cool 12–24 hours, check seals. Stores 1 year.

Makes 1 loaf

Ingredients:

• 1 cup warm water

• 2 tbsp sugar

• 1 packet active dry yeast

• 2 tbsp melted butter

• 1 tsp salt

• 2 ¾–3 cups all-purpose flour

Instructions:

1. Mix warm water + sugar; sprinkle yeast; let foam 5–10 minutes.

2. Add butter, salt, and 2 cups flour.

3. Add remaining flour as needed until soft dough forms.

4. Knead 6–8 minutes.

5. Rise 1 hour.

6. Shape into loaf; rise 30 minutes.

7. Bake at 350°F for 30–35 minutes.

8. Cool 20 minutes before slicing.

Tip: Brush top with butter for a soft crust.

Ingredients:

• 1 cup warm water

• 2 tbsp sugar

• 1 packet active dry yeast

• 2 tbsp melted butter

• 1 tsp salt

• 2 ½–3 cups all-purpose flour

Instructions:

1. Mix warm water + sugar; add yeast; let foam 5–10 minutes.

2. Add butter, salt, and 2 cups flour.

3. Add remaining flour until dough is soft and slightly sticky.

4. Knead 5–7 minutes.

5. Rise 1 hour.

6. Divide into 12 balls; place in greased pan.

7. Rise 30 minutes.

8. Bake at 375°F for 15–18 minutes.

9. Brush with butter while hot.

Freezer tip: Freeze individually; microwave 20–30 seconds to reheat.

🍑 PEACH JELLY (Beginner-Friendly)🍅 HOW TO CAN TOMATOES (Water Bath Method)🍞 EASY HOMEMADE WHITE BREAD (Beginner-Friendly)🥖 SOFT DINNER ROLLS (12 Rolls)

In this heartfelt episode of Too Stubborn to Quit, Pam and Linda talk about a reality that too many older adults face — being too proud or too private to ask for help when the cupboard’s bare. Food insecurity among seniors is growing, but it often stays hidden behind quiet pride and independence.

We talk about why so many struggle in silence, what “asking for help” really means, and how small acts of kindness — checking on a neighbor, sharing a meal, donating to a local food bank — can make a huge difference.

💬 If you or someone you know is hungry, you are not alone. Help is available through feedingamerica.org, mealsonwheelsamerica.org, or by calling 211 in the U.S.

Because no one should ever be too stubborn to ask — or go hungry.

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It’s our Halloween special! 👻 Pam and Linda swap road trips for ghost stories and share how being “too stubborn to be spooked” keeps life fun after 50. From haunted inns to campfire laughs, this episode proves that curiosity, courage, and a good scare never get old.

They call themselves Old Ladies Against Underwater Garbage — but there’s nothing “old” about this crew’s energy or mission. In this episode of Too Stubborn to Quit, Pam and Linda dive deep (pun intended) with OLAUG founder Susan Baur to talk about courage, community, and cleaning up the planet one piece of trash at a time. Hear how these women turned purpose into adventure — and why getting older just means getting braver.

💬 Have a story of your own about breaking stereotypes or chasing a mission that matters? Email us — we’d love to feature you! just drop a line at [email protected]

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They say time softens everything — our edges, our energy, our hair color. We’re here to say: not so fast. In this episode, Pam and Linda tackle the myths about aging head-on and with plenty of laughter. From those first silver strands to the moments when society assumes you’ve lost your spark, the conversation dives into what it really means to grow older without giving in. They share personal stories of reinvention, the freedom that comes with caring less about what others think, and how humor keeps them steady when the mirror or the media tries to tell a different story. Expect a mix of real talk and joyful defiance — the kind that reminds listeners that change is inevitable, but fading is optional.

Listeners will walk away feeling seen, energized, and ready to celebrate every season of life. Pam and Linda explore practical ways to keep momentum and curiosity alive: trying new things, starting long-delayed projects, or saying yes to adventures that used to feel out of reach. They talk about embracing confidence that comes from experience, finding beauty in authenticity, and remembering that midlife and beyond isn’t a slowdown — it’s a turning point. Whether you’re discovering a new hobby, hitting the road for a weekend trip, or finally giving yourself permission to shine, this episode is a nudge to keep moving, laughing, and chasing what lights you up. Because hair may fade, but purpose, passion, and stubborn determination never do.

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They say women our age should slow down, stay quiet, and fade into the background.
Not happening.

Welcome to Too Stubborn to Quit — the podcast for women who are living louder, dreaming bigger, and proving that getting older doesn’t mean slowing down; it means finally doing life on your own terms.

We’re Pam and Linda — two women who’ve worked hard, raised families, worn a few titles, and picked up some calluses along the way. We’ve also picked up a lot of stories — the kind you can’t keep to yourself once you realize how many women out there feel exactly the same way: capable, curious, and a little bit underestimated.

This show is for every woman who’s ever looked around and thought, “Wait a minute… I’m not done yet.”
Because you’re not.
Not even close.

Each week, we dive into the real side of life after 50 — and what it really means to live louder, bolder, and more adventurous. Some episodes are about work: staying sharp, starting over, or figuring out what comes next when the world thinks you should be winding down. Some are about travel: the road trips, the dream destinations, and the small adventures that remind you you’re still out there living it. And some are just about laughter — the kind that comes from two women who’ve seen enough to know you can either cry about it or make a great story out of it.

We’ll talk about visibility — because too many women feel like they’ve faded into the background somewhere between raising families and trying to be “graceful” about aging. Spoiler: we’re not graceful, and we’re fine with that. We’re loud, we’re stubborn, and we’re here to remind you that visibility isn’t about being noticed — it’s about showing up exactly as you are.

You’ll also hear about chasing the second act: learning new skills, picking up new passions, and saying yes to things that used to scare you. From camping trips and road maps to bucket lists and career pivots, we’ll remind you that “someday” is now. It’s never too late to become who you were meant to be.

And yes, we’ll talk about the messy parts — the doubts, the wrinkles, the “what now?” moments — because pretending it’s all perfect doesn’t help anyone. What does help is knowing there’s a whole community of women out there doing this life thing right alongside you.

If you’ve ever wanted to start something new, take a risk, or just laugh with women who get it, this podcast is your permission slip. We’ll give you stories that inspire, advice that feels real, and a nudge (or maybe a shove) to take that next step — whatever it looks like for you.

Because here’s the truth: you don’t fade with age; you evolve. You don’t lose your spark; you learn how to aim it. And you don’t quit — not when there’s still so much road ahead.

So whether you’re driving to work, folding laundry, or planning your next great escape, plug in and hang out with us. We’re Pam and Linda — and we’re Too Stubborn to Quit.

Because fading into the background?
Not us.
Not now.
Not ever.

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